Parenting - March 2007

2007-03-04 03:07:25 · 38 answers · asked by socmum16 ♪ 5

This has been going on for over a year now. I have caught my step-daughter touching my sons penis and even more then that. She ask him to touch her also. She is 9 and he is 6.
My husband and I have sat them both down and explained in a way that wouldn't hurt them as an adult about the subject.
The other day, I discovered that my son was under the bed, while my step daughter was foundlying him. I am out of answers, we have told them that this has got to stop, and she just wont. I feel that I watch them like a hawk all the time. I have set boundiers, nothing has worked. We now have seperated them, she is at her grandmothers until we can come up with a soliution. I feel she is just way to young to be doing this, she has even been in trouble at school for kissing boys on the playground.
Any suggestions would be helpful.

2007-03-04 02:48:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

my daughters almost 4 her father and i were never married or never lived together his name is not on the bithcertificate and she has my last name. but now the state (i only have it for medical) is going after him for child support and he told them he was the father but he wants a DNA test. he said if he has to pay child support then he said he wants her to have his last name and visitation. can the court make me change her last name? also i want him to have supervised visitation her fother and i have a no contact order right now for him harassing me he also, i do not know who goes in and out of his house they smoke weed there i know for a fact. not to mention he gets mad wont let us leave and holds us (hastage) takes my keys. phone, money ect he has also broking my phone so i could not call the cops this can last for hours we r screeming to let us leave (my babys crying) would it be better just to drop the child support so he will have to take me to court (he wont pay to do that)

2007-03-04 02:42:04 · 8 answers · asked by amymamagurl 2

Do you put your kids in the size clothes that go with their age? Like if child is 12 or 18 months do u put them in 24 months sizes etc. etc. I have never gone by the clothing size cause they shrink and some are made small. My son is 100% in age group. He is 2 1/2 and wears 4 or 5T shirts and 3T pants. Anyone else like this. 2 and 3T shirts shrink and show his belly. He is very slim but tall. I am 5'10 and dad is 6'3. I am about to have a girl and have been buying her clothes bigger too. Just curious to see how many others do this.

2007-03-04 02:38:30 · 10 answers · asked by momof3 1

when you´re older, or do you want more kids?

2007-03-04 01:09:33 · 14 answers · asked by Patrik S 2

why all the questions below?


Most of these all stem from attiudes from when I was 13,14,15,17,28,20 24 etc...


No devient peado crap.


Ie things like when I was in school tricked into saying things like I would want a blow jb when grew up or a durex was a battery by older kids.


Not knowing what all elase did.


Seeing everyone else fall in love, couple up and be happy.


Seeing all those with hippy open minded parents etc do well.


Seeing all those with strict repressive, head in the sands, tottally out of touch with realtiy parents all end up with messed up kids who now need councilling, had emotional break downs, ended up unable to form relatioships, depressed, or got pregnant in teens.


Hence the attitude and posting all these questions.


Plus having to deal with all these kids getting pregnant as don't knowll they need to know,.

Seeing things like thsese teacher and student realtioships work out into marriage kids and happy ever after when

2007-03-03 21:39:21 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

why the girls are so sensitive.

2007-03-03 20:55:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

what age is a good age to tell your kids what sex is

2007-03-03 20:54:26 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Recently at a party I saw a 14 months old baby drinking coke cola in her bottle and another (3 years old) toddler drinking endless cans of coke cola all night. She must have drunk about 6 cans while I was there but she could have drunk more before or after I had left.

Don't you think its wrong for young children to be drinking drinks like that especially with all that sugar and caffine. It's like giving them coffee and drugs!

2007-03-03 20:53:45 · 39 answers · asked by _ 4

my ten year old kid is wanting to have sex
i did not even know that she know what it was
she must of herd it at school

2007-03-03 20:22:42 · 29 answers · asked by TAYLA R 1

I let my kids watch the simpions and other
shows like that (oldes 10 years youngest is 8)
thay have had very bad launguage
i do not know if it is the shows thay are watching
or at there school
can you give me some help to settle them down
me and my hubby can not handle it

2007-03-03 19:34:51 · 20 answers · asked by TAYLA R 1

Quantitatively speaking. Is there an upper limit?

2007-03-03 19:29:39 · 4 answers · asked by Ejsenstejn 2

im a single mum i want to move out of the country but i dont know if i can do that with out her dads permission

2007-03-03 18:31:01 · 5 answers · asked by ? 2

When I was a child, everyone I knew was spanked on their bottoms with their pants down... I don't agree with it at all and was recently informed by another mother of a "layered cake" method?! Why do people still spank their children?

2007-03-03 18:27:34 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why does my child touch herself in private places? She doesn't always just touch either.

2007-03-03 18:16:54 · 12 answers · asked by M C 1

My sister in law cannot carry a child. She has viable eggs. I have been thinking for a long time now that i would like to carry a child for her. I would not have a problem handing over a child if it was not my biological child.The baby would be going to a loving stable home with two parents. I am sure of this. I have had five babies of my own and enjoyed being pregnant. But i will not have any more of my own. So my question is how would you go about getting artifically inseminated in Qld or Nsw. Who would do it. And is it legal.I just want a few facts before i mention this to my sister in law. I know for sure that i want to do this and that i am capeable of doing this, and will probably go ahead, legal or not if she wants me to. Just doing a bit of background work.

2007-03-03 17:57:11 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am going to have and I am only planning on having 2 beautiful kids someday! but only when I am fincally ready and when I am older. do you like these names for kids.

Daughters:
Katie Rose Backstrom
Celeste Marie Backstrom

Sons
Michael Shawn Backstorm
Michael Aaron Backstrom

2007-03-03 17:33:46 · 13 answers · asked by michael's girlfriend 1

what are some disadvantages/advantages?

i would like answers that are from personal experience if possible.

I am a single parent, and I am doing a presentation and would like other's opinions.

2007-03-03 17:23:50 · 13 answers · asked by just using YA for school 1

2007-03-03 16:41:52 · 18 answers · asked by Maggie 1

is it harmful for kids to see their parents naked?

2007-03-03 15:54:55 · 24 answers · asked by Jason Bourne 5

if the want to adopt and are against abortion?

2007-03-03 15:34:42 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

i let my son go to a basketball game in shorts and short sleeve shirt and sneakers and no socks the weather was 58 out when we went in and 44 when the game was over and very windy he was not the only kid wearing shorts there were others was i wrong

2007-03-03 14:32:27 · 19 answers · asked by get it 1

Just a question i was wondering about

2007-03-03 14:01:34 · 18 answers · asked by twomanythings123 1

She refuses to do anything I ask for and cries and has tantrums. I have been a loving, caring, affectionate mother, and always set up fun activities for them to do - even if it means cleaning paint off everything. I want my kids to have fun. Yet when I am stern about cleaning up or going to bed she goes crazy. She is nearly 7 years old. Also, she wets her pants - not a lot but enough to have change her pants 2 or 3 times a day.

2007-03-03 14:00:13 · 20 answers · asked by sunny 2

The cat never went near the baby until now, all of a sudden we caught him in her crib when we woke up in the morning. and lately he has been chewing up her toys, nuk, teething ring, etc... what can i do short of getting rid of him he is a good cat but i'm worried he is jealous or something. please help!!!!!!!

2007-03-03 14:00:09 · 7 answers · asked by meme142 2

2007-03-03 13:21:26 · 29 answers · asked by Dee Brat 2

having oral sex with her 17 year old boyfriend. What to do?

2007-03-03 12:45:41 · 29 answers · asked by hotmama 1

2007-03-03 12:11:16 · 30 answers · asked by Pooper 1

I have two sisters. Corrie has 2 kids, 4 and 6. Kelly has a 1 year old.

Corrie is always giving her used stuff to Kelly (crib & changing table, clothes, etc.) Recently she gave Kelly a big box of hand-me-down toys.

A few months later, Corrie's 4 year old asked where one of the toys was because he missed it. Corrie asked Kelly if the baby uses it and she said no.

So Corrie asked if she could have it back and she said yes. Then something happened and suddenly now Kelly's saying that the baby loves it and she's going to keep it.

I can see both sides, but i think I see one side a little more. What do YOU think should happen?

2007-03-03 11:53:07 · 28 answers · asked by Hot Lips 4077 5

I am trying to research a couple of herbal suppliments used to help children with ADD/ADHD. They are not listed on the FDA website and I was wondering if vitamin suppliments do not need the FDAs approval. Also, does anyone know where I can find (credible) information about the vitamin suppliments called Focus for children, made by Solaray? Thanks guys!

2007-03-03 11:00:51 · 8 answers · asked by Laceyfromcali 4