I love this girl...would even like to marry her. But my business partner (who is female) and my girl friend just can't get along. I mean, it's bad... it disrupts my work, my social life, everything. My girl friend is a little insecure about the business partner, and I can understand that. The woman used to be in love with me (but the feeling wasn't mutual). I don't want to leave the girl friend or the business I have helped create...I love the one, and need the other. Any suggestions on how to resolve this?
2007-12-21 15:46:52 · 11 answers · asked by trustedhacker 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Neither of them should have anything to do with each other. Business is business and this is your business, not your girlfriends. Your girlfriend is personal and is none of your business partner's business. They should stay away from each other and you don't discuss one with the other.
Should you and the girlfriend decide to marry, she is still to stay out of it or you will have to find a new business or business partner. Sorry but personal life (spouse) before business. But only under the circumstance of marriage.
All this said, you need to analyze what the problem is with your girlfriend as it pertains to the business partner and decide if you are somehow contributing to this. You also need to decide if the girlfriend is being overbearing or vice versa (the business partner). You may decide that the business is good but you and girlfriend may not be a good fit. You're really going to have to think about this.
2007-12-21 15:50:31 · answer #1 · answered by CUrias 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Follow answerer j m's advice it is sound and right on target. Let them both know together what is up. To the business partner...you want to do business with her. You are interested intimately only with your girlfriend.
To the girlfriend you want her and the business partner to understand you have a business and it is with the business partner you have already selected. And Remember the women are the problem and for some reason they dont trust each other. Jealousy can be part of it. But explaining to both of them at the same time is the best solution. If you do decide to marry the girlfriend still keep business and marriage apart, but include the wife in conversation about the business. Alienation is devastating. Be up front with them and it should go well, if not....dig deeper as to what is going on with the 2 women and why they dont like each other.
2007-12-21 16:06:24 · answer #2 · answered by Toffy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of you're precise in questioning if she felt that undesirable why did she do it back. It in all risk all pertains to her self-image subjects - she in all risk feels alluring while she gets interest from those random adult males and thats why she does it. I advise 15 adult males over 3 years is like 5 human beings a 12 months, so i don't think of its that undesirable, this is lots worse. yet yeah, the circumstances you describe do advise that she has subjects. To be straight forward she in all risk desires some immediately conversing, somebody she trusts desires to inform her that its not alluring for a female to be promiscuous like that.
2016-10-02 06:00:53 · answer #3 · answered by doble 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello friend:
You're definately in drema.... I would say go with what your girlfriend says, its easier to start a new bus, than to find the special person in your life. Especially, if the bus partner cared for you, it's not good to continue to give her the idea that you'll be around. I hope you'll make the right choice, ask God for wisdom in this, and He will guide you. Love Oliveoil
2007-12-23 03:47:56 · answer #4 · answered by oliveoil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely do not mix your personal life with work. Don't hang out and socialize with peeps from work. It makes for drama anyway.
If this girl means as much as you say she does.. you would know what you need to do.
2007-12-21 15:56:57 · answer #5 · answered by BeeBee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like the girlfriend needs to grow up and trust u a little bit. how could u marry a woman who doesn't trust u? she should understand that it your business.... maybe she just needs more time???
good luck
2007-12-21 15:51:21 · answer #6 · answered by Holly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, this is a tough and sticky situation...let the business partner go to kep your relationship steady with your girl friend
2007-12-21 16:04:06 · answer #7 · answered by God Bless America!~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ouchhh...... tough situation.
Id take both out to diner or something and lay your cards down. tell them both what you just said here. your girl would love that you confessed your love to her in front of the other, and your business part. will know that you mean strictly business.
2007-12-21 15:50:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just keep them apart. Problem solved.
2007-12-21 15:49:32 · answer #9 · answered by nannajude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't mix business with pleasure.
2007-12-21 15:48:49 · answer #10 · answered by gutmymindter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋