why all the questions below?
Most of these all stem from attiudes from when I was 13,14,15,17,28,20 24 etc...
No devient peado crap.
Ie things like when I was in school tricked into saying things like I would want a blow jb when grew up or a durex was a battery by older kids.
Not knowing what all elase did.
Seeing everyone else fall in love, couple up and be happy.
Seeing all those with hippy open minded parents etc do well.
Seeing all those with strict repressive, head in the sands, tottally out of touch with realtiy parents all end up with messed up kids who now need councilling, had emotional break downs, ended up unable to form relatioships, depressed, or got pregnant in teens.
Hence the attitude and posting all these questions.
Plus having to deal with all these kids getting pregnant as don't knowll they need to know,.
Seeing things like thsese teacher and student realtioships work out into marriage kids and happy ever after when
2007-03-03 21:39:21 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
people butt out finally and leave them alone.
Ie cant see why if it was a bad thing for one teacher to date a mature late 15 year old who ended up getting married, staying together 20 years, having a few kids and the girls defending him all the way as abusive.
I base attudes to those 16/17 dating 20 somethings on watching mates of both ages ie so in sos sister dating other mate...
All I saw if first to mates lonley, then two mates happy.
So therefore see it as good.
The nightclubs I went to in the rock and metal scene had couples making out left right and centre, most of whom were 16/17.
And in our clubs, no fights, no troucble, no gangs, & hardly if any drugs., plus no drunken yobs.
Plus teaching values like looking after each other, the older, more exp, stronger looking after younger, less exp, weaker.
Political music making you politically aware. Non judgmental.
Seeing things like backpacker clubs ie wet t shirt, getting people together if on own
2007-03-03 21:44:14 · update #1
Say instead of turning up in pub on onw and not speaking to anyone as all in groups... they guys all have a lauh when the girls do the wet t shirt types stuff togther.
As do the girls during the wet boxer/full monty.
whoever gets on stage to do anything inc east horrible stuff elimination games all having fun and then all wan tto chat to them.
These enviroments helping people couple up and mix.
Whilst in normal clubs all keep to their own and not so friendly.
Seeing in hippy like raves where ecstacy is often floating around...
All being nice and friendly and colourful and fun.
And I was sober so cant see what the problem is.
In clubs of the alternative mad coloured hair and tattoos type etc.
The people wwere very nice and freidnly whislt in the trendy smart dress ones there were all fights, bitchyness, threatening unfriendly behavour.
Ie So why do people not base attiudes of stuff like that.
& think me or say anyone else bringing up topic
2007-03-03 21:49:26 · update #2
As some kind of threat
Instead of someone basing opinions n what they observed that was in directopposition to commonly held beleifs and attiudes.
Ie real abusers aint the ones pushing for full sex ed or saying look if 20 something and 16 year old daughter are happy Im happy.
its the smart, piller of the community, proper behaving ones with the collection of baby porn and ghurting people who are bad, often priest, nuns and respected types oh and parents, or even kids the same age
2007-03-03 21:51:53 · update #3
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THE PINT OF THIS IS i HAVE SEVERAL QUESTIONS IN THE PARENT SECTION AND PEOPLE GETTING THE WRONG IDEA OF WHERE IM COMMING FROM AND MOTIVATION SO SAYING HEY THIS IS WHY , HOW COME YOU DONT THINK THE SAME AS WILL HAVE SEEN THE SAME STUFF.
2007-03-03 22:00:54 · update #4
Nice book, where's the question.
2007-03-05 04:45:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think people are finding it difficult to undertstand your points of view, because you have so much to say. Further you have not really posted a question as such. However I agree with you, in quite a few cases many supposedly "pillars of the community" who try to dictate how others should behave, end up being the perverts or worst offenders in our society. I also agree that we should live and let live, so long as no-one is being forced or coerced into doing something that they feel unhappy with, or will ultimately harm them in any way.
2007-03-04 15:24:37 · answer #2 · answered by helen b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I haven't got the brains to actually work out why you are so distressed about others. Keep your own doorstep clean, and get on with your life and live by your own decent morality. Let the rest of those "deviants" go to hell in a handcart. I would love to meet you and make you laugh!!! Chill, sweetie X
2007-03-04 15:05:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone else totally punch-drunk after reading this? The grammar and punctuation made your questions and points virtually impossible to understand in the first place; and I really don't know what you're trying to say.
2007-03-04 06:30:43 · answer #4 · answered by chip2001 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
What do you keep talking about? Are you a parent?
I really don't get your long, long questions.
2007-03-04 06:00:51 · answer #5 · answered by ஐ♥Julian'sMommy♥ஐ 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
What are you talking about? Makes no sense
2007-03-04 09:08:05 · answer #6 · answered by Proud Mother 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What?...I don´t understand the question
2007-03-04 09:11:37 · answer #7 · answered by Patrik S 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I just don't understand the question!
2007-03-04 05:57:04 · answer #8 · answered by C Greene 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Wooow, too long to read, too confusing.
2007-03-04 05:57:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You're weird honey.
2007-03-04 05:42:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋