I am attracted to my wife's friend.?

Question

I am attracted to my wife's friend. I think she feels the same way. My wife and I dont have sex anymore - any suggestions?

Answer 1

HAVE THE ACT OF UNNATURAL LUST WITH HER

Answer 2

I don't mean to be so direct but - are you a moron? What you are doing already is cheating. Even if you don't think so - if you put yourself in the fire you might get burned - get what i am saying. I can't understand how you or your wife can trust each other - really! You have 2 choices stop what you are doing and get new friends or keep doing what your doing and you might as well do more because you are heading for divorce already.

Answer 3

I suggest you work on bringing the spark back into your marriage.You said 'i think she feels the same' which shows you are assuming things. forget the friend and focus on the wife for now.Communicate......it is so important. When there is no communication, assumptions are made. Nothing wrong in being attracted to someone else....it's human but you have a relationship with your wife and it would be good to make that relationship strong and special. Good luck! Cheers!

Answer 4

See if you are having communication problem then its good have an open talk abt it afterall you guys got married to each other and your relationship is not that much weak that you guys cant talk abt such matters...If you still feel that you can cope up with your wife then divorce, rather than having extra marital affair that would do nothing but damage you and your relationship and leave you with bad memories. Such things are good for just time being but in long run it would bother you and your relationship.. Think abt it before you jump into the well.

Answer 5

This a marriage. Are you not happy? This is a relationship of trust. Will you be happy if your wife was attracted to your friend. Eventually this will lead to trust issues. Is this who you are as a person? Is this what you want out of your life? Will you feel guilty to be with your wife later on? Is this how you want to lead a life, eventually it is you who will have to live with yourself with all these questions running in your brain. This will lead to a lot of doubts in your wife when she simply smiles at your friend. The way you treat this friend is the value you hold for women in general. This has to do with your own personal values and attitude you hold.

As far as my experience on my job as a therapist, i have seen people struggle with guilt even during end of life situations. Do you want to live a divided life? Acting as a good husband, and being a disloyal man behind the scene. Why do you choose to be schizophrenic.....i mean some one so divided.

Why would you give this experience to this friend to cheat her won friend, what wrong did your wife do to have two dishonest persons in her life whom she believes so dearly??? Isnt it sad that you choose to be one of this person??? Too many negative persons around your wife and she is not even aware of it. Do you hate her so much??? if so first divorce her because later she will have problems trusting men.

Answer 6

You not happy with your wife try to work out you don't want work out,,,, file for divorce,but mean-while don't do any thing stupid,don't add your name in list of bastard man.forget about everything ,just remember you want to be happy as a GOOD man.you at list honest with your self on Internet,make it happen in your real life.

Answer 7

I'm attracted to many people in my everyday life but that doesn't mean I want to have sex with them. If you don't have sex with your wife well I'm sorry but she is your wife and you shouldn't cheat on her.

Answer 8

plz read it all...
what if ur wife was the one u love, and after a while , she was attracted to ur friend! what would u do? how would u feel? u will be very hurt, cz the one u love doesnt love u! on the other hand, ur friend is cheating on u cz he is getting along with her! thats a bad situation, and i am sure that u will not accept it as a man does! ur life will be destroyed, ur friend will ruin it!
all u have to do is to get away for a while, ur mind will be calm , as so ur decisions, be wise! u will struggle, but u will win! try to get closer to ur wife, she needs u right now, and she will do whatever it takes to get her real HUSBAND back, dont do this to urself, its not too late yet...
with all my regards, aya k.

Answer 9

yaar why u r doing this

hav u ever thought that if ur wife do the same and she start loving ur friend wat u will say or do

yaar if your married life is not going gud now that dont mean u run to another girl and that too to ur wife's friend ( very bad)

yaar give a time

if u drink a milk without suger and thinking that a milk is not gud that its u that havent put a sugar in it

by this i want to tell u that marriage is successful will u mix ur share of love, care, respect, littel bit of nottyness


yar best of luck

but wat u r thinking is not right in my views



at last u know the best

Answer 10

The reason for not having sex.you have not mentioned.
if you have decided to face the situations which may arise after you wife comes to know and your wifes friend husband if at all he his there then close your eyes and proceed without applying breaks to your vehicle.

Answer 11

to all with similar emotional setbacks.
can you get over the mental turmoil after the interest gets satisfied and totally over. it may take just a few minutes or at times a little longer.but think your healthy marriage life is at stack.think also if your wife has similar feelings!