This guy likes me for three years. He have never pursuing or shown me that he really wants me. After I moved to other states ---he wrote 20 poems about us and posted them online. Why does he wrote poems about loving me, but he never shown that he loves me? Is he sincere?
Thank you so much.
P.S. I have asking so many question about this. I want to move on, but we still love ech other. Importantly, I think he is my true love :)
2007-10-14 13:26:53 · 18 answers · asked by Hope 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
A man who wants you comes and gets you. A man who doesn't, sits and writes poems about it and does nothing. Its all in his head. Don't fall for this chump.
2007-10-14 13:55:26 · answer #1 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you not realize you answered your own question? Look at your p.s. You said "we still love each other... I think he's my true love" It could very well be that he's shy and didn't really know how to show you until you moved. The fact that he put the poems online is showing you he's trying to tell you he loves you. I'd contact him and ask him straight out. You've known him for over 3 years so you apparently know he's not a stalker. Don't take a chance on losing your true love, if you really love him and want to be with him.
2007-10-14 14:29:43 · answer #2 · answered by doglover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I think he is being very sincere guys just dont write poems to girls unless they have feeling for them especially 20 of them!! He is just shy and wouldnt be able to take rejectoin in person it would hurt too much..but if you are in love with him why have you kept your mouth shut about it?? Maybe he has the same reasoning as you?? You need to make a move before he moves on thinkin he doesnt have a chance with you.
2007-10-14 13:44:30 · answer #3 · answered by Tiffany R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may well be, and it sounds like, he didn't have the confidence to push beyond friendship before you moved away and now is expressing that online. In his mind, if he had shown you love before, you may have rejected him so instead he never showed that to you. You can ask him why he never told you those things before and perhaps he will and then you have to consider whether to move back to that state and see what develops between the two of you. If you think he is your true love it may be worth trying that.
2007-10-14 13:44:09 · answer #4 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may feel that you would reject him if he took the full step toward asking you to be with him. Clearly you both feel the same so what's holding you back? If this is your true love don't let it pass you by. He's clearly showing you how he feels by writing all these poems etc. If you truly love him back don't waste anymore time. He may give up if you make him wait too long. You already know how he feels, and you feel the same. So go ahead and be together.
2007-10-14 13:32:21 · answer #5 · answered by colostomy_punch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, it's love. I guy just doesn't write you 20 poems without something being there between you. Pick up that phone & call him right now. If you don't I will.
2007-10-14 14:24:55 · answer #6 · answered by texas tornado 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is true love, I mean real love and a soul mate then you will both come together. The only way to find out is to talk, meet and date. Give it a shot. See what happens.
2007-10-14 14:02:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jack Shepard or James Nolan
2016-05-22 14:11:13 · answer #8 · answered by flor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either he is weirdly obsessed with you or he actually liek you .. and you are meant to be, if he thinkg about you all the time, in a non stalker way, then you guys are perfect for eachother! He really likes you and feels empty without you and wants you to be with him, maybe he is just a little shy.. but i say you need to try it out. this could be the one!!! best of luck to you!!!
2007-10-14 13:31:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how your relationship / friendship was when you were together, he might be very shy or insecure.
Now that you left he might have realized that he was in love with you.
Try to talk with him and don't expect always that a guy makes the first move.
Good luck!
2007-10-14 13:36:31 · answer #10 · answered by ruebezahl2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋