2007-11-11 09:10:31 · 19 answers · asked by sweetgirl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ok, gurls! Is there anything wrong with you having a husband and a 'big something' on the side as I suspect some of you do?
PLEASE: Turn that question around before you start chucking rocks at MY house.
2007-11-11 09:18:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It breaks the trust between the two. They share their money, their life with each other, married couples should be able to trust each other.
It opens both of them up to a higher risk of STDs. If he has a little something on the side, that little something might, too. A child could also be accidentally conceived. An unplanned child brings a lot of complications to everything, especially in this situation.
If he's with married to her, chances are he loves her. If the man doesn't they probably shouldn't be together. If he does love her, he shouldn't want to cheat on her. Yes, attractive women may catch his eye but most men love their wives too much to go through with anything.
The same is applicable for women.
2007-11-11 17:18:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't know where you get your information or what type of married men you meet, but most care for their wife and family very much and would not hurt them in this way.
What is wrong is the permanent scars you leave on those you say you love most
2007-11-11 17:17:51 · answer #3 · answered by pussycat 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Most guys don't have "a little something on the side". Just the pigs
2007-11-11 17:13:25 · answer #4 · answered by Bug Fuggy 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about other guys, but I have a conscience. I've never done that. Interestingly enough, pretty much all of my exs had someone on the side. My partner selection sucks big time.
2007-11-11 17:17:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i'll tell u what's wrong with it. i just got out of a "3 way" and i'm not glad about it. ppl will get hurt, i thought it was kool,because i'm 43 and had 2 girl friends. they knew each other and could not get along. so it was 1 day here and 1 day there. i was having sex every day. going 2 work,i was always tired. i'm single now because, the girls said i was playing games. so in 2 days i'm single. and gona b 4 awhile till i slow my horses down and love just 1 special girl, thats how it's gona b from now on. thanks from single in yukon
2007-11-11 17:57:48 · answer #6 · answered by rapterpilot64 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm... I am sensing a little hostility here....
Although it sounds like you, or someone you know, may have been cheated on, not all men cheat.
You will find from some of your responses here, that people don't take too kindly to generalized comments like "we know most of you do".
2007-11-11 17:18:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
whats wrong with it is that its not right to have a wife at home and have a gurl on tha side thats not right and if you was man enough and you loved your wife you wouldn't cheat on her you would be faithful
2007-11-11 17:15:50 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs.sexylady92 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most husbands do not do this or no would ever marry.
Since you exhibit here a lack of trust for men in general.. perhaps you should not ask such questions?
2007-11-11 17:18:18 · answer #9 · answered by BelieverinGod 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would never cheat on my wife. Trust is an important factor in any relationship and it would be awful to betray that trust.
2007-11-11 17:14:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋