My guy and I have been together 7 yr and have recently been talking seriously about our wedding. We have been waiting, until we were "stable". My guy is on the verge of a big promotion (salary and company car), which should come through by the end of the year, and we were going to officially declare our engagement then. We just received a call that his younger brother and his girl have become engaged and plan to marry May '09. While I am happy for them, I am very upset because I don't want to "scoop" them, but had been hoping for June '09 (if not 08) . Plus my mom had a close call with breast cancer last year and has never fully recovered, and my dad is 70yrs old and had both knees replaced and I'm not sure how much longer he would be able to actually walk me down the aisle. Can we ask them to delay their wedding, or if it would be okay for us to have ours before their's. One concern is his family which would have to fly in and I don't want to ask them to twice in one year
2007-10-19
09:21:23
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