Marriage & Divorce - 21 December 2007

or am i just fooling myself?

2007-12-21 15:49:52 · 13 answers · asked by thecrazylady 2

I love this girl...would even like to marry her. But my business partner (who is female) and my girl friend just can't get along. I mean, it's bad... it disrupts my work, my social life, everything. My girl friend is a little insecure about the business partner, and I can understand that. The woman used to be in love with me (but the feeling wasn't mutual). I don't want to leave the girl friend or the business I have helped create...I love the one, and need the other. Any suggestions on how to resolve this?

2007-12-21 15:46:52 · 11 answers · asked by trustedhacker 2

My sex life is getting boring. We've been together for almost 5 years and I'm getting to where I wish he would get his buisness done and get off of me. I've tried to talk to him about me being bored, but he thinks that everything is fine. I'm getting to the point where I'm wanting to cheat just for the excitment. Please if anyone has any ideas to spice it up or any way to get him to listen, please let me know. I'm in need of your help I don't want to cheat.

2007-12-21 15:38:03 · 19 answers · asked by Shannon W 2

Should I tell my fiance' that my last relationship was with a co-worker? When I'm going thru work issues related with this past relationship- I feel as if I'm keeping Secrets by not telling my fiance' the entire story- I want to leave this job and sometimes feel that's when I should bring up the subject... My fiance' has been very open about his past relationships and at the time I wasn't ready to tell him because I was worried that he would be paranoid about the co worker.

2007-12-21 15:29:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-21 15:24:41 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you were married, how many children would you choose to have?
(Why?)

2007-12-21 15:11:58 · 24 answers · asked by è¡ ³ 1

A thank you, hand shake or a kiss on the cheek? If she did one of these 3, what would her thoughts of the married male be with each type of thank you?

2007-12-21 15:10:25 · 16 answers · asked by kruzen54 1

We've been together for almost 2 years. I have the feeling some times that he will propose soon. He will travel this Christmas to my country to meet my mom.
I adore this man and he has been faithful and devoted to me. Often I think he is the love of my life. However he has the annoying habit to look at pretty girls, especially when he is with his male buddies. Last August I broke up with him because he was frecuently looking at porn, so I thought he was an addict, but he assured me he did not really need to look at porn and promissed to give it up completely (his idea, I didn't ask) and so far I think he has kept his word.
Sometimes he turns his head to see a pretty woman and that makes me feel insecure.
Perhaps I am being paranoid? I know I have some trusting issues.

I told him recently that I feel disrespected and unconfortable when he checks out other women and he said that it is a reflex, and that he does not mean to hurt me, but because it bothers me he will change.

2007-12-21 15:00:24 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I have been married for 18 years. I just found out (by his confession) that he has been sleeping with my cousin (who's 17 years younger than him). To make it even worse, he told me that they've been having an affair off and on for the past 12 years, since she was 19 years old. He's been screwing her for 3/4 of our marriage!!!!! He claims that he loves both of us, but that what he feels for her is like nothing he's ever felt in his life. He acted like she has some sort of control over him that he can't let go. He's told me that he doesn't want a divorce and wants to be there with me and raise our children together. He says he will stop all contact with my cousin (the skanky slut). I don't believe him. I want to divorce him as soon as possible. How can he expect me to stay with him after what he told me? Does he really believe he can leave her alone when she has so much "control" over him? What do you think? I think he's full of $hit!!!!

2007-12-21 14:57:17 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

straight to the point , my little brother & husband can't get along for nothing& I am sick of it already, I been with my husband for 9 ys and married only for a couple of mo , it bothers me that he doesn't get along with my 17 year old brother who lives with since the passing of my grandmother in june ,prior to that they always fought , my brother hate him for no reason ,he always disrespectful no matter how nice my hubby tries to be. My husband want to kick him out because he gets violent&uses bad language around our 5yr old, I know it not healthy &if he had someplace else to go I would , but I can't we lost alot of our family members , Mother & father 7 years ago & brother ,I feel as through I am all he has. even though sometimes he doesn't appreciate it.I love him to death , and the stress is becoming to much. I have alot to deal with , I am 9 mos pregnant and I can't take it anymore help.I don't know what to, My husband says he's moving out ,I don't want to lose either of them

2007-12-21 14:41:50 · 20 answers · asked by Killaboo 2

My boyfriend has been talking a lot about getting married lately, and I am afraid of that little glint in his eyes. However, I'm not really big on marriage, love...those things. My parents have been married for years but have argued and said they hated each other since the day I was born. So, I can't really model a good marriage off of that. So, why did you get married? And are you happy? The whole thought of marriage makes me sick to my stomach but I'm trying to get over it.

2007-12-21 14:41:01 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm atheist, and thinking of asking my girlfriend to get married. Is it legal ? If so, who would perform the ceremony?

2007-12-21 14:37:37 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

We've been together for almost 2 years. I have the feeling some times that he will propose soon. He will travel this Christmas to my country to meet my mom.
I adore this man and he has been faithful and devoted to me. However he has the annoying habit to look at pretty girls, especially when he is with his male buddies. Last August I broke up with him because he was frecuently looking at porn, so I thought he was an addict, but he assured me he did not really need to look at porn and promissed to give it up completely (his idea, I didn't ask) and so far I think he has kept his word.
Sometimes he turns his head to see a pretty woman and that makes me feel insecure.
Perhaps I am being paranoid? I know I have some trusting issues.

I told him recently that I feel disrespected and unconfortable when he checks out other women and he said that it is a reflex, and that he does not mean to hurt me, but because it bothers me he will control himself.

2007-12-21 14:36:48 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I have been together for 9 years and just married this October. It's been a rocky 6 months for us. He has been very nasty and verbally abusive. He is not himself. Two weeks ago we had a horrible argument where we both said extremely hurtful damaging things to each other. I couldn't take it anymore and I stooped down to his level. We didn't speak for a week after. Before our argument, we discussed moving to another apartment in the building. So our lease was up last week and I needed to respond to them, so I asked them to transfer us to the other apartment.

Now my husband is saying that I got another apartment without him and that he is going to an extended stay for a while. We are both so hurt, but we are married. We need to work though this issues and if we have any chance of making it we need to go to counseling. He told me that he refuses to go and will let me know next month if he can even consider working things out.

2007-12-21 14:32:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

what is ur favorite part of that movie???? mine is when his secret came out about the VD he had and was burning and she said no u didnt get it from kiasha u got it from walter lol and he said i am not g*y and she said no but i slept with him and got it and got a shot already u got it from me i was waiting to see how long it was going to take u to tell me u have it lmao ha ha ha ha ha i love it that was soooooo wrong but funny as sh*t

2007-12-21 14:28:37 · 5 answers · asked by ~*Strips aka Peanut*~ 4

2007-12-21 14:26:31 · 13 answers · asked by Camelot 1

1 of my friends is suppose 2 be able 2 C his children every other weekend. He has had trouble with jobs, because he is in school and has had car trouble. His ex will not bring the kids 2 him or meet him half way. His ex still makes him pay child support because if he stopped he would not be able to see them until he is 18. He told me that the courts won't hear his excuse about it and the ex is trying to sue. However if he cann't pay child support she should not get mad about it. Whats sad is that she doesn't make the father of her 3rd child pay anything even though he makes a lot of money. Do children have the right to go to court and the judge know whats happening? I think they could say that they understand if their dad can not make all of the payments, but couldn't they beg the courts to tell their mother to drive them to their dad's place if they really wanted to see their dad?

If the dad picks up the kids but doesn't drop them off when visitation is over what happens? 2 hr drive

2007-12-21 14:26:15 · 6 answers · asked by dulcechica2891 1

2007-12-21 14:14:58 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is not an easy situation. I have been married to my husband for 5 years now, and there have been several occasions where he has drinked to excess throughout our marriage. It has caused problems in the past, yet I managed to get past it when he stopped drinking. He was recently gone for a year, and there were a few occasions when he drank to excess where he was. He even got into some trouble at work as a result (he is in the military). I was very upset, as it seemed that it did not matter whether he was with me or not when this happened. He did try to blame his drinking on me, and I almost left him for it a few years ago. We talked things out and I told him that I loved him, and I also let him know that If it ever started up again, I would not stay with him. Well, last month I found a bottle hidden under the couch cushions. Today, he came home from work and within about an hour or so of his being home, I smelled liquor on his breathe. He denied it of course.

2007-12-21 14:14:38 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have never met her in person, yet she has made such a profound impact on me.
she has made me a different person. a better person.
an impact that i havent felt, even coming from anyone im related to or have known for my whole life.

WHAT DO YOU DO?

2007-12-21 13:49:44 · 10 answers · asked by the questioner 2

His emotional state used to be very well under control. I still love him so much, and even me leaving him would send me to the psych ward. I've been with him for 7 years, he's all i got. And most of the time he's a really sweet guy, but lately he's been flying off the handle so easily. He assumes things about me and then gets angry at me for it all the time. And once he's angry nothing can calm him down, i tried talking calmly to him, i tried to just not talk, i tried to avoid him but anything i did would make him angrier. i feel so trapped because i usually only associate with him i have no friends, no family, no car. Plus i really don't want to leave him, he's my husband, i love him so much it would tear my heart to shreds to have to leave him.

2007-12-21 13:45:54 · 15 answers · asked by ИΦĬςΩҐҐļº² 2

I don't know if the woman was just a colleague, a friend, or something else, but I'm not sure I should tell my friend about it. She's extremely jealous and would not take it well.

2007-12-21 13:25:38 · 22 answers · asked by R 2

if a guy at a bar came up to you and grabbed ur boob and gave it a hard squeeze, but then he automatically went to protect his face what would you do?

2007-12-21 13:23:48 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My partner was on drugs when he was 17(meth, weed, pills, crack, you name it he tried it). He went to jail 3 or 4 ys ago. I'm really not sure because it's not something that he is proud of & doesn't like to talk about it, but from what I have heard from his family it had something to do w/ drugs. When I met him he was clean & had been since he had gotten out of jail- which was 2 yrs before we met. We moved 3 1/2 hrs from home 6 months ago up to that point we had not been living together. It was a big surprise to me that he was an alcholic. At 1st it was all ok but then he started to become mean- never phisical only verbal After I found out I was pregnant 4 1/2 months ago we moved back home after moving back home I noticed that he was acting strange. After 2 months of his strange behavior he was arrested, he had gotten back on drugs. After he got out he was doing really good- no drugs, or even alchol. That only lasted a few wks then he was back to drugs & alcohol. I tried to leave when

2007-12-21 13:23:09 · 9 answers · asked by Lulu 3

I have been away for 1 week now. It's gonna be 2 more weeks till i see him again. So I joked how he shouldn't worry cuz there are plenty of girls where he's at. And he got mad. His exact words: "if thats what u really want me to do..im fine with that.." So I think that jerk is cheating on me. Jerk!!

2007-12-21 13:19:22 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my husband have been married for 3 years and I have never cheated on him. I don't even have male friends. Last night I was online and someone im'd me that I didn't know and asked how I liked the army base that I am stationed at b/c he was stationed here a few years back. He wasn't trying to get me to get on webcam or talk dirty or anything; we just talked about the army and stuff for a little while. My husband found that I had im's from this guy on the history on our browser and he has been blowing up at me all day over it. I think he's being a little hypocritical b/c he was watching live webcam shows for a few months before I finally convinced him it was disrespectful to me. WTF is his deal? I didn't even flirt w/this guy...

2007-12-21 13:17:49 · 17 answers · asked by ashley b 2

Her bf/hubby is gay, she and her lesbian friend won't come out of the closet, she thinks her dogs are human, and she cant even control her own weight.

Ironic how Oprah has all the money in the world..all the celebrity friends in the world...yet she can't even control her own life. She only knows how to give free houses and cars to people who can't even afford the insurance and property taxes. It's not even her own money she's giving away, it's advertisers money. She gets tax write offs.

Oprah is the last person I would seek advice from on anything.

2007-12-21 13:07:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hey guys, my husband is healthy, we're close and good, but I've noticed over time (5 years) that he's not as "stiff" as he used to be...and then over the last six months, sometimes he actually loses it during missionary style sex.

He never loses it during a BJ, but sometimes he does during sex.

What's up? Isnt he too young for ED? It takes him a while to "come" - like 15 minutes or more...generally by that point, I am over it (and have come) and am just waiting on him. Does this sound right? I was always with younger guys (and he seems young) but lately, I think I see his age coming through (I am 32) versus what I see in men my own age.

Please be serious in your response. It's really making me nervous and afraid to have "intitiate" sex because I never know anymore if it "is going to work" or if it's going to be a "bad night" which seems to end up in embarrassment.

Oh, and he has no health issues. We're both runners, in shape, etc. I am not even sure if this is ED?

2007-12-21 13:04:00 · 16 answers · asked by Las Julius 3

I've tried hundreds of times to sit and talk to her about this and other stuff, but when I start talking to her about sex and love, it's like I'm talking to a 10foot thick concrete wall with steel reinforced beams, she ignores me, makes believe she hasn't heard me, makes me repeat what I asked, then ignores it again and/or changes subject. I get pissed and go to our room and tell her I'll be waiting upstairs for her to come to bed, but she won't come up. Worst of all, even if I get mad and slam the door (don't do it much though, doors are expensive!) she won't even come up, and the next morning, she'll be all like everything is honky dory happy! Like nothing ever happened! I hate it.
If I start talking about her games or horses, then she's all ears and won't stop talking! And then If I change subject and go back to our relationship or ask her to make love, she's deaf again or suddenly extremely tired and exausted! Funny how that works! Are all women like that?

2007-12-21 12:56:47 · 5 answers · asked by Camelot 1

My boyfriend asked me to marry him. He is really rich and sweet. I love him. And the thing is he dosent care about money he cares about me. Oh did 15 and he is 19. What should I do?

2007-12-21 12:54:13 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous