Marriage & Divorce - 11 November 2007

2007-11-11 18:33:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Last week me and my wife went to my sister-in laws wedding.My wife had been driving me crazy for day's to prepare for this wedding(cloths, presents, drinks etc..) When we got there my wife went to greet the best man (my father in-law) when we started to talk, my father in-law talked about "how boring and stressful this day has been and how he COULDN'T WAIT for it to be done and over",(i couldn't of agreed with him more) So before the wedding started me and my father in-law started to drink couple of beers together, while my wife went to go comfort the bride. (1 beer became 2 beers 5 beers ect...) Until me and my father in-law where completely wasted.. So at the Wedding reception my father in-law came up to me (completely drunk) and said "come meet my daughter) So i walked over to my sister in-law(drunk) and my father in-law said "You see does breast touch'em" (while pointing at my sister in-law so i go up to her and squeeze her breast (in sexual manner) her newly wed husband hits me

2007-11-11 18:32:45 · 20 answers · asked by Jim 1

My first serious relationship ended because we were too young; we had a child out of wedlock and I was in college. My second was with a loving man who had a drinking problem. I married a man that had was on 20 dating sites and 3 were gay sites!? Help. I don't know if I will ever love or trust another person again!

2007-11-11 18:31:48 · 9 answers · asked by Becca 2

To sum this up quickly; I was 17 and pregnant, married the father, divorced within the year of the birth of the child. I married my best friend from high school and we have been married for 13 years now. We both have grown up together and have one child together plus the other from my previous marriage. I love him; but I know now that I am not in love with him and only married him so I wouldnt be alone. I can't imagine my life without him, yet, I can't imagine living the rest of my life with him. He is a great man; but, he has a terrible temper when it comes to me since I have been the ONLY woman ever in his life. I have started therapy but he will not go. He knows I am unhappy and he too is unhappy but when the subject comes up, he just shuts down. What can I do?

2007-11-11 18:31:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I are in the midst of an amicable divorce after 21 years. All that is left is to decide some details and bring the papers to the courthouse. It should be finalized before Christmas.

My husband has a girlfriend - I think it's great, she makes him happy, he and I make eachother miserable.

I had a boyfriend until yesterday. Anyway, my husband was very sympathetic and uncharacteristically supportive when I was upset by the breakup.

I went out with a very good friend last night as I needed a shoulder to cry on.

She asked me if I realized that this situation was really weird. The whole thing about him and I not 'technically' being divorced yet and both having other relationships.

My husband and I haven't had 'man & wife' intimacy since last spring. Both of us know that the other has been intimate with their new partner.

Our kids (older teens) know of our other relationships and approve of our choices.

Does anyone else think this is really weird?

2007-11-11 18:21:52 · 14 answers · asked by Tauri Athena 2

2007-11-11 18:15:16 · 24 answers · asked by Von S 1

My ex husband and were married for 8 years with 2 children(5 and 7). We have been divorced for 3 years and he has been with his fiance for 2 years and the wedding is coming up in 3 months. About 6 months after they started dating he stared calling me all the time when she wasnt around and still told me he loved me when we would get off the phone. Whenever he would come and get the kids he would look at me like he wanted me so bad. This went on for about 6 months and then his fiance started complaining that he was spending too much time at my house so he stopped calling and coming over as much. The other day I saw him at the grocery store and he hugged me and gave me that look again. My question is should I go to him and ask him if he still has feelings for me and if he is sure that he is over me before he gets married and its too late?

2007-11-11 18:13:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been married for 2 years and I feel like my husband and I are growing apart. I ask him to hug me when we're in bed and he just rolls over and faces the wall and tells me he's too tired. Sometimes when I ask him a question he'll tell me I'm stupid for asking such a dumb question. Sometimes he'll just blow up over any little thing. I kind of feel like his child instead of his wife? We never used to be this way, we used to have a very sweet and loving relationship. Help me, what can I do?

2007-11-11 17:55:45 · 19 answers · asked by jas_mendez 1

I have a boyfriend, but after 6 years, I'm wondering why I'm still with him. I have no idea still where I want to work. I live in California.. but I'm wondering if I should move back home.. or to Australia.. or maybe to Boston, or Chicago, no wait.. what about DC? Maybe I want kids, wait, my boyfriend and I dont' have sex. then again maybe I should adopt? I'm lost.

2007-11-11 17:53:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-11 17:51:33 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

why do married men say they are not happy with marriage,fell in love with another woman,but find it hard to get a divorce.this is rediculous,y is it that they find the decision hard to make,seriously what is the deal with all of that,inform me....please.

2007-11-11 17:46:05 · 7 answers · asked by kim27 2

2007-11-11 17:41:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

She is hot and I think she would go for it. How can I approach her without getting fired?

2007-11-11 17:39:34 · 12 answers · asked by Christophertallingsworthiness 2

Tried everything with this guy I was married to for 8 years. We had 3 of our own children and one from a prior marriage. After our divorce, he tried to get back together with me, but I was happy with things the way they were and wasn't ready. I would spend nights over at his house because he wanted me to and I was lonely too. And then, boom ,he met someone, and now when I thought we were working things out, all has beenspoiled because of this other person. What do you do in a situation like this? What can I say to him now? I feel betrayed, and am concerned that he is thinking the grass is greener on the other side. He is so infatuated with this woman. Any advise? I would like to be a family again. My kids are confused, and counseling would have saved our marriage. I can not talk to him... Is it true that love is blind. I keep telling him that this woman is not going to work out for him.To top it all off, the weekend that he doesn't want the kids,he is taking vacation with her

2007-11-11 17:31:42 · 15 answers · asked by Time4Tivo 3

I love my wife, and I love being with her. The problem is, because of my job, I find myself very exhausted most of the time. She has been expressing to me that she wants to spend more time with me. I want to also, but she is an active person and I'm more laid back, and usually tired. And in all this, I usually find little to no time for myself. What time we spend together usually consists of my lunch break, or sitting around at home.

The thing is, I would like to spend more time with her, but she wants to get out and go places and do things, while I want to rest and recover. She is happiest when she is physically active, I am happiest when I'm mentally active. She gets frustraited sitting around, and I get frustraited running around.

We both want to spend more quality time together, and even get out and go somewhere (small town, few options). And I want to have more time to sit down, rest, and let my creative and intellectual side out.

Any suggestions?

2007-11-11 17:20:18 · 6 answers · asked by The Link 4

Hi,

I am 45 years old and my wife is 33. I didn't have sex with my wife in the past 3 months, but she says she is pregnent from past 2 months. My neighbour is a 25 year old boy, he always stays at my home and my wife always talks about his body strengh and appearance. I am sure it is not my baby, but I am helpless. What should I do now?

2007-11-11 17:05:04 · 7 answers · asked by KRIS BEN P 1

After he called me and told me he couldnt walk , was on a walker I really felt for him . I started coming over and cooking,cleaning , shopping.We broke up because I wanted to get married and he didnt.Well Ive been helping him for about 3 months and he wont be able to walk for another month.2 weeks ago we found out his Dad has cancer.Its lung cancer and he is very weak ,not eating and in and out of the hospital.His mom and Dad love me.However my Ex has been a jerk to me all weekend talking to me like Im a moron. .Well I locked myself out of my car and he kept taunting me saying why dont you call your brothers to help you.Your a pitiful orphan your own brothers wont help you.Well Im not close to my brothers and the one was out of town the other couldnt of helped me.So I called a locksmith. I wanted to punch him in the mouth I mean I just want to walk away.However I did have sunday supper with his folks.His Dad wants us to go to church as a family.He is in bad shape.I dont knowwhat 2 do

2007-11-11 16:50:56 · 11 answers · asked by butterflyspy 5

Is the act of getting or giving a lap dances and act of unfaithfulness? No Religious talk please, just everyday opinion.

2007-11-11 16:40:30 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband is in a codependent relationship with his brother, who has issues with gambling and substance, and who has been in and out of prison for the past 6 years. H "detached" from brother and was doing well, but now BIL is out of jail, and I learned from a credit card bill that H had rented a car for BIL for a month and a half on our insurance, using his own license. BIL has a suspended license for DUIs. If there had been an accident where there were injuries or death, we would have been liable, and insurance wouldn't have covered it. We could have lost everything -- house, assets, the works, and with three teens headed for college, it would have been disastrous. I can't believe my husband did this without consulting me, and that he did something that put the family's financial welfare at stake. I can't trust my husband anymore and would like to protect our assets. I would like to avoid divorce for the kids' sake, but is that possible in this case?

2007-11-11 16:39:10 · 2 answers · asked by EstherD 2

I used to answer people who had similiar questions with positive answers but yikes ...now I find I cant stand my very own in laws what to do its driving me up the wall, luckily my husband agrees with why im annoyed as he sees it to , we are expecting a baby in 3 months and m.i.l is just so obssessd its not funny like as if its her baby coming soon, she is so over bearing and smothering with my brother in laws 7 y.o and 7.5 month old baby that his wife actually never takes them to her house but she lives a stones throw away and walks to their house annoying them and uninvited..... wtf. she has already told me how to dress baby and he isnt even born yet!...omg im so so stressed im getting constant miagrains...what to do?

2007-11-11 16:37:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why or why not?

2007-11-11 16:36:16 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Would 24 hours every two weeks be too much?

2007-11-11 16:31:33 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

What to stay together with her but not sure if I can handell it.
Any opionios?

2007-11-11 16:23:59 · 22 answers · asked by Ustal 1

My spouse has many internet relationships with people of the opposite sex. They talk sexy, talk sex, talk about everything. He states that I shouldn't be jealous because I'm the one he's married to. He says when he talks to them, it's only words. When I ask that he stop, he states that I am treating him like a child and controlling him. He says that I've run off every girlfriend he's ever had. These relationships make me feel sick inside. He doesn't talk this sexy to me when we talk.

We are currently seperated over it, the cell phone is in my name and he doesn't have the money to cut it on in his name. I have put down the stipulation that he not call other women, while its in my name. He believes this is wrong. He also believes that I should keep the phone on, so that he can talk to his daughter...I don't think that is my responsibility. He should take that on his own.

2007-11-11 16:20:46 · 20 answers · asked by ntensifyd 1

2007-11-11 16:20:23 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been wanting another child (we have a 5 yr old daughter) for over 2 years. Hubby said he wasn't ready, but didn't give any real reason. 2 days ago I said I needed a reason for his reluctance as this has been an ongoing issue. He finally (after me asking what the deal is for all this time) said he isn't sure if he is still in love with me. He said he does love me and always will but doesn't know if he is in love with me. Said he doesn't want to have another child and end up leaving. I am totally shocked. We have had small issues but we really get along great. We love being together, love our daughter and I thought loved our life together. He said he is confused and doesn't know if he really isn't in love any more or not. We haven't had sex in about 4 months which isn't normal for us and I KNOW he isn't having an affair. My best friend thinks I should just end it but since that talk we have been fine and he is being super nice and loving. What the heck? Should I leave?

2007-11-11 16:17:13 · 15 answers · asked by LeeAnn 2

I have been going to my friends home for the holidays over the past 4-5yrs. My husband and all the family would meet at her house. Though, over the past 2yrs. I have had an issue w/ her husband. To the point where I feel uneaasy around him. My friend is aware too of the reason as to why her spouse and I have some issues. I want very much to spend the holidays w/ her and her kids, but dont feel at ease knowing he will be there. I dont wish to spend the holidays alone, my fiance will be working all day...I know if I try to explain my feelings, she may kindly ask me to "get over it" for the sake of the holidays. Do I spend the holidays alone or put myself somewhere I dont wish to be?

2007-11-11 16:11:57 · 11 answers · asked by italianprincess 1

2007-11-11 16:10:33 · 23 answers · asked by Leeza 2

About 6 months ago my husband and I almost broke up due to his possesiveness (didn't like me to have friends and go anywhere by myself) and his verbal abuse, I was very much in love with him but his behavior (which almost drove me to a nervous breakdown) seems to have killed the love I had for him.
Because we had a 2 year old daughter I decided to give him a chance to make it better, we went and saw a councillor and alot of things have really improved.
But my problem now is that I find myself very attacted to a mutual friend of ours who is also unhappy in his marriage and he too has a young daughter.
The situation is driving me crazy I try to stay away from him but I can't stop thinking about him and it is really affecting my being able to be intimate with my husband because I no longer find him attractive.
I don't want to be cause of breaking up two families but I am so unhappy. I just don't know what to do.

2007-11-11 16:07:55 · 15 answers · asked by Thula1979 1

Obviously, I am no longer attracted to her and I can not fake it, even with porn. Why doesn't she understand that being 115 was part of the package and it wasn't alright to let herself go? (All guys think this way...they just won't admit it for fear of being disliked)
Please,no ChubbyChaser responses.

2007-11-11 16:06:36 · 98 answers · asked by Anonymous