2007-10-14 11:28:43 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i wish everyone who did not want to have children would realize it before they had them.. and not just have them becuase all there freinds had them.. my mom was like that.. sadly i was too.. it was to fill a void in my life.. that not even they could fill
2007-10-14 13:43:58 · answer #1 · answered by vis 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think they have the right idea , because if they dont hold enough love in their hearts to even think about wanting them before marriage to anyone then they should be selfish and bring them into this world just to satisfy what society think's is the nuclear family.
They get to travel , own lots of nice things (if they have great jobs with high payen salaries) , They dont have to pander to the needs of a child who is sick or does sport , they dont have to answer to teacher's , principle's .
Everyone deserves to live their live's the way they feel most comfortable.
2007-10-14 12:03:56 · answer #2 · answered by JadeyOz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is wonderful that they have decided to not have kids.
I mean it is their choice, and maybe for them, they feel like they would not be able to give to the children what they want need and deserve!
I think my friend T and her hubby S should never have had their child. HE is neglected and ignored and allowed to do things that I DO NOT allow my ten year old to do!
I mean, he is five, and they allow him to roam the neighborhood ALONE! And has been doing this for the last year! She sleeps on the couch and I have come in to see him NAKED and he runs outside like this and she does NOT correct him. He curses and abuses the other students in his class, and acts like his rotten father...he has even been expelled!
Please, if you do not think that you can truly care for and give a child your love, your heart and your time..do not do it.
Let another family bring a baby into the world and you can spoil it. My sister CS never had kids, but she spoils my 2 kids to pieces.
2007-10-14 11:59:02 · answer #3 · answered by Midnight Winter WOLF 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nothing wrong with that at all. It is each persons decision. My sister and her husband decided not to have kids and they are fine with it and have been married for 30 years!
2007-10-14 12:17:51 · answer #4 · answered by Dance 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personal choice. I want kids, my missus wants kids, but I would defend the right of anyone who doesn't want to get woken up at three in the morning by a teething baby.
2007-10-14 12:50:11 · answer #5 · answered by Beastie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel that it is their choice and no one elses. i love my daughter and wouldn't trade her, but children are a huge undertaking and if you aren't willing to sacrifice then no one wins. my husband come from a very large family (11 aunts and uncles and 5 siblings) and we are hiding the fact that i am having my tubes tied after one child because they make it a big deal. do what is best for you and forget everyone else's opinions.
2007-10-14 11:39:44 · answer #6 · answered by donovan t 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Another way too look at it is If you do end up wanting kids, it would be later in life, My wife and I had them younger so we could enjoy out later yrs. Good Luck
2007-10-14 11:38:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i have no problem with it-some ppl are not meant to have kids and would be better suited to just be around others' kids like friends and family.i do think that it's sad if they don't, when they're older, to have no one to take care of them unless they have close family alive that are willing to do that.
2007-10-14 12:59:39 · answer #8 · answered by bratt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is their choice and I have no right to judge them. They don't judge me for having children.
2007-10-14 11:32:29 · answer #9 · answered by B 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i don't think anything different of them than anyone else. its their business if they want children or not. at least they know what they want.
2007-10-14 12:40:10 · answer #10 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋