2007-11-11 09:16:56 · 21 answers · asked by sweetgirl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Is it the Yahoo Answerers' fault that the girl is bored and wants to provoke people?
If he forced another man to rape her then yeah, it's his fault. But ya gotta communicate your needs and tell them if they're not being fulfilled, not just go find someone else! And if you want someone else, you leave the husband first! It's only fair!!
2007-11-11 09:21:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is quite acceptable that husbands cheat. But in this case, it is the other way around. Is it the husbands fault? Seldom does a wife becomes unfaithful - maybe she doesnt get enough support,encouragement, respect and love in the relationship. That is why,it would be easier for her to put the blame on her husband. But I don't think it should be. It is her own choice and neither can the husbands blame their wives for that.
2007-11-11 14:39:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. It isn't.
Every person choose there own path. No one can make you cheat. That is your own personal choice. And you have no one to blame but your self for this choice.
I believe that man and women try to blame it on there spouses though. So that they can try to justify there wrong and make people think that what they did was okay.
It is never okay to cheat. I don't care what kind of turmoil is going on in your marriage. If it is that bad and you can't solve your problems then you need to get divorced. Not go and cheat.
Have enough respect for the person that you married even if you have fallen out of love with them not to stray and if you feel that you can't do this then at least tell them you no longer love them and ask for a divorce. Then go and do as you feel once you are free. And if you can't do this for them, then think of your children and what kind of damage this kind of thing can do to them!!!!!
And if you are the type of person that can't commit to one person then you should never get married to begin with. It is unfair to the person you are marrying. Play the feild for the rest of your life. Don't get someone else envovled in your deceptions.
So cheating is not the spouses fault. Even if the cheater tries to say so. No matter what your spouse did or didn't do for you is still no excuse for you to cross that line.
It was your choice. They didn't force you to cheat. You chose too with your own free will and you can't justifiy it by blaming them for your choice. No matter what they have did or didn't do!!!!
2007-11-11 09:49:05 · answer #3 · answered by rockn75 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. It is the wife's for not trying to deal with the situation. Married couples need to talk things out, they can't pretend that nothing is happening to their marriage. Sometimes couples fall in and out of love through out their marriage. That does not mean that they do not love their spouses it just means that at that time they are not very compatible. Relationships change often during a marriage and both people need to learn to adapt with each other at this time in their life. It is like learning something new about one another and it can be quite interesting at times. Every one goes through life changes more often than most people think. It is all on how you handle the situation. True love can survive anything.
2007-11-11 09:25:21 · answer #4 · answered by Miss Behavin 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It is no body fault who cheats whether its the man or wife who cheats they both are responsible for their own actions okay .
best of luck
2007-11-11 09:25:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't care if its the husband or wife cheats or the reason behind it if one or the other can cheat there is no reason at all to be in a relationship let alone married
2007-11-11 10:04:05 · answer #6 · answered by missy p 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how would it be someone else fault if you spread your legs???
i hate when people blame their faulty relationships as the reason why they cheat.
work out your problems and if you cant then end that relationship and then get involved with someone new.
i really dont feel sorry for anyone that cheats.
2 wrongs dont make a right.
2007-11-11 13:25:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The days of marriage are over. Its not anybodys fault. statistics show that MOST marriages dont last now adays. I say we all just get naked and do like wild animals do and forget the institution of marriage. Its only complicating things in life I think.
2007-11-11 09:41:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm i know most women like to say that women luv to blaim men. is it a womans fault of a guy cheats on her? the answer is no. i hate women blaiming men for everything look in the mirror once in awhile and those who dont believe me look at sex if u cant get off its the guys fault if a guy cant get off we have a problem and need to see a dr (quoting carlos mencia)
2007-11-11 09:22:53 · answer #9 · answered by Footballer54 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, when a man cheats, and tries to blame it on the wife, he gets blasted! no way, is it his fault
2007-11-11 09:33:19 · answer #10 · answered by poodle mom 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋