ok so I said it like this....I asked him if I could ask him something and he said "go ahead" so I said "you could say no if you want, it's understandable" then I said "could I wear the ring again? I mean and for it to mean something again" he sighed and said "I dont care"
I'm the one that had the ring, but after that I just gave it back and told him that I was "giving it back until he's ready"
We hit a rough patch in our relationship a few months ago when we were engaged and split up, but now are working things out.
I love him very much & am in love with him and I feel that he feels the same way for me. actually I should say I KNOW cause he always tells me. and we have been together for 6 years now.
What do you think about all this?
was the idc a good thing or bad?
2007-11-11 13:19:51 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This thing is done
2007-11-11 13:26:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer he gave you is pretty bad. It sounds like he is not ready to be engaged again. I don't know what the background on your relationship is or why you 2 split up a few months ago, but from the way you typed it out it seems like he is not ready. He may still be in love with you, but just needs a little more time. The fact that he didn't say "No" is a good sign, but it is also a bad sign that he said he didn't care. Think about it. Do you really want to be in a relationship with someone who is obviously not 100% committed? Are you sure you want to be with someone who doesn't "care" if he is with you? Again, I don't know what the situation is, but I would say be very careful and protect your heart, in case he suddenly decides that he wants to break up completely. Good Luck!
2007-11-11 13:31:36 · answer #2 · answered by iloveeeyore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
his answer means just what he said I don't care !. by all means and six long years later it sounds as though your relalionship is not dependent on true love, it's either a co dependet issue on both parts, convenience, or a financial issue, regardless , love is shown with gestures of kindness not words, by all means after 30 of marriage myself, this is the way he will treat you always.. and no :,you can not change a person because we are only what we truly really are. plain and simple to recognize this is not true love. .!
Love is the cherished gift of ones self
Love gives fullness to life and eyes that are always bright
Love gives meaning to the past the present and the future.
I don't mean to hurt anyones feelings but I believe and it has been told to me that 80% of people that split up do so again. so keep this in mind, his words are just not a good outlook for either of yours future I wish you the best and the old phrase only time will tell well I think it's talking to you so please listen.In rereading your question you say and I think he loves me ?? you actually have to wonder???
2007-11-11 13:42:36 · answer #3 · answered by Jenn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, his reaction doesn't sound like he's very interested in being that serious. If he really wanted to be engaged to you, his reaction would have been very different.
Six years is a long time to be together and still not be engaged, or better yet, married. Having broken up after becoming engaged is not a good sign, either. You can stay with him if you want, but you may be wasting your time.
2007-11-11 13:31:24 · answer #4 · answered by Windy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad. If he doesn't care one way or the other, how is that a good thing. You want someone who is as committed to you as you are to him. You do care and so should he - otherwise the relationship is not worth keeping - even after 6 years. You deserve to be loved and cared about totally, don't settle for less.
2007-11-11 13:28:11 · answer #5 · answered by oldbeatlefan53 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sweetie - if a man says I don't care... he doesn't care. That is one thing I have learned about men. We as women try to analyze a statement and try to put more into what a man says. Men are pretty simple. Their statement is what it is... exactly what they say. And if "he doesn't care.." truly dear, do you want to be engaged to man that isn't totally ecstatic that you would want to be his fiancee? Marriage is not to be taken lightly. Some things are worth fighting for, and marriage is one of them. This is one of those times that "I don't care" isn't enough - you deserve much more. Think long and hard and carefully make your choices - this is a very serious decision. Good luck to you.
2007-11-11 13:31:40 · answer #6 · answered by Mdnght Drmr 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-16 04:44:43 · answer #7 · answered by bolen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When it comes to marriage and relationships "I don't care" isn't a good thing. Plain and simple. There should be more passion and concern when it comes to matters of the heart.
At least that's one thing I've learned after 37 years and two marriages.
2007-11-11 13:25:37 · answer #8 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This doesn't sound like a good way to start a marriage, and if he says IDC instead of YEAH! It doesn't sound too possitive. When you talk to him be more confident, don't EVER say this......, " You can say no if you want" ~~ He needs time to deal with whatever broke you 2 up.
2007-11-11 13:25:04 · answer #9 · answered by darlin 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like this guy has trouble communicating, #1.
And #2, it sounds like he really isn't ready to get married/engaged.
I hate to say it, but I'd move on. He doesn't sound as commited to this relationship as you are.
2007-11-11 14:32:12 · answer #10 · answered by kerrisonr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He saying he don't care. He is pretty much giving up on the relationship
2007-11-11 13:32:52 · answer #11 · answered by rene1695 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋