Weddings - October 2007

I'm getting married and want to pick an amazing song for the father daughter dance. My step dad has been in my life since i was 15. He is an amazing man. what would be a really good song for us to dance too?

2007-10-20 06:16:34 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I meet my gf daily & we do kissing groping etc everyday in the car. She seems to be more interested in sexual touches.
we meet six days a week.
we will marry after 8-9 months.
PLEASE SUGGEST me what other activities we can do so that we get a feeling that we are not just meeting for one thing.
Please suggest a cost effective solution

2007-10-20 06:13:54 · 39 answers · asked by lovely 1

I have a few friends and sadly to say they are not great friends. Last week they all said they would come over and then at all different times they bailed on me to hang out with other people! or they come for 30 min and leave. Im so confused on who to pick. One girl i have known since 2nd grade but we are not close as before. One girl i met last year and i hung out with her more than any other friend and could always call her but now she is always busy and i asked her to be my MOH and now it might be a mistake. It sucks cause my fiance choose all his guys cause they are very loyal to him. but my girls seem like they just dont care. I think its because we are all pretty young and im the only one who is engaged and they would all rather party and meet guys and im passed that stage. But still they never want to hang out with me. SO how can I pick the girls??

2007-10-20 05:49:23 · 12 answers · asked by ? 2

2007-10-20 05:43:48 · 6 answers · asked by the bride to be 2

There is a special event going on nov 11th for wedding dreses. The dresses are worth $400-4,000 and they are all on sale for $250 for the one day. I asked my maid of honor 2 go and i got no responce (text message). I asked again and she said "whos going? and i have to see if i have work" The thing is she works at cvs and if she needs to go out with other friends she takes the day off she even lied and said her grandmother is sick once to go out with a friend. So I told her she should switch days now, way in advance so its not a problem. she never text back so then I said did u get my message. She said "listen i will try to go it i don't have work" I totally understand she has work but this is a one time thing its very important. and i feel like she just doesnt want to go. Do u think she should change her work day ONCE for me? Now she is going let me know the very last minute because she wont know if she has work until that week! isnt that mean of her?

2007-10-20 04:57:02 · 22 answers · asked by ? 2

We are getting married in his hometown's Methodist church which is 4 hours away from where we live now. Me being Baptist, I dont fully understand the Methodist rules. Can anyone explain to me the rules of the church such as music, paying the church, and other subjects that maybe different from baptist? Thanks!

2007-10-20 04:51:18 · 8 answers · asked by Red Sunshine 27 1

Tension is high because of our money problems. We need some inspiration and motivation. Any ideas?

2007-10-20 04:10:14 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-20 03:33:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Some of you might already be married so tell us what you said on your joyous day.

2007-10-20 03:26:54 · 8 answers · asked by ? 3

Should I write:

Mr. and Mrs. Joe and Ann Smith
or
Joe and Ann Smith
?
Does it really matter?

2007-10-20 03:20:05 · 13 answers · asked by LoLo 4

I am in charge of finding a place for my friends wedding, something not too pricey and where the ceremony and reception can both be held. Does and have any suggestions?

2007-10-20 02:56:10 · 6 answers · asked by Sheyla 1

I posted a question a few days back about a girl that I have only known for a few mos. asked me to be in her wedding and it is costing me an arm and a leg and she is treating me like a piece of crap. Ok...now there is another girl at work that is getting married and I have a huge feeling that she is going to aske me to be in HER wedding. How do I turn her down politely? Money shouldn't be an issue in this wedding because I don't think she is doing anything elaborate. So I don't think that me not being able to afford it would be a good excuse. I really like her but I just don't want to be in another wedding. Please offer some ways to turn her down easy and still keep her respect and keep her as a friend at work.

2007-10-20 02:14:33 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am looking for a Bridal Registry, I know there are a few on here and many people are starting to do them they are usually free but I have not been able to find one.

I saw some that were over 500.00 and I really did not want to have to spend extra money but have family from NY to CA and they really need the Registry plus it takes a big headache off me the Bride when friends and family can just go there and see what I am up to.

I have seen all the Store Registries and this is not what I am looking for, I want a site that I can build personally and put all my info on sort of like a myspace only that people can also leave me money and purchase gifts for me from my wish list.

I have seen them but they cost so much money, they are very beautiful and it would be a lovely keepsake for me and my family to have and stay in touch since I am a year away from my wedding.

If anyone knows of a good one please let me know, thanks.

2007-10-20 00:28:32 · 7 answers · asked by jonne h 1

2007-10-19 20:37:52 · 10 answers · asked by anjali 2

A friend's six year old daughter will be serving as a flower girl at her sister's wedding tomorrow. Is this legal? Someone said that she was too old and I am afraid that the wedding will be raided by the State Police. That's the last thing we need!!!

If raided, will the six year old be breaking the law or the couple getting married? Or does the liability fall on the wedding planner? Or perhaps the girl's parents? Please help!!

2007-10-19 20:17:17 · 21 answers · asked by bartmcqueary 3

i have a open bar at my wedding but the bar isnt in my room

how could i let the bar see that my party drinks free?

i was thiking a card like a bussiness card tht says like my wedding date and to bring to the bar or the possibly o a bracelet er something

its in a bout 2 weks cant order anything any ideas?

2007-10-19 18:53:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

my boyfriend and i have discussed our strong desire to be married in 2010. i will graduate college in 09 and he plans to propose to me close to graduation. i'm just curious as to what your thoughts are for after the proposal...how soon do you move in together? or do you wait til youre married?

i know it "all depends on the couple" but in general terms (or in your person opinion from experience) what's the basic timeline going to be like after he proposes? thanks!

2007-10-19 18:45:25 · 26 answers · asked by niugirl1114 3

2007-10-19 18:39:03 · 29 answers · asked by expert c 1

I am so serious...i have a large family...but don't want any of them to come to my wedding....read and you'll understand
I told them next year...Sept 21,2008... I am getting married.Everything from...not dressing up to..better have alcohol there was all up in the air. My family is poor, but my new inlaws are not. We have agreed to spend $5000 to get make over and new clothing for everyone. No one wants to do it. They are all over weight...and don;'t care. Not hygenic (embarrased to tell ya that) and refuse to get make up and hair done. My dad refuses to go..if he can't have alcohol, There is so much more,i don't have space or time . They are the most disfunctinal family ever.Younger sister wants money...although i am paying for everything. They all have truck drivers mouths... My to be In-laws are very religious...that wont work. I don;t know what to do...they don't care and i am really set on paying people to stand in. Our families have not really met. So my in laws wont know...

2007-10-19 18:20:19 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

Reception Site A-about one hour away from ceremony site.
Includes: 5 hour Open Bar, Champagne Toast, Wine at Tables, Flowers, Color Coordinated Linens and Bridal Suite.
Cocktail Hour w/ cheese and cracker display
Appetizers-1 hot and 1 cold (This is a sit down dinner)
Salad Course
Pasta Course
Entrees-Choice of Chicken, Prime Rib or Shrimp (all served w/ sides)
Dessert-Cake we supply (but they offer ice cream, coffee and hot tea)
Total Reception Time-Cocktail Hour 6-7pm, dinner and dancing 7-11pm. Cost $69 (per person) plus tax and gratuity.

Reception Site B: only 20 minutes away from ceremony
Open Bar, Color Coordinated Linens, Wine at Tables, Champagne Toast
Cocktail Hour- Assorted cheese and crackers, Veggie Crudite w/ dipping sauces, Fresh Fruit display
Appetizer-Salad (Sit Down)
Pasta Course (not included, we would add it on)
Entree-Chicken, Pork, Salmon
Dessert-coffee and tea....we supply cake.
Same deal-cocktail hour-1 hour, dinner/dancing-4 hour

2007-10-19 17:55:19 · 11 answers · asked by Je Adore 2

I can't wait until the day of my wedding.
I can't wait until I get my first house.
I can't wait until I can watch my child grow up.
I can't wait to be a cool mom.
I can't wait to be a grandma who does crafts with their grand babies.
I can't wait until I get to be old so I can reflect on my life.

am I the only one who feels like your much older than you really are?
I feel as if I am 20 years old traped in a 13 years body.
I want to be able to live a life on my own.
So for now I am waiting to be grown up.
Does anyone els feel the same way?

2007-10-19 17:34:09 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why do the majority of people buy their dress from David's Bridal? I see people on here all the time saying 'I bought my dress from davids' or 'this is my dress' with a link to davids bridal. I have seen the site and the dresses all look pretty standard, that is pretty but not wow! Why is it so popular?

2007-10-19 17:05:20 · 21 answers · asked by Stiffler 6

And when I pick what I want in the wedding (photographer) she over rides it and than says "it's the girls job to plan the wedding" Is this true?

2007-10-19 16:39:19 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

well im 16 y/o now and i have my girlfriend since im 14..we plan tohave sex soon..im not sure if were ready..my older bro said that i use a condom for protection and he also said its not 100%. my mom know just lately that i have a girlfriend when i bring her home for school work..well she did not disagree but i read in her actions that she dont like it..if we have sex and she get pregnant..can we marry?? where will i get money to feed my family when everything i needed is provided by my parents..what now??

2007-10-19 14:16:00 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

Invitation says ..
At Brides Request
any food that can be brought will be greatly appreciated.this will be a Pot Luck event.Upon R.S.V.P please let us know what you would bring.
Thank you so much!

2007-10-19 13:16:26 · 27 answers · asked by Carey H 1

I have made a huge mistake:(. I got to know the sweetest girl who is the fiancee of my future brother in law. I knew it right away that I wanted her to be my maid of honour even though I known her for only like 5 months.

However, I was advised that I should think about choosing my best friend instead who I known for years. Of course that made sense to me so I did ask her. But when I did, it just did not feel right...its weird. I explained to her what it meant to be a maid of honour (stagette etc) and told her its ok if she wants to wait with her answer since she is graduating around that time. Now, she is thinking about it. I know the first girl wouldn't even think about that....

How on Earth could I ask the first girl now? I was always so careful to make sure everybody is happy and now I made a huge mess. Please advise me what can I tell her now? I feel so terrible:'(I don't want to hurt either but I don't want to regret anything either.

2007-10-19 12:50:53 · 22 answers · asked by jj 1

Im going to my cousins wedding tommorow. I was basically forced into it, due to the guilt trip by all my family members. I am a single mom, and i work a LOT...we get by just fine, but i dont have a lot of extra money. I got her a card, and examined my budget to see what i can afford to give her...and thats 20 bucks. Is it like a slap in the face to get 20 bucks as a wedding gift? Should i give it, or give just the card? She isnt expecting much from me, as that was one of the conditions when i reluctantly agreed to go to the wedding...i just dont want to be rude...which would be better? Both me and my son are attending, so its for 2 people.

2007-10-19 12:35:30 · 28 answers · asked by Jessica 3

Me and my fiance have been to so many places, we need ideas...

2007-10-19 12:31:55 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know that he cannot afford to spend a whole lot of money on a ring. I don't want a huge massively expensive ring. He thinks I am just saying that to be nice. I think that any more than .5 carat is way more than enough. He asks me at the jewlery counter which one I like----- what do I do?

2007-10-19 11:16:29 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

My hubbie and I just moved from my Florida where my famuly leave and we are in 12 hours away. My family want to spend the holidays with is and my hubbie got mad at me due to that he wants to spend it alone with me. What should I do, if I want to spend with both of them.

2007-10-19 11:11:29 · 12 answers · asked by cookielove1430 1