If you're a married man, do you watch porn without your wife? If you're a woman, does your husband do this? Is there anything wrong with this? I need to know because the man I used to be married to did this all the time. I found it offensive especially when I was readily available to him and willing to do anything he wanted. I need to know if I can expect this in other relationships. I am a very attractive woman with no inhibitions, I think he just had a problem!
2007-11-11 13:39:52 · 19 answers · asked by KatieB 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no..........because if your hubby has to watch porn to fulfill his desires then it obviously means that he isn't happy with you and is wishing that you were his fantasy porn star.
no.........not all married men will watch porn if they are happy in their marriage.
good luck to you.
2007-11-11 13:45:36 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-07-24 18:37:40 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 40. I was married for 18 years. He watched porn. It was when I wasn't home or asleep. In the beginning of our marriage when I was in my 20's I found it offensive and perverted. We had a great sex life. After getting divorced and dating other men. They all do it. All of them. Its normal and natural. I even do it now. Sounds crazy but its harmless. When I watch it or they watch it-it has nothing to do with you. Its a good thing. In means they have a sex drive. Don't take it personally. It really has nothing to do with you. Try telling him that you watched porn. Let him know you understand and don't make him feel like a pervert for doing something that everybody does. EVERYBODY. Slowly let him know its ok. It will bring you closer. Good luck.
2007-11-11 13:58:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being attractive and available is no more a substitute for porn than you wearing a football uniform is to watching a game.
It's just entertainment. A variety of entertainment.
Come on! A dozen guys can drink beer and watch porn together. Cheer at the good bits and make fun at it. Does that mean that they fantasize about 12 on 1 group sex?
And yes, you can expect it again.
2007-11-11 13:47:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he's ashamed of it, maybe he's afraid you'd get mad, or maybe it's his way of getting aroused. I'm a woman and have no problem with porn. I would also watch it with a boyfriend. It's not a problem for me...as long as it's not a way or the only way he gets turned on, then I'm fine with it.
You should really talk to your husband about it. If not, it could really hurt your relationship, and not just the sexual part of it.
2007-11-11 13:47:02 · answer #5 · answered by M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Umm.."no inhibitions".... then why are you worried about him watching porn alone?
I believe some men need the mental and fantasy variety provided by porn. It is nothing against the women you are with.
2007-11-11 14:14:32 · answer #6 · answered by Hubby . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is normal!!! Don't get offended... If you know he's watching porn just make believe your asleep then the next day do what the girl was doing in the movie it worked for me and my man he never knew what hit em, so now when ever he watches porn I make believer I am asleep then the next morning BANG his own little porn star. once I woke him up in the middle of the night.. trust me he wont go no ware I got him just were I want him and hes been so complaint with me lately
2007-11-11 13:50:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
A lot of people do it and it is normal. Sometimes we watch it together. It has nothing to do with you personally. Guys are visually stimulated and sometimes just want something different. Some of them are lazy and just do this for today instead of having to put forth the effort with you. Did you find it offensive because of what it was or because he was going that instead of having sex with you? Most everyone I know watches it from time to time alone or with their spouse.
2007-11-11 13:46:15 · answer #8 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i do it all the time nothing wrong as long as you are not addicted to it and yes some people are just like some people are addicted to drugs, shopping, drinking, smoking its no different having a social drink is fine but if you are a alcoholic which means you are addicted then its not a good thing.
2007-11-11 13:46:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it all depends on how well the wife likes being woke up in the middle of the night.
2007-11-11 13:43:29 · answer #10 · answered by Dave 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋