Marriage & Divorce - 14 October 2007

2007-10-14 11:56:10 · 15 answers · asked by Nice Girl101 2

Question for WOMEN

Would you share; I want to know. Do you, or have you, receive/d and do you enjoy oral TLC in that special place.

2007-10-14 11:52:04 · 34 answers · asked by enigmatic1844 3

I am 20 years and very mature for my age. I had tough times in life and many struggles. Struggles beyond what normal people have to deal with.

I really love this man a lot with true love. I love him so much that the age difference does NOT even matter and I don't even feel the age difference. I feel he is the same as me.

I have an AVERSION when people say:
*You could be his daughter.
*He could be your father.
*Why can't you find someone your own age?
*What could you possibly have in common?

What I am going to tell my parents? They want me to marry someone close to my age. Not someone who is 22 years older than me. How can I justify my love for him to my parents?

2007-10-14 11:48:39 · 33 answers · asked by BeautifulGirl 2

This Question is a follow up to this previous question http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AhTLUx4pN8xk4y65Ip8f9NDsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20071014113623AAuBnis

In marriage, if both partners are waiting to be loved/respected/served in order to be willing to give love/respect/service, how do these things ever get started?

In other words, if our love is contingent on the love of our spouse and they do not love us first, how will love be perpetuated?

2007-10-14 11:42:45 · 3 answers · asked by atomzer0 6

my bf has been going through a stressful 2 yr divorce. i've been with him for 4 months. it's over this week so i had planned a get a way to the beach this coming weekend. my intention was to celebrate and give him a nice relaxing weekend after all this stress. i didn't book anything but when i mentioned it to him he said "thats the weekend after my court date...i'll prolly be hating women by then" well i asked him a month ago and things have been rocky lately. i haven't talked to him for a week now. should i book it and go by myself or with a friend...so when he calls next weekend i'm at the beach...the trip he could've came on but was too stubborn. sorry i sound bitter...i'm hurting by his actions right now but starting to get a little pissed off with the lack of contact. I don't even know if he plans on pursuing our relationship or not, if i was used, or if he's just being a typical guy wallowing in self pity. he'll have to call sometime if he wants his house key back i guess?

2007-10-14 11:38:16 · 9 answers · asked by Jax 3

is it ever ok to hit a boy in the balls? if so when? and when have you done it and why?

2007-10-14 11:31:11 · 17 answers · asked by Mary 1

2007-10-14 11:28:43 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-14 11:27:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am curious to know what men think about marrying a virgin!

regardless about what anyone will think, i am sticking to my decision of not "doing it" unil i get married someday, even if it means till im 30!!

but men...im curious....just tell me with honesty....how would you feel about marrying a woman who was still a virgin??

2007-10-14 11:26:55 · 38 answers · asked by ILoveGreen ZipZapZop 4

Okay my best is pregnant she's almost 20 and she's married and has a 1 year old with her husband by which those two haven't been getting along at all , she's threatened to divorce him all the time . But he won't let her cause he loves her tooo much ... There marriage hasn't been good at all ... One night she came home and found him having sex with another women in her bed .. This was a month after they were married that it happened. She made the mistake of cheating on him like a month ago . She hasn't had sex with her husband is 4 months .. She took a pregnancy test and it came back postive . What should she do ? She knows it's the other mans child . She told the other man that she's pregnant with his child and he goes it can't be mine i'm fixed and she's like well it is and he's denying it... help us ... Please ...

2007-10-14 11:25:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My birthday was last Friday, and my husband didn't even acknowledge it, and I know he didn't forget because I reminded him on Thursday. He said, "oh yeah, I forgot to get you anything” I waited all day Friday thinking he would get something while he was out or at work, he works 2nd shift, 3-9. I was a little surprised he didn't get me even a card, or say happy birthday. I wasn't expecting much, cause he's never really gave gifts and stuff because of his culture. We went to bed and after midnight, he said "your birthday came and went” I was a little upset that that was all he said, and it meant he didn't just forget. I said "yeah that's what they do". Like it was no big deal, and it really didn't bother much till today.

2007-10-14 11:21:00 · 32 answers · asked by DeAnna 5

It has been a few wks since he officially broke up with me after 4 years b/c he was unhappy... should i send a book da vinci code he always wanted to read (ordered on amazon for dirt cheap), and a plain card that just says happy bday... i won't wrap the present up, just send it in plain manila envelope. of course, i'm not gonna lie, i would at least hope he will say thank you, but even if he doesn't, i would feel i have done my part. at the same time, i don't want him to think this is another ploy to get him back.

I took the break up badly and I did ask him back before but he said he wants to be single, feels stress-free, tell me to not have hope, find another man. i haven't called him in a couple of weeks and don't plan to.

If you had to put your money on the possibility of him calling back or even think about getting back, would it more likely to happen if i didn't send him gift or card on his bday OR if i do send him gift on his bday? Plz answer this.

2007-10-14 11:19:52 · 9 answers · asked by GirlinTrouble 1

Here is the scenario. Your husband/wife has to go to an event that is related to what ever their job is. You are not in the same profession. The event can be a conference, fair, hair show, an award dinner, open house, museum tour, etc. Basically ANY SOCIAL AND CASUAL EVENT THAT CARRIES the THEME of your PARTNER'S CAREER. For the sake of argument, let us say the event happens on a weekend and you do not work weekends. Do you tend to go or do your own thing? Why do you choose to do this? What do you think this says about your marriage?

I believe that the husband/wife should go with their marriage partner to their career event.

Please share a story. Describe freely. I got the time to listen.

I am writing a research paper on love. So any feedback related to this would be great!!!

Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.

2007-10-14 11:12:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

It all started 9 years ago, when my mom first married this man. He started out having very little money, no house, and the only thing he had was green card. He took advantage of my mom because she was a successful woman who ran a restaurant partnership.
When he moved in, he caused a lot of grief to my grandparents that lived with us so they moved out. Then awhile later, he brings his nephew to live with us. I ended leaving for college so he brought another person from China to live in the house. From what I understand my mom didn't get any sort of payment to take care of these boys, but my stepdad apparently accepted payment but kept and used the money for himself. He also forced my mom to quit her work to create a separate restaurant. By doing so, he had access to all the money and stole money. He also had 2 kids with my mom and he never takes care of them. I am currently commuting to my college so I can come home and take care of my brothers. They got a divorce last year.

2007-10-14 10:59:21 · 17 answers · asked by rurah 2

My fiance and I broke up, he got my dining room suite, washer dryer, my living room suite, (witch belonged to my late sister in law.) he got my computer, household items. I feel like I have been violated. I am embarased that I let him do this to me. He was always on MY computer and I found he was writing to other women.
How long will it take for me to get my self esteem back? I feel like such a loser.

2007-10-14 10:42:48 · 20 answers · asked by marisia 3

2007-10-14 10:24:12 · 8 answers · asked by Paige H 2

2007-10-14 09:55:54 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Married 18 years. One child, who is 7. Husband stopped worked 3.5 years ago and won't get a job. I am able to support us, but barely. My child is going to have to go without and he won't work. I told him to leave and now he's living in a continous stay hotel at a cost of twice our mortgage. He has no way to pay. i've given him two weeks, till I shut off the money. Is this fair?

2007-10-14 09:44:05 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband is screwing my (now ex) best friend. My marriage was over anyway and I have met someone else too. I have no problem with my husband moving on in his life as neither of us blame the other for the marriage breakdown and that's genuine.

My husband always liked my friend and she knew about this. When we told people we were separating she then split from her husband weeks later. I have found out that all the time she was listening to my troubles that she was corresponding and meeting with my husband behind my back. Probably making sure it was over so she could leave one wealthy man to move straight on with another I truly believe.

He's now moved on with her and isn't even my friend anymore. Who is more deceptive and the bigger liar? And who is the worst person in this? Him for turniing his back on me and my kids or her for stabbing me in the back?? This is all part of my cleansing of the situation! Thank you xx

2007-10-14 09:27:37 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was walking to the mailbox the other day, and one of the maintenance men riding on a golfcart stopped me and asked me if I lived in "building 4". When I asked him why, he said, with a smile on his face, that he thought he saw me "over there", which makes me think he's a potential rapist trying to figure out where I live.

2007-10-14 09:19:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

He doesn't watch our daughter like he should and I am currently living in my sister in laws basement because he wanted to try moving to a bigger city to see if things would get better for us and all that has happened is he is keeping a part-time job as usual and playing that stupid game more because now we have high speed internet, He doesn't watch our child properly. He stays up all night and plays and expects her (she's 4) to watch cartoons while he sleeps. I am getting tired of it but I do love him and really don't want to leave him but it has been 7 years and and after all the promises to change he hasn't what should I do?

2007-10-14 09:12:48 · 6 answers · asked by chloesmom_03 1

2007-10-14 09:04:52 · 4 answers · asked by ely 1

You get let go of someone that has changed your life. I'm not sure if anyone has felt this way before but i love this guys so much we've been on and off for about five years and we always end right back with each other only to go the other way again. I think that it's time to stay in the other direction but it's hard when you've been together for so long and were friends. Please be serious no stupid remarks.

2007-10-14 09:03:55 · 7 answers · asked by NA 2

2007-10-14 08:53:23 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

We are family friends known to eachother families 50years.Hes 35 and im 26.When we're together, he's always telling me i'm a good partner person beautiful about us being married.But twice these 2 things have happened
1.After we just met he gave me gifts i gave him card/cd to thank him he went to my cousin told on me.
2.Months back after confirm meeting on my success of business project with romantic weekend he went told my cousin to tell me to stop mails calls etc but ive never called him he mailed me about meeting.Everytime i ask him, he'll say nothing but i know things are told by him to my cousin,as cousin wouldn't know these things unless he or i tell them and it's not me.I am so mad at him twice hes told on me with my cousin not just to me.Im fine if he just tells me but why does he do it i feel hes against me.I hate him twice for doing it but we love eachother married he says loves me wants to work it out.Please note rumors are cousins gay my partner isnt gay i introduced them.

2007-10-14 08:27:18 · 9 answers · asked by abrowneyesbeauty 1

His ex wife has lied numerous times. He hasn't seen his kids in years because she never let him see them and whenever he called her husband made her hang up on him. Then she moved out of state and he didn't know where to get in touch with them. Then she finally got hold of us and said she needed to get in touch with him due to his daughters health. Of course we fell for that and my son met her at the mall and he was served papers that he is due in court Tuesday. The papers had Sept. 7th on he just got them. He has been paying child support on them. He is litterally going crazy not wanting to give them up even if he can't see them. There divorce was in Arkansas and she is filing in Oklahoma where she now lives.

2007-10-14 08:19:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Assuming that both are equally as strong in the relationship but you could only have one, which would it be: friendship or passion?

2007-10-14 08:17:38 · 16 answers · asked by Jaded 2

I got married in November 2006 to a Hindu in India. My husband is not interested in family life.The marriage is not consummated. I suspect that he is impotent. We are not living together for the past 4 months. He is living in a foreign country now.I want to file a divorce. Should I ask him for a mutual consent or file a divorce seperately?I want to live a peaceful life.How long will it take for me to get a divorce?

2007-10-14 08:15:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I guess I need more support from you because I am so much lost after he left: I dated a guy for two years, he did not have any male friends except me, his ex gf and his ex wife. Whenever we had an argument, his ex wife would take him back. However, after few months later, he wanted to be back with me again. This situation has happened once in the past... Should I take him back this time? Or, should I move on..... What should I do? I understand that every couple had a history together, but it is harmful for the new relationsip if he can not move on from the past... how long I will get rid of of sadness...

2007-10-14 08:10:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My inlaws sent me flowers for my birthday....When I called to say thanx no one answered the phone.I know they were home.I haven't talked to them for some time(except on Father inlaw's birthday when I CALLED to say happy birthday).I feel like they sent the flowers for good form instead of to be friendly...this insults me.I would rather they sent nothing at all..........Would you be upset?

2007-10-14 07:51:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous