Marriage & Divorce - 14 October 2007

My fiance's ex wife invited him to her apartment for their daughters 17th b-day party, and he went (I was not invited). they met at a resturant to decide what graduation pictures,"THEY" were going to order. and whenever something goes wrong with her vehicle he fixes it for her at a friends house with her there???? last but not least on his last cell phone bill there were a few 25 min long phone calls to his ex's cell #.. I am divorced myself with a child, and we sure don't have this bond going on. Is this the way divorce is suppose to be, and did I do the wrong thing kicking him out???

2007-10-14 03:23:46 · 18 answers · asked by Tracy H 1

2007-10-14 03:15:38 · 3 answers · asked by James r 1

2007-10-14 03:11:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

If a girl has decided that she wants a divorce and freedom, how does she move? contact the advocate first? which is the shortest way out? some say it takes 1 yr of separation before u file a case?? some say for a girl who wants a divorce it is easier and quicker..all too confusing..some one pl advise..

2007-10-14 02:57:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I mean, married nine times - so many men wanted her (I can't marry once), or bad - she is not good, and men run away eventually? Still, they wanted her at the beginning, so she has something attractive about her?

2007-10-14 02:53:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a 23 yrd old girl...during s..x is squirting means water coming outside from your..v...normal? does this function happen to all women duringx...i used to squirt...is it good or bad?

2007-10-14 02:49:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

all he does is sit on the couch all day drinking beer and watching tv...he doesnt even speak unless some one pisses him off...the kids and i usually just pretend he isnt even there and do our own thing.....his attitude keeps getting worse and it seems like he is never satisfied and is so unappreciative of me and the kids and the things we do for him..how would you deal with someone like this??

2007-10-14 02:44:50 · 21 answers · asked by lisa p 2

im earning minimum wage and cant afford expnsive lawyers

2007-10-14 02:44:19 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you believe that if you divorce a woman she has the right to take half of your money even the money that you made before the two of you were married? why or why not?

2007-10-14 02:42:29 · 4 answers · asked by djmixah7 3

We were out with some friends watching football yesterday, and at halftime, I began surfing the net on his iphone. I was looking at youtube to find a certain video, clicked on his history (cause I knew he had watched the video recently), and found at least 6 xxx videos he had watched. So, not to cause a scene, I left and watched the rest of the game at home. I have not confronted him about it yet, as friends came over last night, and I did not want to ruin his good time. Although, he knew I was upset over something.
It makes me feel like I am not good enough. Right now, I am 16 weeks pregnant with our 1st baby and we have only had sex about once every 2 weeks, as I have been so tired. My body has only changed in the fact I have larger breasts and I have gained 3 lbs. I am already freaking about how unsexy I will look....but I have still continued running 3-4 times weekly and lifting 2x a week--I even ran a 5k yesterday. So, is it about me? Should I talk to him about it?

2007-10-14 02:42:29 · 21 answers · asked by fitgalmel1 2

I dated a guy for two years, he did not have any male friends except me, his ex gf and his ex wife. he is 15 years older than me. Whenever we had an argument, his ex wife would take him back. However, after few months later, he wanted to be with me again. This situation has happened once in the past... Should I take him back this time? Or, should I move on..... What should I do? I understand that every couple had a history together, but it is harmful for the new relationsip if he can not move on from the past....

2007-10-14 02:39:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im 20 (will be 21 in a few days) and my husband is 23. We have been together for a few years and we love eachother so very much! Heres the thing... we are ALL eachother has. Neither of us have any family at all, none what so ever. No parents, aunts, uncles, cousins.. nothing. Its just us. Well my problem is that I think i am too over protective of my husband. I dont like him driving anywhere because im afraid of him possibly getting hurt. So i drive everywhere. He has not driven his car in probably 3 months. When he is at work im afraid he is going to fall off of a roof or a ladder. He has NEVER mentioned anything about me being over protective I just feel like I am. Is this normal? Do i need to relax? If I lose him or if he got hurt i would be destroyed. I just need some advice if Im being a nut or what. Thanks so much

2007-10-14 02:35:48 · 18 answers · asked by afireinsidexxx77 3

Friday I went to see Tyler Perry's "Why Did I Get Married?" I must say it was an amazing movie and I enjoyed it. As of late I have been hearing critics (movie viewers) call Mr. Perry a racist for having all black movies...

I am one to celebrate that he has POSITIVE all black movies, where the characters are portrayed as professionals not gang bangers and drug dealers. I enjoy seeing his movies because they're liberating in a sense, and are a way to see the other side of black life, the side so many forget or refuse to acknowledge.

My question though would be, if Perry is racist for having all black movies, how many producers are guilty of the same? How many "feel good" movies have we seen where the cast, and extras, were all white?

Why should this even matter? The movie is great, (go see it good date movie for couples and singles) you can have a good time, it does good to not cast the race in a negative light, so why all the bullshi*?

2007-10-14 02:06:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

my daughter is 23 years old she has her own house but her dad and step sisters never go and see her only when they want a babysitter but when something good happens like when she was geting married the step sisters where wedding planners i had no choice or say in anything which hurt me very much i wasn't even on the top table she is now expecting i told my nieghbour how excited i was her step sister found out and told my daughter and we fell out over it.

2007-10-14 02:03:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am nearing the end of my law degree, he is nearing the end of his bachelor of design. We have been together for two years. At the beginning of our relationship I explained that although we are using protection, nothing is 100% and I told him in no uncertain terms that I do not believe in abortion. This recent revelation of his has many implications for our relationship, and has revealed a lot about his personality. I just don't know what to do:

1. I believe abortion is murder; can i continue to be with a would-be murderer?

2. Although pregnancy would upset our plans, we are damn well old enough to face the consequences of our actions. Does it mean he is all-round selfish and irresponsible?

3. Perhaps the most bothersome part is that (although he is usually very caring), he knows how important this is to me and yet would be prepared to put me through something I don't think I could live with...

I love him dearly but this has shattered me. What do you think? (don't be cruel)

2007-10-14 01:45:40 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't know if I should be using this venue, but I really need some advice. My husband and i have 2 children and he is totally obsessed with his "stuff." His stereo equipment, his toys (he has comics, collectibles, cd's, dvd's, antiques, his car etc.) Whenever one of the kids touch his "stuff" he gets angry and yells that he can't have anything nice. To top that off, he wants the kids cut off from half of the house so he can have his own private space. Right now we're looking for a house and we've been fighting over this issue. We've fought so much that I don't feel the same for him. It's hard for me to get close to him and we've been snippy towards each other. He turns it around to make me look like the bad one, I'm starting to think I am . Counseling hasn't worked in the past. I guess I knew he liked his "stuff" before i married him, but I didn't think it would be this bad. I'm thinking of leaving him. Advice? We've been married for 8 yrs.

2007-10-14 01:35:48 · 16 answers · asked by Katia S 1

2007-10-14 01:17:10 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

After 7 years of divorcing her ex husband he still won't let her get on with her life. They had 2 children together. He will not play the part of a father: ie - be there when they are sick, take them on holidays, do their homework, buy them clothes and only wants them when it suits him. They have to fit around his work. She has remarried a great man, I can't fault him. He does everything a father is supposed to do for those children. They even have a little baby between them and she is very lucky to be here with us due to the constant stress her ex husband put her through. Has already lost a baby through her latest court battle to keep the children they have together for someone who just want's the fun part of the children. He even messes with their heads saying that their Mum isn't in a proper relationship (family) because they have different surnames. He is just playing power games. Any advice on what to do?

2007-10-14 00:23:25 · 19 answers · asked by kololi_2 2

I am loving one girl truly. She also loving me.But now her parents know our love matter.They oppose my love.And they r threatened
me and that girl.both r studying M.sc.My friends r not ready to help for my love bcoz her uncle is in police.
Wat i can do? i dont know? Both r loving truly. That girl having little hesitation to marry bcoz her uncle threatened her very much.In this Kind of situation how i can success in my love.Please help me.I want her in my life(love). Please help me to get her in my life.I'm not afraid for anything. my only thought is i want her in my life,for that i'm ready to do anything. she is my life.i want my life.Please help me soon. No one is here to help me.I want help to marry her.

2007-10-14 00:22:05 · 3 answers · asked by anbu a 1

I am a father of 3 teenagers that was asked to leave my house by my wife. So I did, and moved in a room and worked a dead end job. I had a great job but due to my age was laid off and forced to take a dead end job. My wife would not let me see the kids on a regular basis, god knows I ask. So i decided to improve my career and took a job overseas teaching in Manila, but it would not pay great but I could increase my pay as I got more experience. My wife makes a 6 digit salary so I thought it would be a good time to get my career in order because I could not contribute much for a few months. I have sent hundreds of email to the kids and letters but my oldest daughter is the only one that stays in touch. I will soon move onto my better teaching job and be able to send more money back home and in about 1 years go home myself, I hope I am doing the right thing?

2007-10-14 00:12:27 · 5 answers · asked by uglybird1 2

2007-10-14 00:11:58 · 16 answers · asked by Quel 3