I meet my gf daily & we do kissing groping etc everyday in the car. She seems to be more interested in sexual touches.
we meet six days a week.
we will marry after 8-9 months.
PLEASE SUGGEST me what other activities we can do so that we get a feeling that we are not just meeting for one thing.
Please suggest a cost effective solution
2007-10-19 07:27:29 · 9 answers · asked by lovely 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Kindly Advise activities to be done together
2007-10-19 07:44:31 · update #1
Ok, first off, this kind of play in the car shouldn't escolate into sex this early on. Second, I am sure you can wait another 8-9 months. Be a gentleman and don't expect to start a sexual relationship in the car, start one at your home, or atleast hers. Do either of you live by your self? I am assuming that you two haven't had sex before, atleast with each other.
Most importantly though.. TALK TO HER. Find out what she wants, if she wants to wait or wants it at a better spot than in your car.
Also, take her out to movies, to hang out without any kind of sexual contact intended, to dinners, to meet your friends or her friends, and the sex will come naturaly.
2007-10-19 07:48:06 · answer #1 · answered by Todd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should know how you're feeling. I think you would know if it was more than just someone to mess around with. Do you two go out to dinner, the movies, and hang out without fooling around? If the answer is no, then I don;t think it's much more than anything physical. You have to build a relationship around friendship and trust---if it is just physical, then what do you really get out of it?
2007-10-19 07:47:19 · answer #2 · answered by bubblestea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A cost effective solution other than sex? How bout a picnic in the park, bowling, movies, having lunch or dinner together I dunno.. make something up. Whey are you marrying after 8-9 months? That is barely enough time to get to know somebody.
2007-10-19 09:18:13 · answer #3 · answered by musicgrl42002 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A cost effective solution? Wow, cheap and horny. You're quite a catch lol. Try the movies, bowling, going out for walks, hiking, the beach.... Take her out to a nice restaurant... (maybe even McDonald's)
2007-10-19 07:32:49 · answer #4 · answered by Jasmine808 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
What is wrong with meeting for just one thing?!?!? There are hotels that rent rooms by the hour...try that instead of doing it in your car.
2007-10-19 07:52:02 · answer #5 · answered by Frinn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y dont u and ur girlfriend take it slow, get to know her before u bed her. take her on romance dates and things like that dont rush into a relationship because it might not work out the way that you and her plan so take it nice and slow
2007-10-19 07:34:04 · answer #6 · answered by Mother of 3 boyz 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should try games or sports.
like....hiking, rock climbing, bowling, miniature golf or fishing. something to ease the mind and get to know one another mentally.
2007-10-19 07:35:34 · answer #7 · answered by Cindo 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Use your tongue boo... or FINGERS they work wonders
2007-10-19 07:35:54 · answer #8 · answered by LLorona 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
money can't buy love.
2007-10-19 07:37:50 · answer #9 · answered by Cheryl d 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋