She says that she cant leave him because its almost x mas (they have 2 kids). Is she just stringing me along or do u think she should waitt till after the new year?
2007-11-11 09:03:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She's playing you both. Wake up and smell the coffee!
2007-11-11 09:07:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The right time is NOW, because you know now that she don't want a true relationship with YOU. Once a cheater always a cheater, so you are holding on for what, when she gets tried and let YOU go. Come on have some pride it's over, don't let her have the last say, you should have the balls to put an end to this madness. Why wait until after the new year what could possibly change in a relationship going nowhere, and being string along until a new year comes in. Why not start a new year being happy it's over, and hoping to find a real meaningful relationship with someone who really wants, and deserve your love, just let go if for no more then a piece of mind.
2007-11-11 11:42:20 · answer #2 · answered by carmel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she hasn't left yet, she isn't going to any time soon. Its more than a month away from Christmas and she could have everything sorted out by then to provide the children with a good holiday.
Next she will be saying thats its almost New Years/Valentines Day/ Easter.
Tell her to give you a call when she has told him its over and is living seperately because you aren't going to be strung along by a woman who either A) Doesn't know what she wants or B) Doesn't have the backbone to do anything about it!
2007-11-11 09:58:47 · answer #3 · answered by Melanie J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should break things off with her. Do you not think some other guy will be strung along and you will be ditched too? She obviously has no respect for you, her husband, her children or marriage and relationships in general. Is this someone you REALLY want to be with? Not to mention her husband will tell her children that she cheated on him with you sooner or later and they will hate the both of you.....sounds like fun.
Why would you put yourself though that?
2007-11-11 09:11:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all the person you are seeing has children by someone else and claims that she can not leave him .
tell you what you need to move on because she is already involved in a relationship that will not end.this is your choice thats why i put this out there.
best of luck
2007-11-11 09:55:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on her when it is a good time to leave. This will give you some extra time trying to fix your relationship with her that is if you still want her.
2007-11-11 09:08:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she'll do it for ya she'll do it to ya as they say. Emotionally she is still there and you don't need that stress. Find someone whose loyalty is to you, not a man she says she wants to leave. And stop shagging a married mother. It's not cool.
2007-11-11 09:08:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop cheating her husband of his wife. If you marry her you will have married a cheater, a back stabber, a betrayer of trust. Is that what you really want?
2007-11-11 09:11:49 · answer #8 · answered by BelieverinGod 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's stringing you along.
2007-11-11 09:06:42 · answer #9 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stall tactic, only. She ain't never gonna leave him--never.
2007-11-11 09:50:05 · answer #10 · answered by Level 7 is Best 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋