Marriage & Divorce - 14 October 2007

How was he/she with your child?
I am a single parent of a 6 year old girl and have been dating my boyfriend for about 2 years. He is a great guy, already in his career, no children, same religion as I, and is very patient.

2007-10-14 07:44:32 · 13 answers · asked by Ari's Mom 1

Here is my tale: I believe I have depression. My husband and his mother constantly put me down. I never clean good enough, I am too "fat", I don't look right, I don't wear the right clothes and I don't make enough money. Oh and I am a bad mother too! I was a happy person before getting into this. My problem now is that I have lost 2 jobs back to back one just recently due to my depression over feeling inadequate. I simply don't feel like getting up and going in anymore. If i don't make enough money and don't look good why should I bother kinda attitude. Now he is threatening to kick me out of the house with our kids. I have no money I've been out of work for the previous stated reason. What can I do? I can't afford to move yet I mentally can't take the insults anymore. I have no family in the near area at all and most are deceased. What step would you take next? Thanks so much for any help or ideas..

2007-10-14 07:43:57 · 7 answers · asked by Samantha 3

Is your love for your spouse contingent upon their love for you?

Is your respect for your spouse contingent upon their respect for you?

Is your willingness to serve your spouse contingent upon their willingness to serve you?

2007-10-14 07:36:23 · 13 answers · asked by atomzer0 6

i want them to split up and i cant say due to some reasons and i cant say them on yahoo how can i make them split up

2007-10-14 07:32:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-14 07:32:11 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I do not like the way my wife does the laundry, using softener, folding clothes so that they have to be ironed, putting socks together so that you can't see if they match without undoing them, folding my pants and jeans with creases.

I do not like her eating/cooking habits. She buys frozen dinners, junk stuff, always using hot spices..

House cleaning is another subject. I share the responsibility and am more thorough.

I always race to do my own laundry, am always bringing in food, or doing the shopping and cooking, cleaning. I do a LOT of other things too where she thinks those are her responsibility, doesn't mind doing them. I have told her a few times in the past about 'my' issues where she just gets mad and doesn't talk to me for a few days.

She caught me this morning re-folding my clothes after she just folded them. She was super mad at me.

Should I just take it, wear the clothes, eat the junk, look at the dirt, so that she doesn't get mad at me? No other problems

2007-10-14 07:04:18 · 11 answers · asked by De-Activated Bad Profile 3

We both work but on his day off he does nothing, on mine I do housework.I do all the cooking, cleaning, washing, ironing attempt decorating and even atempt DIY. I have tried the 'do nothing and let him do it' approach' and also shouting and screaming but he just says i'll do it later and it never gets done. I have also tried leaving everything to push him into doing his share and that didn't work either; the dishes just piled up and so did the dirty washing and un-ironed pile of clothes just stayed there, he'd even put on creased jeans so that didn't work! He seems quite happy to just live like a pig and I can't live that way. Please help! We have been together for 3 and a half years and lived together for ten months and I can't take anymore. What can i try next?

2007-10-14 07:02:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

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2007-10-14 06:58:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was very upset with him. He argued with me when i complained about the jukebox playing the searchers. I wanted the wurzels. I enjoy listening to them on a sunday evening whilst wearing my cravat and playing my old mans a dustman in 6/8 time on my Appalachian dulcimer. Anyway, a row erupted and he broke the Ostrich. How can i get revenge on Sidney? Thanks.

2007-10-14 06:51:57 · 5 answers · asked by . 7

How tempting are other men to you? Regardless of whether you would act on thoughts of other men, or not....how difficult is it to resist the temptation of another?

2007-10-14 06:50:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am married for 10 yrs but since beggining of our marrage my husband is having a relationship with others. i was enough from our story after having 2 children and desame story. We decided to finish our marrage but not yet divorse. Almost a year now he is not giving any support to my children. I have work and my salary is enough from us. sometimes i am sending him some important matters like when i need his help to pay my son educational insurance but he refused and he doesnt want. He told me " dont talk about children anymore when you want to talk with me or send sms. I am working in other country and my kids are with my family. if one day he change his mind and want to take my children he still have the right to take even one my children? Do i need to talk talk with my ex husband about kids even he doesnt want?

2007-10-14 06:50:18 · 3 answers · asked by ciwar 1

I am pregnant 4 months now and everytime I go visit his family the mom asks me, how is the baby doing? I told her the first time that my husband said that my butt was getting a bit bigger.. she said ... "no it's too early for that". I took that as she did not believe me.. so I let it go. Despite other comments she and her daughter have done in the past. Then the other day she asked me again about the baby, I told her my back was hurting and that my legs by my hips are getting numb... and she said "no it's too early for it to hurt". This time is was in front of my husband. I told her that my friend's back and legs were same way, its as if they believe I am being a big baby and feel so disrespected. My husband did not say anything.. I know he believes me but he thinks his mom only knows the pregnancies she had and bases her knowledge on that, but why ask if she is not going to believe me? I find it so rude. Plus, I can tell that they talk about me, call me crazy but it takes

2007-10-14 06:08:05 · 40 answers · asked by Laura 3

usually take him to realize it?

2007-10-14 05:30:31 · 10 answers · asked by kimberly k 5

whereas in other countries, it depends on who owned what, or who earned what amount of money...

2007-10-14 05:25:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife was poking through my sons my space , she feels from time to time it is her right to know what he is into. She came across on one girls my sace that her and his exgirlfriend were advertising for a rave party. They were advertising full venure, soupe to nuts. Some kids were actuley responding in the comment section. i think I should imforme somone, my wife says its not our business, its not our kid, I know about this what if someones kid gets hurt or even worse because of these two girls actions

2007-10-14 05:10:24 · 30 answers · asked by mike o 1

Ever since we moved in together, he stopped talking to me. I come home from work, ask him about his day, & try to get a conversation going. All I get is a yes or no or a grunt. We haven't been out together in months. On our days off he goes to the sports bar to watch college football. I ask repeatedly to come, and he says I'll just be bored and he likes to watch the game by himself. He comes home and says he had a great time and I should have come. He doesn't like to talk to me about work b/c he says I won't understand. He works for a chemical production plant, and I have read his training manual which is based on basic chemistry which I would understand if he would talk about it since I have taken college chem and other science classes. I would think he could at least talk to me about what he had for lunch, but he just doesn't make the effort. After being completly cold he still gets up the nerve to say he wants sex! I have brought it up many times, but what should I do?

2007-10-14 05:02:49 · 25 answers · asked by love 6

Ok, why is it that everyone is always caught up on there spouses past? Why do they want to know all about it and when they get the answers they wish they didn't ask? Why are they always hung up the things that there spouse has, wondering if a ex had given it to them and they want to keep it and not tell where it came from OR they bought it themselves and you dont believe it even though its true? Why must the mind always wander about things that sometimes always gets you into a fight of some kind? Why is it human nature to want the person that your with and try not to think of the other persons past? Everyone has had someone else before so why do we always think that we arent good enough for them?? Why do most of us spend more time either fighting about things or thinking about things that happened in the past instead of living for the minute with the person that you are with and making a life from that point on? How can we forget about there past and not worry about it anymore?

2007-10-14 05:00:35 · 11 answers · asked by Rick and Tammy 1

So I had divorced my wife cause she had cheated on me and had a child that wasn't mine. She knew the child wasn't my child but didn't tell me about it. I found out after my son told me that "mommy" had told him he had two dads. I did a DNA test and found out that the child wasn't mine. I went to court by the judge (a women mind you) ruled that I had to pay child support, give up my house and my car (my wife had her own car that i paid too) and give 60% of my money. How is this fair? What i do? Im nearly broke.

2007-10-14 04:59:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-14 04:57:49 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-14 04:48:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

We were married for six years and have a son together and things went bad in our marriage so we got a divorce. After about six months we started seeing each other again and it just didn't work again. I'm still in love with her but I don't think she sees me the same way. Should I completely move with the exception of issues that come up with my son or should I try to at least be friends and hope that someday she will want to be more than that?

2007-10-14 04:40:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was asking my wife if she would like a nice set of pans with a set of the rubber cooking utensils (so the pans don't scratch) Is this a good gift to get her for her birthday? She said no most all women dislike this as gifts. She would rather have perfume or jewlery or something of that nature which I can understand but is the pans as well as some other gifts a bad choice? Thanks for opinions and answers

2007-10-14 04:18:50 · 18 answers · asked by Sandy B 5

I've realized that my departure from the teaching path just before my divorce left me working in jobs that don't bring me happiness.

I communicated this with my ex in a letter included with my monthly child support payment, that I will be looking for paths to get my teacher's license (including taking the GRE) and that should my income change as I seek other employment I will discuss the changes to child support with her -- and that I will NOT stop providing child support for my child.

My ex called and expressed a lot of anger. It was as if she read only the parts of the letter that she wanted to, and looked for reasons to get mad. I can understand that she may feel frustrated that I've gone from one job to another in the last 5 years (had 4 full-time and two part-time jobs), but I have not stopped paying child support. If I am working towards entering a career I WANT to do, isn't that better? Do I not deserve to do something I like for a living?

2007-10-14 04:07:56 · 19 answers · asked by CarinaPapa 4

i have been accused of spouse abuse for she was interested in tryn to be with a woman sexualy. so i supported her on this i have ended up on meds that increased irritation ended up in the mental hospital. got out to be served with OP and accusations of fingering step daughter. i do not have enough space on here to put everything on here

2007-10-14 04:07:07 · 4 answers · asked by James r 1

2007-10-14 04:06:37 · 18 answers · asked by Anita 1

I want to look up records, but dont know how. with out paying for it can someone help me

2007-10-14 04:02:48 · 7 answers · asked by hunnypooh_1 2

My ex and I split almost two years ago after a fairly long releationship. Other than to followup with her about financial matters that needed to be resolved - I have pretty much left her alone.

The last time we talked (via email), she told me she was moving into a new house and had a new boyfriend. To me... I figured whatever chance I thought I might have ever had of getting back with her, at this point was now gone. (Yes, I still have very strong feelings for her).

So... just out of the blue... she's emailed me a couple of times, in the last month, just to say "Hi" and ask how my family is and how I am doing in school? (and she never signs it....)

She's freaking me out because I don't know if she is interested in rekindling the old flame or just being nice.

I've played all of the "what if?" games in my head a million times, but I still come full circle to the belief that if she was truly happy... why would she even bother with staying in contact with me?

Some of my lady co-workers tell me to just answer her questions and don't add anything. That way (supposedly) I'll know if she's just fishing, or really serious. (which I have done) But, there's that part of me that wants to send an email back and just ask her how she is and what's going on in her life. But on the other hand, I don't want to appear to her as needy and give her the impression that "Oh yea, I could get him back anytime"

So ladies... what do you think I should do?

Thanks in advance for any advice/comments!

-R

2007-10-14 03:53:20 · 12 answers · asked by Ronnie B 1

why for christian it a big deal its my body myyy body i do what ever i want and its the 2007 nearly 2008 who cares if a girl is virgin before marriage or what?!

2007-10-14 03:41:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me & my boyfriend have been together for years...we have a son together and we've been fighting alot...last night I found this in my email...

I WOULD JUST LIKE TO SAY THANK YOU FOR GIVING ME ONE OF THE BEST PARTS OF MY LIFE. BRYAN MEANS THE WORLD TO ME ALONG WITGH HIS MOTHER. I KNOW WE HAVE OUR MOMENTS BUT I STILL LOVE YOU AND ALWAYS WILL. ALTHOUGH WE FIGHT A LOT THAT DOESN'T MEAN I WANT TO BREAK UP WITH YOU! BABE I LOVE YOU AND I ALWAYS WILL!
LOVE BRYAN & BRYAN JR.
I LOVE YOU MOMMY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

do u think he was sincere? we have a lot of problems and he usually doesnt talk to me like that.

2007-10-14 03:37:18 · 12 answers · asked by nransom90 1

Naturally he spends more time with his officemates..(works 8hrs a day).. But I get pissed off when he still hangs out with them after work.And not just with guy friends but girls from work too. They go out as a group. Before, it was fine with me when they hang out but there was a time when he went home very late.Since then, I get irritated every time he tells me he's going out with them...There's no particular person involve but I dont like the thought that he spends more time with his girl friends than me... Should I get jealous with the time he's giving his officemates?!

2007-10-14 03:30:29 · 14 answers · asked by baj 1