First of all I'm not married nor in a relationship at all. I know a few guys that watch porn(one of them don't even have sex with his wife at all).
Is that cheating? to watch porn?
2007-10-14 14:21:46 · 22 answers · asked by Butterfly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Its cheating ONLY and this is important, it takes away time, effort, passion, compassion, and understanding FROM HIM that he can use on you. Most people like to assume that cheating is only physically this isn't the case. Cheating comes in mean forms, just look at the word. C H E A T I N G, is not doing your best to make the relaitonship work, weather mential, spirtual, responsibility, and/or phyical. Really the list goes on and on. Besides that what most people can't wrap there heads around about is the emotional maturity factor, which is to say that if you enjoy porn, you enjoy the fantasy of porn, not the reality. Your still stuck thinking and feeling that sex is porn, that individuals actually screw like that, and even worse sometimes, that, thats love. All that aside as people develop mential they began to become better emphsisers, they feel for people better. As this becomes more and more intense it becomes extremely hard to watch a porn and not feel for them. To realize how deprimental to themselves their being, on top of the fact that, that individual is someones daughter, mother, sister, cousin and for you to watch that, is to except how perverse you are and not care, thats great daddy material! Yea!. This is a ego flaw to say the least. But screw it most of the man in our society have only develop to the point were porn is good, and stop right their because females will baby them and call them man, go figure....
2007-10-16 07:55:03 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No but you are really hurting yourself if you do watch porn. You stand a very real chance of losing interest in your partner. Your partner will pick up on this and it will cause problems. Have you ever heard of "porn creep" - it is a problem where guys that watch to much porn can no longer have sex with their girlfriends because the brain gets changed to have an orgasm only when watching porn. It is not cheating, it is not adultery, but can be extremely damaging to the relationship and has a good chance in the long term of making you unhappy. Sometimes when there is no sex in a relationship this hurts the bonding of the couple.
2007-10-14 15:28:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Porn Is Cheating
2016-10-05 01:34:56 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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NO if the husband/wife is not ignoring the physical need's of the other spouse it is NOT cheating , and contrary to popular belief especially on here , porn does NOT lead to cheating , if a man/woman is going to cheat , then they are going to cheat , watching porn is not going to encourage them to do it anymore then they are encouraged at the starting point.
Its time people really looked for the deeper problems in their marriages that are far more important then the topic of porn which gets the blame every time.If he isnt making love to you then neither of you are putting enough time and effort into the relationship to entice either 1 of you to give and take on the sex issue.
2007-10-14 15:25:55 · answer #4 · answered by JadeyOz 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Good heavens no. I enjoy porn alone or with my husband. You'd better bring this up with your fiance! He'll probably be surprised to hear you consider watching porn cheating. You two need to talk about infidelity and what you consider crossing the line in a committed relationship, and decide on boundaries together. And talk about consequences of crossing that line.
2016-03-13 08:37:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No
If the sex at home was really good and the wife made every effort to perform the sex acts with a true honest effort and she performed intercourse or oral sex in a way that performance showed interest in sex rather than a responsibility, maybe the husband would not have to look at porn to get the sexual fantasy that he wants at home,
2007-10-14 16:18:34 · answer #6 · answered by Mark L 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Some times i would love if my bf would watch porn and leave me alone!! Im not one who likes it all the time and he is so what ever can keep him off me helps alot, as long as it's not some one else in person. Cuz then i would have an issue!!
2007-10-14 15:29:21 · answer #7 · answered by nellie s 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it's cheating if he has an affair with someone other than his wife...not by watching a porno. I agree with the answerer above, by watching porn, who is he going to cheat with?
2007-10-14 14:36:47 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Ms. Heart♥ 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I don't believe that it is cheating but it can hurt the other spouse emotionally. My ex did that to me and it made me feel like I wasn't pretty enough or good enough for him.
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2016-06-23 07:30:45 · answer #10 · answered by Chelsea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋