2007-10-14 03:15:38 · 3 answers · asked by James r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
sorry to hear ur going through this, i had to do it for abuse too, my ex and her family fed son a lot of bullshit and well son told the courts and i have been fighting this ever since, about 4 yrs now. since then people that have been watching my son and myself have told me that they didn't visualize me to be like i really am because of the lies they were told. since these people have gotten to know me they see the lies surfacing now, but its been 4 long yrs. the thing is i don't really care about the lies and the ex anymore i would just want to be in a real father son relationship. the crazy thing about it all my son and i really got along well before this all happened. i'm doing therapy with him now and its still a long way off from where we were. its a long hard road that u have to endure because of a few lies. the ex figured she will show me and make me pay for the divorce, so she slammed me with lies and well they believed her. i wish u a lot of good luck and i'll say a prayer for u. i wish there was something i could tell u to make it easier
2007-10-14 03:38:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gah I wish I knew. I know someone who paid over 15K to a attorney and the guy still had to plead guilty to an abuse charge (not sexual) pay court fees, and go on probation for 1 year. This just happened too. So sad what girls are doing to guys these days and the girls get away with it
2007-10-14 03:19:49 · answer #2 · answered by Tbenn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a good attorney and witnesses to the type of character the person has. such as co-workers, friends, etc.
2007-10-14 03:19:51 · answer #3 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋