We are very close she tell me everything. But I dont agree with her on something . we been friend for years I believe when you married you should love your husband and respect him the same goes for him to. Just this pass week my friend told me when she make love to her husband she fantasy about other men. she said if she dent fantasy it would be hard for her to get a orgies she said it miserable your making love and you cant get orgies it a mind thing,I use to agree with her but I'm not so sure about this she might be making love to her husband and call him jack his name is not jack and the first thing will come to his mind she cheating on me with Jack.. and he might hurt her. what can do to keep this from happen please help
2007-10-14 13:24:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
sorry I ment "orgasm
2007-10-14 14:15:23 · update #1
There's nothing to be done... a person's sexual response is their own private business, and the fact that she told you that means that she wanted that little tidbit of information to be kept private. She hasn't harmed her husband one bit because vows are broken by actions, not thoughts. Everyone has fantasies, most of which are never revealed to other people and never impact their day-to-day realities in any way. If her orgasmic response is tied into a mental image she has to conjure, that is nobody's business but hers. There's nothing to be done, except to be a friend and listen...and if you can't for whatever reason do that, tell her so she can stop talking.
2007-10-14 13:44:07 · answer #1 · answered by Captain S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Speak English for starters. The next thing is to learn that there is a difference between orgies & orgasams. And third she's screwing around.
2007-10-14 21:16:54 · answer #2 · answered by texas tornado 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You mean orgasm?
Orgy has a different meaning.
Theres nothing wrong with fantasizing, as long as thats all she does.
2007-10-14 20:57:58 · answer #3 · answered by Renesme 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you are over doing it abit. Your "hurt' imagination is getting out of control and I don't think you are thinking clearing on the outcome of the situation. If you are not involved in the relationship, stay out of it.
2007-10-14 20:29:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Fantasies are perfectly normal.
2007-10-14 20:30:43 · answer #5 · answered by mouser 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I suggest you stay out of it.
2007-10-14 20:32:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
dont fantasize
2007-10-14 20:29:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
what the ?
2007-10-14 20:29:05 · answer #8 · answered by Billie 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
=)
2007-10-15 03:25:09 · answer #9 · answered by yungin4lyfe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋