Marriage & Divorce - 11 November 2007

2007-11-11 10:17:35 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife is visiting her family in Ohio for 3 weeks (I couldn't go because of work). We have a great relationship, and we communicate really well (usually).

She was supposed to call me before she went to bed, but she never did. I finally called her and she had already gotten ready for bed and gone to sleep.

How is it possible she wouldn't think to call me?

2007-11-11 10:15:24 · 22 answers · asked by Dano 3

2007-11-11 10:12:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

A really fast song came on t.v and I told my husband "Look, I'm cool" and started doing one of those dances that all the young kids are doing. Then he said to me: "you're not cool and have never been cool". Wasn't that a little harsh? Am I getting too old maybe? I'll be 25 next week.

2007-11-11 10:06:31 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am attracted to my wife's friend. I think she feels the same way. My wife and I dont have sex anymore - any suggestions?

2007-11-11 09:29:13 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

hey guys, I have a problem.. Me and my husband been together for about a year, awhile ago i found out that his ex girlfriend came to town to see him & they met up.. I found out about 4 months ago he said he was so sorry and that it wouldnt happen again i believed him and i stood with him but ever since then its like i dont trust him i check on him all the time, i check his phone bill i dont like him going out with friends etc. we spoke about it and he thinks im stalking him and tells me that if i dont stop hes going to end up leaving me I dont know what to do !! HELP

2007-11-11 09:24:20 · 38 answers · asked by avenchulagirl 1

2007-11-11 09:23:12 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-11 09:18:10 · 13 answers · asked by sweetgirl 3

2007-11-11 09:16:56 · 21 answers · asked by sweetgirl 3

2007-11-11 09:16:27 · 17 answers · asked by sweetgirl 3

my husband is saying i can't be on the computer and watch a film at the same time! I say, man a could read a book and knit if i wanted to all at the same time and not miss a thing.That's where women have brains in the right places,men have their's in their ..........only one task at a time man! say no more ha?

2007-11-11 09:13:06 · 11 answers · asked by muddyduck 2

2007-11-11 09:10:31 · 19 answers · asked by sweetgirl 3

2007-11-11 09:09:26 · 21 answers · asked by sweetgirl 3

If my wife and i wanted to have intercourse in a dressing room at a clothing store is it against the law? and if we got caught how much would we be punished?

2007-11-11 09:05:41 · 21 answers · asked by sam a 3

She says that she cant leave him because its almost x mas (they have 2 kids). Is she just stringing me along or do u think she should waitt till after the new year?

2007-11-11 09:03:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok so here's the story and question....

I was with my girlfriend almost 5 years....we loved each other very much....we did have some fights and arguments.
I wasn't perfect, I did say mean things sometimes or do things but I have OCD and Borderline Personality Disorder.
Not all of it, but most of it was caused by my problems, I have been getting help and working on myself for the last
year and a half and been getting better. I regularly go to my therapist and psychiatrist and take my meds as prescribed.
I have gotten better. She left me 3 months ago because she said she didn't like the way I treated her. She is the type
that wants a "fairytale" relationship. Everyone has told her including her parents that she won't get that with anyone.
She also expects no fights or arguments. Well anyways she told me for the first two months after she left...that she
still wanted to be with me, she loves me, misses me, wants to know I'm serious about us, etc. Then two weeks after
that go by and she doesn't say much to me....well I texted her a lot but it was because when I tried to give her space
before by not texting as much, she would text me and say why are you ignoring me or I don't think you're serious about
this...and then when I did she didn't want me to text or wouldn't text me back most of the time.

2007-11-11 08:59:40 · 8 answers · asked by Yeah Right 1

I live in CA and my wife seems to believe that she can take my son and leave me and there is nothing i can do about it. I know there are laws out there in regards to custody and since i am his father and have always been there since birth..i am on the birthing certificate and so forth...if you know of the laws or any online resources i would greatly appreciate them. (he is only 3 months old if that helps

2007-11-11 08:56:49 · 15 answers · asked by forgottensoulsoftheworld 1

2007-11-11 08:51:54 · 28 answers · asked by harokitty 1

2007-11-11 08:39:38 · 12 answers · asked by tan g 1

I am 38, married 5 years. My 1st (10yrs long) and blessed with 2 kids. This is his 1st. I feel he has no clue on how to handle cues and signals in just about every area. I am always making efforts to improve our communication, and he sits in silence and doen't know where to begin. I read books and love to be improving all the time. I am tired of "rescueing" How do I keep looking at the bright side when I am always in the dark with him? When does enough become ENOUGH?

2007-11-11 08:28:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

it was controlled debt (nothing late or skipped) but he has ALOT of debt. If we ever went seperate ways (which I am NOT considering) Is his debt now my debt too? The debt was incurred BEFORE we got married. So I dont think its my responsibility. Any debt AFTER we get married would be my responsibility too, right?

I dont get this stuff!

2007-11-11 08:23:16 · 16 answers · asked by none-ya 2

I have been with my boyfriend for 7 years. We are both young, im 24 and hes 23.
In our relationship we have had many ups and downs, it got really bad at one point where I felt the need to just go away bc in the past he had lied to me by posing as single online and always watching porn, despite the fact that i always pleasured him.

I couldn't handle it anymore, so after being together for 5 years and having a conversation about our future and him telling me he wasnt sure, i decided to study abroad for a year.

I figured it would be the smartest thing i could do, for my own sanity and also to get away and have him figure out what he wanted. So my first week of living abroad he has already added himself to Hotornot as single. Immediately when i saw this i cried but i knew i had a whole year to look forward to in a different country with new people.

So when he called me i told him it was over and why.
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2007-11-11 08:20:44 · 21 answers · asked by Selina 2

I want to keep ALL of my names LOL! I want to keep my middle name and maiden name, and his last name. Should I hyphenate it or just use my maiden name as my middle name? OR, should I keep them all? I like the sound of hyphenated last names, but it could get confusing. HELP!! I just don't know what to do. My husband doesn't mind either way. I just know I want his last name in there too.

2007-11-11 08:17:43 · 42 answers · asked by Boots 3

I recently found out my husband (to whom I have been married barely a year) likes transgenders and wears womens' clothes himself sometimes. I am shocked, and a little upset but I don't know what to do? He obviously loved me enough to marry me but can I trust him not to cheat on me with this secret he still hasn't admitted to me?

2007-11-11 07:56:50 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it etiquette for my sister to invite my mother and father inlaw to her wedding? I don't think she needs to, but she thinks she has to.

2007-11-11 07:46:49 · 9 answers · asked by EmK 3

What would u do if ur husband was on the computer every day looking at porn and using msn to chat up other women.. Its absolutly killing me ive asked him to stop and he said he would but he never does, when i ask him about the porn he says every guy weather they are married or not does it but i feel like he does it rather come near me, as for the msn he says its general and he's talking to everyone but i know its just women cause i change his password and check his contact list and they are all girls, we fell out last night and today about it and i have threatened to leave so many times but he always persuades me to stay, he says he really loves me and would never survive without me but i just feel like his mum. Even today i went his parents with our children (3 and 12 weeks) and i have just got home and he has been on it again today as i have just checked, although b4 i left today he promised he wouldnt do anything as he would rather we got on then look at porn.

2007-11-11 07:45:49 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

we got married 1.5 years back.my husband is a very busy person with lot of stress at work.he never had interest in sex.i had to take the initiative all the times and many times when i take the initiative he will try to go far away from me and he blames me that i have a very high sex drive.we will have sex once in 3 weeks that too i have to kind of force him to that.i slowly got adjusted to that.but recently i found him having sex chat with few girls on internet.he asks fr their photos and praises their beauty.he also sends his photos.i warned him not to do that and he said that he will not repeat it .but he keeps dng this.i cought him many times.he accuses me that im not giving space to him and that we cannot have children if this continues.he also has deppression and he is reluctant to consult a doctor as he is a doctor and those medications wil affect his job.i agree that im nt too attractive as i have strech marks and loose skin on my tummy.is it affecting my life.wat shud i do

2007-11-11 07:43:48 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

we are getting married next year and have a appointment at the registry office at the end of this month i just need to know weather i need to take a full birth certificate or would a short version acceptable. i dont have a passport and we are in the uk

2007-11-11 07:31:31 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

married 12yrs, we dont know how to communicate how do i begin? hes ready to throw in the towel, i want to start over and renew our relationship.

2007-11-11 07:27:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

What if your husband told you he thought you were average and you're not drop-dead gorgeous or hot but you're not ugly either. And if he didn't know you and saw you walking down the street, he probably wouldn't give you a second look? Then thought you were being silly for feeling hurt by this.

Would this hurt your feelings? If so, how would you handle it? Would you ever tell your mate this even if you thought it?

2007-11-11 07:25:57 · 31 answers · asked by Lady J 4