or am i just fooling myself?
2007-12-21 15:49:52 · 13 answers · asked by thecrazylady 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ask yourself if you want to live with this tension and stress for the rest of your life.
2007-12-21 15:59:26 · answer #1 · answered by holly 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think if you have a high self esteem then you should not be worried about him. You should always know that you too have other options. You don't have to stay with someone or think that this is the only person in the world for you. Just ask yourself "Is he really worth going crazy over?" If I were you I would think vice versa He should be going crazy over me!
2007-12-21 16:03:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ultimately a marriage without trust won't last. It might last a year, or 5 years or 15 years but all that time you will be going crazy and you will hate your life.
I wish you peace of mind and heart in finding the right answer to this dilemma!
2007-12-21 16:11:24 · answer #3 · answered by Onyx ♠ 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
NO! Trust me you will drive yourself crazy and in the end your self esteem will be shot. Trust is one of the biggest parts of a relationship. Really, how can you be with someone you don't trust? If you don't trust him there has to be a reason you don't trust him in the first place, right?
2007-12-21 16:09:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would go crazy if I didn't trust my husband...always second guessing everything he says and does....so NO I wouldn't want to stay with a man that I couldn't trust....
2007-12-21 15:55:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you need trust...But both partners must be willing to do what it takes to earn trust from their partners. Making whatever sacrifices necessary to strengthen the trust in the relationship. All insecurities can become secure if our hope and faith is put towards Jesus Christ for restoration and healing in our relationships.
2007-12-21 16:05:43 · answer #6 · answered by unknown 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
how would u not go crazy every time he left the house without you if you did not trust him?
depends on what he did... maybe lied about smoking (not drugs) well, maybe he just didn't want u to know, and u could get past it. something more... cheating??? i would wonder where he was every time he was 2 minutes late
i don't think i could do it ... sorry
2007-12-21 15:55:46 · answer #7 · answered by Holly 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think your already crazy!! Why would you allow a man to treat you that way. Get your self esteem back, and leave. You will drive your self mad. You know that you will. So get out why you can!!
2007-12-21 16:04:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes it can be done but it's very stressful and painful. you will ask yourself all the time, what am i holding on for. you will go crazy and i do believe you would be fooling yourself.
2007-12-21 21:56:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are fooling yourself. And asking for a miserable life.
2007-12-21 16:14:17 · answer #10 · answered by Toffy 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋