Okay my best is pregnant she's almost 20 and she's married and has a 1 year old with her husband by which those two haven't been getting along at all , she's threatened to divorce him all the time . But he won't let her cause he loves her tooo much ... There marriage hasn't been good at all ... One night she came home and found him having sex with another women in her bed .. This was a month after they were married that it happened. She made the mistake of cheating on him like a month ago . She hasn't had sex with her husband is 4 months .. She took a pregnancy test and it came back postive . What should she do ? She knows it's the other mans child . She told the other man that she's pregnant with his child and he goes it can't be mine i'm fixed and she's like well it is and he's denying it... help us ... Please ...
2007-10-14 11:25:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The other man is married and in the army and her husband is in the navy ...
2007-10-14 11:31:01 · update #1
I would suggest that your friend go to Planned Parenthood and get the matter taken care of before it gets too far out of hand. If it is this other man's child, she is facing a legal battle with DNA testing and all that. She might as well end it right there. I would also recommend a tubal ligation while she is at it.
Your friend is immature as all get-out.
Her husband is a user that is still on the prowl for side-dishes and that is not likely to change.
If she really wants a divorce, she needs to go to the bookstore and get the DIY divorce guide for her state, and download all the forms from the state website and fill them out, then take those and the few hundred dollars down to the courthouse and FILE.
Your friend needs to focus on being a mother and getting an educations so she can provide for herself and her kid.
2007-10-14 11:35:27 · answer #1 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Divorce the husband
2. File paternity paperwork with the court demanding "the other man" submit to a DNA test.
3. Demand child support
2007-10-14 18:29:54 · answer #2 · answered by jeffnd101 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your friend and her husband need to stop worrying about their own selfish wants and start thinking about BOTH of these babies. The poor things haven't even got started in life and they're already being handicapped by selfish, ignorant parents that never should have gotten married or had babies to begin with.
Tell them to grow the hell up or give the kids to more capable human beings.
2007-10-14 18:30:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a train wreck from the beginning. get out of the marriage and do the best she can with the children. have paternity test when the child is born. no one will benefit if she stays.
2007-10-14 18:44:40 · answer #4 · answered by donovan t 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends: this is what happens when you get married too soon, and start a family too soon, and for what? Military benefits.
Well I hope their worth it, b/c sounds like your friend just got herself into a "world of sh it"
Sorry but she's dumb, he's dumb, and now they can all chew on a fat slice of dumbasspie.
2007-10-14 18:35:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
get your stupid friend on some birth control. have the baby and deal with the consequences. hopefully she will learn to be responsible. that's why 20 year olds should not be having babies. you're still babies yourselves. if her husband "love her tooo much", then he needs to also step up to the plate and deal with the situation, both of them need to grow up and stop thinking of themselves and take care of their kids. idiots. both of them..
2007-10-14 18:33:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She needs to get a lawyer....and most likely a paternity test will be requested.....oh the tangled webs we weave!
2007-10-14 18:31:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
first get a divorce second forget the other man he is no good if he dening the baby already and have the baby it is a gift from god
2007-10-14 18:31:03 · answer #8 · answered by pearl_hoff 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She gets a paternity test. Period.
2007-10-14 18:28:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
abortion
2007-10-14 18:35:49 · answer #10 · answered by carmey1173 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋