yep.
2007-10-14 12:34:18
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answer #1
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answered by racer 51 7
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Conflict or anger itself does not have to cause an irreparable rift between partners. With good communication skills and a shared commitment to a marriage, even these are surmountable. How to save your marriage https://tr.im/1MbQG
However, at that point where one partner is at the brink of abandoning the relationship, how can the remaining partner save their marriage? If you are at the point where your spouse has asked for a divorce, what can you do?
You must realize first that, you do have a choice. Often, when confronted by a crisis, we find ourselves backed into a corner thinking we have no choice in the matter. How can we change the situation when it involves another person's feelings or decisions? While we cannot, must not and in no way manipulate, blackmail or threaten our partner into changing their mind, we can actually control how we react to the situation. If anything, you must realize that you still have control over yourself. You have the opportunity to look inward and take responsibility for your own feelings and actions and even have the chance to take personal inventory of what your partner is trying to tell you. Are there points in your marriage that must be changed? If so, respond appropriately and proactively.
2016-02-10 22:47:08
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answered by Anonymous
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nope. i don't believe in returning to the scene of the crime. i may be a little facetious here, but seriously. why did you break up? that will be the determining factor on if you should go back to the marriage. who initiated the divorce and why? my spouse was a drug addict, we lost two homes through foreclosure. he took up with a woman and had a relationship, which he swears wasn't intimate, and did some real crappy things to me when we separated. i could have forgiven him for all those things. the problem with him was his attitude. very haughty, no humility, a braggart, always trying to put someone down to elevate himself. over the years he has done nothing to change these things. so i decided to leave the marriage and have no regrets. i regret that i had children and that i wasn't thinking. it would have been better to have stayed childless. anyway, it is what it is and whats done is done. so it depends on the circumstances i guess. what you're willling to put up with. don't listen to other people either, or shall i say, listen to them but sort through it, but you don't necessarily have to do it. i bet half the people who give advice don't follow their own. follow your heart. you will ultimately be the one to have to live with whatever you decide. i wish you well
2007-10-14 12:40:09
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answered by thecatmama 3
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NO WAY....There is a big difference in lust and love...just think of the reason why you divorced in the first place and as in most cases this has probably not changed....don't ever do anything on the rebound or think you are not attractive to anyone else...time is an excellent resource....
2007-10-14 15:28:49
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answered by foxygirl29303 2
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You cannot "re-marry" a spouse to whom you are already legally married - that is bigamy.
I'm assuming that you still married to your spouse and want to renew your marriage vows. In which case, go for it. Just make it clear to the celebrant you are wanting to renew your vows and you are still legally married to your spouse.
If you are divorced and want to re-marry your ex just make sure that whatever led to your marriage breakdown has been resolved one way or the other.
2007-10-14 12:44:17
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answered by Jgirl 2
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25 year of what?
2007-10-14 12:45:36
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answered by Anonymous
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Yes and plan to do just that August of 2008. Thinking of going to Vegas
2007-10-14 13:12:29
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answered by pussycat 5
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sure, maybe you've worked out the kinks. My parents remarried each other twice.
2007-10-14 12:33:55
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answered by Brittney 6
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yes-as long as we are still getting along as well as today!
2007-10-14 12:38:30
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answered by bratt 4
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Are you crazy. Move on.
2007-10-14 13:55:11
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answered by mike r 2
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it would not happen here...
we divorced for a reason...
2007-10-14 13:11:07
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answered by uranus2mars 6
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