MEN: how would you honestly feel about marrying a woman who is still a virgin??

Question

i am curious to know what men think about marrying a virgin!

regardless about what anyone will think, i am sticking to my decision of not "doing it" unil i get married someday, even if it means till im 30!!

but men...im curious....just tell me with honesty....how would you feel about marrying a woman who was still a virgin??

im not religious (im Atheist) and i dont consider myself the best looking girl but not the worst either LOL. i just have my own personal morals that i live up to.

im not in any hurry to "do it" whatsoever!! i have other things to focus on first, like college and my career :D. i can wait and im very patient.

well, im asking this question assuming that love was the connection for the marriage!! the virgin thing is an extra i guess.

Answer 1

I would feel honoured. Too many young ones doing it when they're 12 years old, it's nice to see someone with a bit of integrity.

Answer 2

Lol dont believe in god huh? You believe in being a great person though, so thats all that counts.

I'm a dude and to tell the truth it doesn't really matter. All it says is you never really had sex, and that you could control yourself. Thats a pretty hard goal for women to keep now-in-days, so good luck with it lol.

I'm not gonna lie to you though; the majority of men would think of a virgin as a plus, but who cares it doesn't mean nobody would take a non virgin. Personally I would love to marry a virgin because it not only means she didn't get around, it means im the only one to ever touch this girl in that way.

Do you want a virgin man?Or really don't care.

Answer 3

Hmmm.. A tricky one.

Personally, I hate a woman who has slept around a lot. Even if they are Jessica Alba, I would find it probably the worst turn off and easily up their with smoking.

But then I'd also prefer it that someone else has broken them in - I don't want a "murder scene" on honeymoon night...

However, the copper face to this golden coin is this - your virgin wife has been waiting until marriage, you finally duff her up and she likes it. She likes it a lot. But she also thinks there is probably better out there. So much so, she wonders why she even waited until marriage. So she starts sleeping around to make up for all the sh4gs she missed out on when she was a bit younger...

And that is another thing I cannot stand a woman doing - especially if she is your wife - cheating.

A virgin wife usually means strict catholic. I'm an atheist and there is no way in hell I could have a good relationship with a woman who is clearly into religion (and probably a prude, which I find desperately irritating in this modern age).

So to answer your question, I would say no, I wouldn't want a virgin wife. An experienced woman in bed is a lot better than one who will just sit there like a corpse because she doesn't know what is happening or what to do.

A few partners is perfectly fine, especially in terms of relationship experience/skills. But if a woman has had a lot of (sexual) partners, it is a big turn off. It's getting that fine balance...

Answer 4

well, i do not care if they are virgin or not, infact it's better when a guy is virgin and don't want to rush for it, it's kind of cute and makes relationships more sweet and precise, basicly women looks for a man's personality and who they are? we ladies don't care that much about sex, we just care if the guy is right for us, well actually they are is some women who cares about every single thing, but they are bad so make sure your women is not all about sexual stuff, i mean i am 18 and i haven't even kissed any guy yet, and never had a bf, well a lot of guys asked me from 5 th grade, but i really want the perfect guy for me

Answer 5

Not a man. But I would think it would make a difference why she was a virgin.
There's a saying, 'a prostitute can be a lady, and a lady can be a prostitute.'
The gist is, no matter what your sexual experience has been, you are chaste or faithful or trustworthy or loyal in spite of your sexual experience. Not because of it.
Are you a virgin because you're very picky and critical of men?
Are you a virgin because you are not confident about your appearance?
Or, are you a confident healthy woman who has had a lot of interest from the opposite sex, and has just decided to wait.
So. . . . . it depends.

Answer 6

I did and I am still married to her after 50 years and 4 kids so she is not a virgin any more

Answer 7

I'm 23 years old and I never had a girlfriend in my life. I have no problem marrying a woman who is a virgin. I'm a virgin myself and I'm saving myself for marriage. ILoveGreen, you are making the right decision by saving yourself for marriage.

Answer 8

I would have no problem with my bride being a virgin. I would sit down with her prior to the marriage and find out why she wants to remain a virgin, was it due to religious beliefs or did she have a bad experience earlier in life.

I know that victims of incest and rape deal with the issue by denying it because they never received counseling.

Answer 9

I think both women and men should stay virgins til they find the one they want to spend their life with. I am not religious, I am just disgusted by the way sex is in society today.

Answer 10

My husband "broke me in " before we got married. I was practically a virgin when I met him. Luckily he married me. If you are in a longterm relationship with someone and there is sex involved ( we are talking at least twice a month ) and you don't marry him but you break up you are in for a lot of heartbreak so be very, very careful. Stick to your guns.

Answer 11

Honestly I couldn't marry a virgin myself. I believe you need to have a sexual relationship with your partner before getting married because this is an important connection that's needed in order to know if you and your partner are sexually compatible.

Bottom Line: I try before I buy, and I wouldn't mind marrying a non virgin woman because at the end thats not what's really important and we are way past the times of social expectations.