Marriage & Divorce - 11 November 2007

i notice that the woman gets more angry at the other woman. when the other woman could have been an innocent party.
meanwhile the married woman forgives the hubby.

do women secretly hate each other and dont want each other to succeed.

even during elections?

catty??

2007-11-11 03:18:53 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

how old does the child have to be to choose which parent he/she will live with after a divcorce?

2007-11-11 03:16:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

A mother of seven beautiful kids searching for Divorce advice and assistance to get Divorce Finalize. I’ve tried filing my divorce on my own on several occasions, but no results. Went through Legal Aid Services and was told can’t help me with services due to case is too difficult, having been separate from party too long and having problems’ getting other parties serve to get Divorce Final. There are three fathers that I’m having trouble getting to cooperate with the divorce to bring this divorce to a conclusion. I’ll like to get this problem solve on several occasion.

2007-11-11 03:14:00 · 4 answers · asked by shasha 1

My husband and I are very unalike. The love of my life is a cute clean cut guy working with important people with his own image set out for others. I’m...different. He says there is absolutely nothing wrong with me and that he loves me the way I am. He wouldn’t ever lie to me but why do I feel like I owe him something?
He studied overseas in a law firm, I was lucky to get out of high school. I wear ALOT of pink all over which I’m starting to see isn't really normal. I’m a waitress at a cute cafe. I’m 5’2”, my figure is great, and so I’m not worrying about that. He says he likes my hair and it’s up to me if I’m going to change it. Its lavender for god’s sake! I like it, I guess he does, but the reason I really want to change is whenever I go to his office to drop off his lunch, I see his friends making faces and talking in private. I’m thinking that he'd be embarrassed to be with a walking crayon. I get embarrassed too because his office is the only place I ever get that feeling. I’m really not much at all, I just want him to be proud of what he's got because he makes me so happy
I heard he had stood up for me before, I felt so grateful at the time. But now it’s made me realize, does he get criticized at work? He never says anything about the subject to me when I ask about his day.

Another reason for me is that in his office, there are a lot of girls just like him. Pretty, clean, cut, people and I sometimes wonder would he ever cheat on me?

2007-11-11 03:09:48 · 14 answers · asked by Avatar 1

One day, your neighbour woman said this to you," Can you ask your husband if he wants his balls back, those balls he hit to my backyard, UNINTENTIONALLY of course. If he doesn't want them back, I'll throw them for him."

Do you think its suspicious? My husband does play balls in the backyard sometimes but I didn't know that he has hit so many balls to the neighbour woman. How is she so sure that they were hit by my husband not my children?

2007-11-11 03:02:14 · 11 answers · asked by jody 1

Hi. My husband and I have decided a while ago that we will not have children as I am on a prescription that I choose not to discontinue that could harm a fetus. We are saving money so that adoption can be an option for us in a few years. We have already told his sister this and she reacted very poorly.
His parents keep bringing up the kid thing, so what is the best way to just say it?
I don't have a good relationship with them, but they are my husband's family...
We're 32.
Thanks for any insight or experiences?

2007-11-11 02:59:35 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend is scared of being tied down in marriage why?

2007-11-11 02:56:10 · 14 answers · asked by bobbylee_20 1

my husband first starting lying a frew months after we married (well when i started to notice. ) we have a 5 month old baby and its hard. He lies abot such stupid things..like wat he did at night or who he dated or who he talks to on msn ,..just CRAP..but there have been so many little lies that i dont complety trust him any more....
I feel like a police officer every time he comes in from going out.......with all the questions...What can i do to rebuild my relationship or once a liar always a liar?

2007-11-11 02:53:03 · 22 answers · asked by only1 1

She's a little hesitant, but I think she can make more money than she does now as a Kindergarten Teacher.

2007-11-11 02:44:33 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Have got a friend coming from a traditional upper community family. When he was 19, his friend's younger sister who is 3 1/2 yrs older and 2 1/2 inches height to him belonging to a lower community . They became good friends but she declined his proposal. Her elder sister married to their family friend and a divorcee. Having come to know that my friend's girlfriend is having a relationship with that family friend turned brother-in-law even prior to her elder sister's marriage, his sincere love request to stop that relationship and pave way for m'age was rejected and seemingly perturbed, my friend migrated but keeping his maiden love in heart and sought refuge in devotion. My friend became a professional. After 14 years my friend got married but because of his preoccupied love could not adjust and took divorce. Then, he suddenly came in contact with his above said gf who was also of the same profession but still not married. She now accepted the proposal and offered for marriage.However, my friend could not take a decision for marrying her 'cause he came to know she is maintaining her silent relations with colleagues besides bro-in-law. However, nobody knowing her background is coming forward to marry though she is beautiful. Her brother-in-law is also playing a role for breakage of any matches because his relationship would be put to an end. Realizing the situation, my friend pointed out silent role of her bro-in-law in lossing matches. Because of community difference and her continued silent behavior with bro-in-law and colleagues which is turmoil, my friend could not take a decision but requested that he be given must-preference when she wants to marry anybody. Shockingly, she suddenly married another person leaving at a lurch my friend. 'cause of her, my friend lost valuable 20 yrs, broken marriage, money and got second hand education by losing a challenging career and though scored good TOEFL, lost concentration on professional higher studies abroad. Is it the reward for TL (True Love)? Getting on life. Is it the reward for a sincere waiter? What to do now? Advice please?

2007-11-11 02:41:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok guys looking for some answers on what goes through your mind.

2007-11-11 02:30:58 · 12 answers · asked by jewels 2

I'm currently going through a divorce and I'm not certain on spousal support/maintenance. My attorney tells me I stand a good chance at times and other times he is not so sure. This divorce is messy and here's the situation: My husband and I married 2 1/2 years ago. After marrrying I had to quit going to college to go to work full time because as a single mother I was given grants to go to school. He promised to pay my tuition but never followed through. Then in March 2007 he convinced me to quit myjob to have more time for him and my children(not common children). In June we started having problems yet he still did not want me to work. I could not work the summer anyhow because the daycare fees for 3 kids were too high. Now before I quit school and work, we bought a home together. I sold my home I had before we married to help with this home. In the time we have been married, my life has changed dramatically from a struggling single mother to the wife of a man making a healthy(cont

2007-11-11 02:17:57 · 6 answers · asked by *** 2

my job does not take me out of town alot. We have 2 handsome sons, nice new house, I thought pretty good sex life (I get her off about 95% of the time), she bartends and I'm a drug rep, I really thought she was happy????

2007-11-11 02:12:39 · 34 answers · asked by Dopemane 3

2007-11-11 01:42:30 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a wonderful husband who works hard, loves his family, tells me all the time that I am beatiful and the only one he wants. He is home in the evenings and at work during the day. But I have a suspicious mind filled with jealousy about everything. I get angry when he sneaks a look at porn on the internet (but not movies, magazines ect.) I hate it when he says his coworkers "friend" comes to help the two of them close the shop.
I am not a stupid person, and I know that my insecurities are going to drive him crazy and push him away. This is my issue and not his. He has never given me reason to believe he has ever or would ever cheat or leave me. We have been together 12 years and it was kinda cute to him when we were teenagers but now I'm sure it is just annoying as hell to always have to defend himself. Although he takes all with a smile and says I am just being silly and have nothing to worry about. How do I stop this childish behavior before its too late?

2007-11-11 01:26:28 · 27 answers · asked by Trisha 5

We paid for our oldest daughter's wedding...big church wedding. The marriage lasted a year, she's now divorced two years, and Mr. Right #2 is in the picture. I overheard a conversation where she said she wants another big wedding to erase the first mistake. Excuse me? Another big wedding? I have two more daughters and a son to marry off. Should my wife and I pay for wedding #2 for daugther #1?

2007-11-11 01:08:37 · 22 answers · asked by Richard F 6

For example 17-18? Does it usually work out?

2007-11-11 00:48:33 · 34 answers · asked by AnnieL0pez 1

2007-11-11 00:45:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi, I just found out this 25 y/o guy I went on 2 dates with is trying to make me fall into a relationship with him just to have sex with him. I didn't though - i am not that type of girl. He went as far as claiming he is a virgin and asks me to come over and crash over. He lies about everything. He played with my emotions and made me think he likes me and all that. I also found out a mutual acquaintance told him about how i treated her cousin really bad when we went out, so she knows he is playing me and she is trying to convince he is a good guy and def. not a player type. They are both plotting against me as a subliminal payback. Apparently, there are some people that still hate me in this world. I know ths sounds crazy but i am shocked as well. How should I handle this? What is the best way to get revenge on this type of guy? I really just want to go up to him and smack him and pour a cup of coffee on him. How should I handle this situation?

2007-11-11 00:39:15 · 11 answers · asked by Svetlana Z 1

2007-11-11 00:35:42 · 4 answers · asked by blue_amzy 1

2007-11-11 00:27:39 · 16 answers · asked by kuntrygrl 2