Marriage & Divorce - 11 November 2007

Husband died testate leaving a wife and five (5) children, the will stated that all of his assets must be divide in five equal shares to the children. What is the wife percentage of the assets left by the deceased Husband?

2007-11-11 13:52:22 · 10 answers · asked by godlove_u 1

I hang around in this sextion, the single & dating section is so boooring?

Just Me

2007-11-11 13:47:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My family adopts a different family each year.

It is the most awesome feeling to know that you are making a difference in someone's life at the holidays........just wanted to spread some good cheer:)

Have you ever adopted a family for Christmas?

2007-11-11 13:47:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

i'm 14, so I stil have a long way to go, but my life could end right now and I don't wan't to wast of what ive got left.

2007-11-11 13:47:04 · 11 answers · asked by Cool Dude 2

Everyone says that love isn't easy and you have to work on it. But at what point is it normal for seriouse problems to occur. I have live with this man for almost a year and the 4 months prior to and first 1 1/2 months together were great but since then it has been non stop fighting. I am extremely frustrated with his lack of effort to do anything(job, clean, exercise). We bought books and tried all kinds of techniques. He says that we need to keep trying.

But at what point do you throw in the towl and say forget this! I mean shouldn't the first year at least be mostly smiles?

2007-11-11 13:45:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-11 13:44:42 · 13 answers · asked by CuteSexy 2

If you're a married man, do you watch porn without your wife? If you're a woman, does your husband do this? Is there anything wrong with this? I need to know because the man I used to be married to did this all the time. I found it offensive especially when I was readily available to him and willing to do anything he wanted. I need to know if I can expect this in other relationships. I am a very attractive woman with no inhibitions, I think he just had a problem!

2007-11-11 13:39:52 · 19 answers · asked by KatieB 2

ok so I said it like this....I asked him if I could ask him something and he said "go ahead" so I said "you could say no if you want, it's understandable" then I said "could I wear the ring again? I mean and for it to mean something again" he sighed and said "I dont care"
I'm the one that had the ring, but after that I just gave it back and told him that I was "giving it back until he's ready"
We hit a rough patch in our relationship a few months ago when we were engaged and split up, but now are working things out.
I love him very much & am in love with him and I feel that he feels the same way for me. actually I should say I KNOW cause he always tells me. and we have been together for 6 years now.
What do you think about all this?
was the idc a good thing or bad?

2007-11-11 13:19:51 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

My daughter's father currently has a support order where he is to pay $60 a week + $120 a month towards arrears which is nearing $11K. He agreed to this order in 2003 at a time where he didn't have a wage attachable job but was working under the table. Even though he agreed to this, he didn't pay a dime as you can see from the arrears. He finally obtained an on the books job this year and he's income was attached, but I still wasn't getting was ordered. When I found out he was working, I could have gone back to court 2 see if I could get an increase, but I wasn't interested and just left well enough alone. I just wanted him to pay what he said he could afford. Now he is taking me to court requesting a decrease and we are scheduled 2 go this wk. I want 2 know even if he is requesting a decrease and if he has proof of income that shows he could afford more than what was ordered, can they increase it? Also, I have daycare expenses that total $500 a mth. Can they order him 2 pay half?

2007-11-11 13:18:20 · 6 answers · asked by jkw 1

2007-11-11 13:14:08 · 28 answers · asked by bboog78 1

i didnt mean wat i said and hes taking it really serious!!

2007-11-11 13:12:02 · 21 answers · asked by MR.H 1

I have been dating this 23 yr old guy for a little over a yr now. In the beginning it was great and he was my best friend. Now i find myself constantly upset. Since I've known him he has not had a job; instead he gets money from his very fininacially stable family. Now when we met i was an exotic dancer(rarely worked). And held at least a part time job at all times.
Since moving in with eachother has made the most dilapidated attempt to find a job but can't find one, more like can't find one that will fit his standards. And still has the nerve to say that he has contributed to over half the bills(when i feel ashamed to have accepted the money from his family). HE didn't do anything. And last week I had to dance again after 6 months.
If I was to leave I would have to return to dancing in order to get myself established. Is it worth it?

2007-11-11 13:06:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

his cheating on me,but i really love him,maybe because his my first love(or just dont know the diff)..but im really confused ,im not talking to him ryt now,dont know what to do,coz im afraid that if i forgive him,he will do it again and i cant stand it...please advice me how to deal with this situation..

2007-11-11 13:00:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was tidying up in our walk in wardrobe.I didn't mean to really open his bag & check on it.That's not me,Coz once I trusted my husband,I will never do such kind of inspection thing.I'm not that kind.But,I don't know,all of a sudden I saw it,Like, something tells me'open it'!so I did!..And to my surprise.,I saw 3pcs of "Condoms!"..we don't use that anymore as I'm already tied up...I usually open that luggage,As when we travel together,I have to check whatever left behind..But I never see this thing before..I don't know,Perhaps It's been there..,Perhaps not!!Aaah!!&It's really hidden under that foam(sob)..I gues,This were the late'meetings'he'd tell me all about than.I've dedicated my whole life with him,Looking after the Children,Give up my Career!I've always been a good wife to him.Inspite of lots of guys out there who'd even look at me,& try for me.But I never even look at anyone.I respected him,&did my role very well.How could he!?why!?I need someone 2 talk.I'm so helples,what now..

2007-11-11 12:46:55 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-11 12:34:14 · 21 answers · asked by God's child 1

When you met them did your intuition tell you that something was wrong or "just not right"

2007-11-11 12:30:40 · 15 answers · asked by KISS ME♥*´`*•.¸★ 2

Here's the situation. I really wanted to have a baby before a certain age, and I told my male friend about it and he said he would help me out. He got me pregnant, and has now graciously bowed out like I wanted him to. I don't want to marry him, and I don't want him to have to pay child support on this baby, because I asked him to do this for me and he isn't really going to have a role in her life. When I have the baby, are they going to ask me who the father is? If I tell them, is he going to have to pay child support? Will he get out of it if I say I don't know?

please and thank you! :)

2007-11-11 12:27:32 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just recently got married in May I had an affair with one of my coworkers who just recently married in August the affair began before he got married but continued on after he even went as far as calling me while on his honeymoon i tried several times to break off the relationship but he would get upset with me just recently his wife found out about us he told me it was just a game and that he never had feelings for me but then told me that he had to end the call because if he didn't he was going to cry on another occassion he told me hes having all of these feelings and hes confused when i asked him what he meant he said he didn't know thats why hes confused i havent tried contacting him since then I told my husband what happened and were in counseling but i am really in love with this other man and i know he did what he did for her he planned most of the wedding by himself she talks to him so bad im sorry for what happened but not for loving him what does he mean by what he said

2007-11-11 12:12:27 · 17 answers · asked by q2k15 1

I am a young woman with three kids, ages 2,3 and 6. I was in an abusive marriage for 8 years and now that I have divorced and left thier father who taught them to "never" respect me and in fact taught them to disrespect me in any and every way possible I am having a very difficult time trying to get respect from them. I understand that respect is earned and I have done all I know to do. I am starting to lose my patience because to top things off it is getting severe enough that they would put themselves in danger just to "not listen" to me. Iam concerned and frustrated. I have tried spending time with them one on one. I follow through when I say something and I discipline with love, I am not abusive towards them and I never have been. I do not know what to do. Any advice we would be greatly appreciated.

2007-11-11 12:05:39 · 12 answers · asked by mikesgirl2580 1

I know, it's not a question but every prayer helps. My husband has decided he wants a separation. I fear this will lead to divorce, which I do not want. I want this marriage to work and us to stay together, not just for me, but for our 2 year old daughter.

2007-11-11 11:46:51 · 24 answers · asked by Jamie 2

They think independence means using your husband/boyfriend to work hard so that he spend most of it on them, while they get bored and fat and cheat on him. Or does independence mean that they are allowed to treat their guys like sh!t, be rude and disrespect them? Do they think that being able to have a career means total abandoment of their responsibilities as a mother and a wife? Do they think they are entitled to have the perfect lifestyle, that their husband MUST provide or otherwise he is not worthy of being a husband? Why are they so bitter? They have taken the "feminist" mindest to the extreme, and now consciously hate men and think it is okay to use them.

P.S. - Before the usual responses come let me just say that I wasnt dumped or had a ba relationship I am just curious to hear the opinion of american women and see what they have to say for themselves. This thread describes western women as well.

2007-11-11 11:36:19 · 34 answers · asked by metro900 3

Me and a girl have been dating for over a year now she has a job oppertunity in Tulsa, Ok. Great for her bad for me I live here in Cle-Vegas, and have a good job assistant manager of a hotel been here 7 years. Now she wants me to pick up and leave, how do you give up everything you know move to an entierly different state.

2007-11-11 11:30:05 · 16 answers · asked by 420 4' LIFE 3

Ok I initiated a split between me and my ex wife a few months ago, and at the time she was quite upset, and then a few weeks ago she asked me if was definatley over, and I knew at thta moment that if I said no, she would cheat again!

I am now single with our 2 adopted children and not sure where to turn for support! people tell me I will find some1 else but I'm too tired from working full time and careing for my kids, I just don't think I can do anymore.

But I am feeling so very low right now, I know I was right to end my marriage, but it hurts to realise how little I meant to my ex

So all I'm asking really is for a hug :)

2007-11-11 11:25:47 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-11 11:24:39 · 6 answers · asked by ThanksJustWondering 2

2007-11-11 11:18:31 · 26 answers · asked by Makemeaspark 7

my ex is always saying bad stuff about me to our children...she never did anything for you shes a bad mom etc none of it is true and my children know this in fact i consider it a form of child abuse but what i want to know is its been 2 yrs since we have been together he is with someone else and so am i.....he wanted out of our marriage i didnt but i accepted his choice.i was devesated and it took a long time for me to move on but i did and have.....i just want to know why after all this time he thinks badly of me and says things like this...i was a good wife and mom....why cant he just be civil for the sakeof our children i havnt bad mouthed him at all....can anyone explian this to me like i said its been 2 yrs........

2007-11-11 11:13:32 · 12 answers · asked by Mary G 1

I feel like I have a lot on my plate right now and am feeling a bit overwhelmed. I'm a new wife..(just got married 4 mos ago) about 2yrs years from finishing up my degree. My classes are getting very hard and are taking up alot of my time. I also feel so much pressure to be the perfect wife...keeping a clean house, staying in shape, making homecooked meals...etc. I know I don't have to do all these household things, as my husband has told me that I'm spreading myself too thin. But the truth is, when I try to neglect my house and focus on school, I feel awful and can't concentrate...I basically put being a housewife before being a student and it's making me crazy. I feel like no one understands...my family tells me to suck it up and quit whining, and my friends don't understand because they're either single, or unconcerned with keeping up their houses. I don't know what to do anymore. I know there are women who can juggle what I have to plus more...how do you all do it?

2007-11-11 11:06:38 · 15 answers · asked by JenJen 6

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 years. Marriage is not a subject that dominates our conversations. We've spoken about it before, but right now money is tight. I know we can't go get married next weekend, but I think in 2 years, we will be able to.

My boyfriend is very intorverted. It's very difficult for him to discuss his feelings openly. He just can't seem to verbalize how we feels. He communicates more with actions. Honestly, if we ever do get engaged; it will probably come way out of left field (not in agreement. We have already agreed on getting married a while ago, but just don't speak about it alot)

However, his family talks about our future more then we do. Yesterday, a family member refered to me as a SIL and another person meanted something about....."when you guys get married..."

Is it a good thing that his family talks more about future marriage plans then we do. Based on our relationship, is good or bad this family says more.

2007-11-11 11:05:04 · 4 answers · asked by J'adore 4

My boyfriend is an emotional abuser- he is jealous, he controls me and he blames me for all our problems. When I talk reasonably with him he tells me it's my fault that he is controlling because I kissed another guy once.

Now I am not "allowed" to talk to guys, and he gets angry when I talk to my friends about how he treats me. Sometimes I feel more like a child than a girlfriend. I tried to leave him last month and he cried and promised to change. I was pessimistic but things were better until this week.

He asked me last night to choose between him and my dreams- I want to move to Spain after university but he doesn't. I try to make compromises but things always escalate.

I know what I would say to someone else in this situation- I would tell them to get the hell out, to leave him and never look back. But I keep clinging on- I don't want to give up on him, I love him. I don't know how to leave, or if I should or can. HELP! Does anyone have any advice?Can he change?

2007-11-11 10:42:59 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

just curious

2007-11-11 10:31:54 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous