Marriage & Divorce - 14 October 2007

my ex girlfreind contacted me in email should i tell my wife who is a bit insecure and thinks i still want my ex girlfreind oh by the way she sent me an email telling me her mother is paralyzed and to send me condolenses on my brothers death.

2007-10-14 14:34:30 · 22 answers · asked by gamafoo 4

What did I do that was so wrong?? My fiance broke up with me... she doesn't tell me anything what's wrong with her. I ask her and I she says nothing or I ask are we going to talk about it and she says nope. I can't win. I try to make it the best for us. Everything I do upsets or gets her angry.... I'm serious. I pick her up and she asks what are we going to do, I tell her and she gets pissed at me.

What did I do wrong? I have nothing left now...

=( Yeah like seether's song---- "Broken"

2007-10-14 14:33:29 · 12 answers · asked by j.balde@att.net 1

2007-10-14 14:31:41 · 11 answers · asked by Mudblood 2

suppose you say you love your wife, suppose you want to be forgiven, and the other woman was a mistake.
Describe your definition of forgiveness, is it instant? do you expect her to never mention it again? do you do territorial bonding with your wife? or do you gradually give back the love to her, a little at a time?
do you resent her setting rules and boundaries for you that you refuse to follow? (No one tells me how to behave) or do you comply with her requests?

I'm looking for a man's perspective here please.

2007-10-14 14:27:35 · 18 answers · asked by sass24 2

i can barely make ends meet. how is payments figured

2007-10-14 14:24:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

First of all I'm not married nor in a relationship at all. I know a few guys that watch porn(one of them don't even have sex with his wife at all).

Is that cheating? to watch porn?

2007-10-14 14:21:46 · 22 answers · asked by Butterfly 1

We're living separated, I'm in Norh California and he;s in South. I've move back to South Cali because I can't handle how my life was at my in laws's house. I moved and his mom told him to break up and he did. He came to visit my daughter and we're still keeping in touch. I asked him how our future will be? he said i'll never leave my parents. I said ok if you think your parents are your priority and you can take care of them and I'll take care of my 1 year old daughter and my five months old fetus alone. He said "to weight my parents and our kids to see whom is more important then I would say, if it wasn't my parents brought me to this world and our kids wouldn't exist." It's hurt me to death, my kids deserve the best and most of all is the love from us.

2007-10-14 14:21:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My son is 21 and is in the Army. He was hurt in Iraq which has left him with slight physical damage but mostly mental, going through flash backs. So here comes the abuse things he met a 20 year old who is divorced with 1 child and she was supposedly abused by her exhusband.
She about 1 1/2 months ago hit him, and on sept 7 he decided to marry her. During a flash back he tapped her and she ran out. I do belive he has never touch her He was taken to his barracks. then wanted to work it out. She started in on him accusing him of an affair he was hurt by that and took many pills and went to hospital. He was again put in the barracks, and then convinced the army to let him go home. he lasted 2 days and last night calls to say there is problems. My youngest son is there and has witnessed some of this. Last night she hit him many times and punched him in the stomach. My problem is this he wants me to help her. He wants to go back. I am scared and do not know where to turn for help

2007-10-14 14:13:34 · 4 answers · asked by lpdecca 2

I am a divorce mom of two kids .After my ex husband came back from prison(after 3and 1-2 years)we agreed to reconcile for sake of our kids and also for some love we had for each other.We had recently moved to a new town, everything was going smoothly , we both had found good jobs and restablishing ourselvesin the new community.as a father and a husband he is a great man.I aggred to reconcile because he asked me to give him a second chance,and he commited drug crime and also ihad d some soft corner for him.Now he has left the house ,he wont give me any reason why he did, he said to me that I will do my duties as a father and there is no compatibility between us that we r so diffrent with each other.I m devastated and so r our kids.I had high hope from new life,I feel like im going to collapse,( there is no girl is involved with him i have checked) Please help !! He does not want to see acounselor, he does not want to give any reason for his action,should i wait for him?

2007-10-14 14:12:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am 17 years old , just got engaged to a 37 , i have already been with him , lost my virginity to him and i love him.
I know marriage is not just about love and sex, its more about sharing or compromising, however, I am very insecure about whats going to happen in my future life , am i gonna regret it ? can i contenue to study , will i be happy in my sex life etc etc.
He is certainly ready to get married and he could get more women to get married to , he was married anyways long time ago and he cheated on his wife as he used to womenise a lot but, thats a part of his past , he wants to build a family and live a life.
How do you think this engagement,marriage will go on ?

2007-10-14 14:08:58 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi. I have this class assignment which I'm suppose to interview adults or couples who are over 50 years old about their views on intimate relationship (you don't have to be in a relationship to answer this. you can be around 50 years old--that's fine).

It's just a few questions. Please state your sex and age too.

Thank you so much in advance!!


1. How do you feel that love has changed as you have grown older?
2. Does love change as the relationship ages? If so, how?
3. Looking back what would you change knowing what you know about how you negotiated love and intimacy?
4. What is the best advice you could give a young person about how to negotiate love and intimacy in the first decade of the 21st century?

2007-10-14 14:02:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex-fiancee knows I have been having a hard time. She wants to help me by being my friend. I don't think I can be her friend because I still have feelings for her. She wants to help me am I being selfish?

2007-10-14 13:55:50 · 20 answers · asked by jondoe 2

went through a horrible time with this disease and died 6 months later. Their 41st anniversary was in June 01 (the last one they had together) and it was just days before he was confined to the bed until he passed. My father took my mother out to eat at a very nice place to celebrate. He passed away in August of 01 so that dinner was the last place they ate together outside of their home, AND it was their anniversary. My mom ended up marrying someone else this past year, 5 years later, and I found out the other day that she met my brother to drop something off to him, with her new husband at the same place my dad had taken her to celebrate their anniversary. Would this upset anyone else? By the way, my brother had no idea that's where our Dad had taken her.

2007-10-14 13:53:08 · 17 answers · asked by Corona 5

let him? Do you like it. My husband and I had a conversation about this. He thinks about 60% of wives do it and like it. I think probably less. Got an opinion? Let's try not to get deleted here.

2007-10-14 13:48:26 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife doesnt like for me to grow a beard. Should I anyway..if its what I want to do? Will she get over it?

2007-10-14 13:39:55 · 34 answers · asked by Chewy 2

Willie and I have been together for yrs. he wants to marrie me but is not responsible enough to become a husband . He like's to do things his way never asking my opinoin first.

2007-10-14 13:39:32 · 12 answers · asked by love ya 2 1

2007-10-14 13:34:29 · 3 answers · asked by D;D;BBJF434 1

Well, I guess it's too late now, coz I just did it...

2007-10-14 13:27:32 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous

This guy likes me for three years. He have never pursuing or shown me that he really wants me. After I moved to other states ---he wrote 20 poems about us and posted them online. Why does he wrote poems about loving me, but he never shown that he loves me? Is he sincere?

Thank you so much.

P.S. I have asking so many question about this. I want to move on, but we still love ech other. Importantly, I think he is my true love :)

2007-10-14 13:26:53 · 18 answers · asked by Hope 4

We are very close she tell me everything. But I dont agree with her on something . we been friend for years I believe when you married you should love your husband and respect him the same goes for him to. Just this pass week my friend told me when she make love to her husband she fantasy about other men. she said if she dent fantasy it would be hard for her to get a orgies she said it miserable your making love and you cant get orgies it a mind thing,I use to agree with her but I'm not so sure about this she might be making love to her husband and call him jack his name is not jack and the first thing will come to his mind she cheating on me with Jack.. and he might hurt her. what can do to keep this from happen please help

2007-10-14 13:24:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I discovered he was secretly calling a woman from his business cell phone, but deleting the call history on his phone. (I got access to his business cell account online)
I confronted him with this and he told me his calls to her were mostly business related, and she was just diagnosed with cancer, and he did consider her a friend, and called to check on her; he deletd the call history in fear that I wouldnt understand, and it just seemed like it would avoid more headaches than it was worth.
I didnt buy it, and kept ragging him about it, and the next thing I know, he's packing his sh*t and wanting a divorce. WTF!!!
Why such a drastic thing as a divorce over a supposed "friend". I was willing to half way believe him until he pulled the 'divorce thing'.
We have since reconciled, and I have dropped it. Do you think his story is legit, a coworker/friend with cancer, or do you think he was up to no good? (this woman lives in TX, and we live in Illinois, they met in an Army school)

2007-10-14 13:10:21 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

So i was doing a reseach paper on my computer but it was messed up, so i used my wife's laptop and found this pic of her and this goofy lookin guy should i be jelious? mad? what? it is kinda clear that they had something together! This guy is so goofy looking i know he was a mistake! Help! we have kids together!!
check the picture out>>>>
http://www.flickr.com/photos/cperis/46843602/

2007-10-14 12:38:44 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-14 12:26:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-14 12:17:36 · 46 answers · asked by dober-man 1

Why do people tend to push the other one away and then pull them close the next minute?

Why do we want affection one minute and then don't the next?

Is it normal to be this way after being with someone for awhile?

2007-10-14 12:17:32 · 13 answers · asked by torn 3

My bf calls me a wonderful mate. he said 'mate' means spouse... he says that he loves me very much..but when I asked if he's in love with me...he hesitated...giving no straight answer...I dont get him...any interpreters pls??

2007-10-14 12:12:59 · 11 answers · asked by MiMi 1

my husband is away at work every other month, hes at work one month and at home the next month.. its been like that for one year we have been married...he and his brother are best friends and my hubby is older by one year.. brother in law lives in the apartment behind our house. whenever i need help, my hubby said i can just call him and hes always there to help me willingly.. but the problem started recently when i started having dreams about my brother in law and i kissing and making love, it happened many times now and i was disgusted at first.. he was not badlooking, he is more lean than my husband who has gained weight a little bit. now i always look for reason so i could call him in the house like fixing the bulblights, the fone dial tone, the grass cutter, this and that just to see him..i would wear short shorts sometimes and get near him.. i feel horrible doing this to my husband because i know he loves me very much ..what shall i do? i want this stupid fantasy to stop!!!

2007-10-14 12:11:01 · 16 answers · asked by confused 1

well it all happend last night, i just came back from the park with my two kids gabriella 6 and gaven 2. my husband said he had to stay home to do some last minute work so when i came home the lights were on and i kept saying hello but n one answered and i said gabs to you think daddys here and i put my stuff down and as i was walking i heard a noise coming from my bedroom and their was my sister jenifer( i have 2 sisters and three brothers) and my husband having sex! i never really liked jenifer because i was jealous of her. she was 23 had platium blond hair, blue eyes and was 100lbs. and ever since i eloped in vegas 4 years ago and meet my husband she wanted him. so i left and packed some of my kids clothes and went to my other sisters house justine. i dont kno what to do i need help! thanks

2007-10-14 12:07:37 · 21 answers · asked by Jamie E 1

In the last 5 years we have seemed to become even closer. He started goin to church with me. Out of the blue he started becomming distant and then a few months later told me he was leaving and wanted a divorce. No seperaton or councelng. A divorce. He said he could'nt do it anymore.

2007-10-14 12:00:41 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ive been going out with him for more than 2 months now...He brought me to meet his mom last wk...was brief and casual...In my culture its quite a big deal being introduced to parents...what about in western culture? kinda wanna know whats going through his mind...

2007-10-14 11:57:28 · 10 answers · asked by MiMi 1