A really fast song came on t.v and I told my husband "Look, I'm cool" and started doing one of those dances that all the young kids are doing. Then he said to me: "you're not cool and have never been cool". Wasn't that a little harsh? Am I getting too old maybe? I'll be 25 next week.
2007-11-11 10:06:31 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
nah hes right ... just kidding nah maybe you took it the wrong way but he was probably playing with you
2007-11-11 10:11:52 · answer #1 · answered by altima 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think he may have been a little harsh. He probably just didn't think about what he was saying. You know how men are. My man does silly dances about the house all the time and believe me this is not cool. He does things like the running man, moonwalk and the robot. I wouldn't say something like that and i don't think he would say that to me. We take the crap out of each other all the time but jokingly and would never offend each other. Did your husband say it in a joking way and you maybe took it the wrong way? Ask him. No point letting something like that turn into a huge problem. He probably doesn't even realise he hurt your feelings.
2007-11-11 11:56:52 · answer #2 · answered by Cinderella 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What the??? Your husband sounds like a buttface! Maybe HE was never cool. From what he said, I would think that you annoyed him by what you did. Even so, that was a HARSH thing for him to say. I mean I used to mess around with my husband (when I was married) and tell him things like that, but I was CLEARLY just kidding with him. And if you think 25 is somewhat old then I must be ancient. I'm turning 32 next month, but I don't feel old or even look my age. Getting old, as you said,,,that's all in the mind.
2007-11-11 10:15:18 · answer #3 · answered by grneyedgrly 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Sure sounds harsh. But are you sure that he wasn't play-ing around?
Think of the expression on his face and the tone of his voice when he said it. Did he smile or any thing?
My husband and I say stuff like that to each other all the time. And we are just playin around. And some times we can even look serious when we say it.
I would ask him first before I got to upset. But if he meant it then he is upset over something. What i can't tell you. But I would definitely let him know how it made you feel.
And no you aren't getting old!!!!! Maybe he is just in a bad mood or something. And he is taking it out on you!!!
But again I would ask him about it and see if he was just play-in around or if he was serious? Before I jumped the gun to quick.
2007-11-11 10:49:12 · answer #4 · answered by rockn75 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That sounds harsh and hurtful to me. Is there something else going on, or was this a one time thing? You should tell him how you felt when he said that. And no, you are not old at 25!
2007-11-11 11:03:30 · answer #5 · answered by Johanna 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It definitely was out of line. Talk to your husband and explain to him that you love him and that his comment hurt you a lot. Maybe he has something going on that you don't know about and that has been bothering him. You are only 25 that is not old at all girl you still haven't reached your prime yet so ignore that. You are cool. I hope I was able to help.
2007-11-11 10:15:08 · answer #6 · answered by gabrielaqlejandra 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Honey I am 44yrs old and think I am still 18..LOL
that was not only harsh but very inconsiderate. Some people say negative things about others so they can feel good about themselves.
You are 25, girl live your life because we only have one,
2007-11-11 13:04:02 · answer #7 · answered by babegirl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he was just thrown off guard by your outburst and maybe he just reacted in an objective way, I wouldn't let this bother you,you just came on a little harsh and he reacted a little harsh, sounds pretty even to me.
2007-11-11 10:56:25 · answer #8 · answered by 24Special 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
haha the young kids? you're only 25. that's young. He's a jerk. Just tell him that was rude. Or even better think of a clever comeback for next time he says something like that. or...maybe he was joking.
2007-11-11 10:25:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i said some stuff like that to my x before. but believe me i never meant any of them. by my x was smart she used to always get back at me right away... there is a book called verbal judo read it.
and then tonight of course he is expecting to get some... well i ll tell you what my x used to make me say i am sorry atleast 20 times before i come close... and sometimes she would still go to sleep leaving me staring at the ceiling saying damn i shouldnt have said that.
Its missed up something what we say to you girls but thats just what men do. sometimes they are pissed or angry they just talk crazy... don't take it to the heart. I am sure he loves you very much.
2007-11-11 10:18:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow. That is crazy harsh.
My wife often makes little cracks like that about me, but I would never make a remark like that about her.
I'd like to believe your husband didn't mean that... but wow!
2007-11-11 10:17:47 · answer #11 · answered by Dano 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋