What did I do that was so wrong?? My fiance broke up with me... she doesn't tell me anything what's wrong with her. I ask her and I she says nothing or I ask are we going to talk about it and she says nope. I can't win. I try to make it the best for us. Everything I do upsets or gets her angry.... I'm serious. I pick her up and she asks what are we going to do, I tell her and she gets pissed at me.
What did I do wrong? I have nothing left now...
=( Yeah like seether's song---- "Broken"
2007-10-14 14:33:29 · 12 answers · asked by j.balde@att.net 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You guys really don't know how much I love her. I would jump infront of a bullet for her. I would do anything so she wouldn't have to feel any pain. I would give my life for her as long as she is happy. =(
2007-10-14 14:38:44 · update #1
Simply put, you are too good for her. Move on to greener pastures. You'll recover quick enough when you see that bright, shining new face that's been just waiting and dreaming of someone just like you to come along :-)
2007-10-14 14:46:46 · answer #1 · answered by Chiksita 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She must think you cheated or some other serious deal-breaker thing. Not sure how you can find out, since she won't talk. Maybe try her close friends/family to find out. Write her a letter with that bullet thing in it, serenade her with the Broken song, or something like that. Good luck.
2007-10-14 21:41:00 · answer #2 · answered by Linni 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, no one is worth saying you have nothing now. You have a future and obviously she is not your soul mate. I would suggest you stop questioning her, seeing her and start being really busy with friends or activities. Really look at her behavior. She is probably immature or really not in love. There is no fix for that. You need to focus on your own goals and get very busy trying to attain them.
2007-10-14 22:19:33 · answer #3 · answered by curious K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know her better than we do.
But from what I've heard, she seems to be very moody or high maintenance. She may be conditioning you to have her serve you at her very whim (I don't know). The fact that she expects you to read her mind without properly communicating to you makes me think she's either is looking for drama or setting it up where she has the opportunity to be mad at you. I don't find that to be a very healthy relationship.
I could be wrong. I'm not in the relationship. Good luck.
2007-10-14 21:45:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the fact that you would do anything for her is the problem.
Try doing nothing for just a week and see how she reacts.
Maybe you are trying just a little too hard and not to be mean, but it can get irritating.
2007-10-14 22:05:49 · answer #5 · answered by haleigh's mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love cannot be one-sided. Obviously she does not care for you the way you care for her. Since she broke up with you, you can't "make" her love you. She might not even know what the problem was and just realized you weren't the one for her. You need to move on and get over it. No matter what you do, she won't care. If you need professional help to get over it, please seek it. Self-esteem wouldn't help either.
2007-10-14 22:11:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not happy, and you can't make her happy.; It sounds like she made a decision and is sticking with it. It is going to be really hard to break up, but you have to do it.
2007-10-14 22:14:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds quite immature. If I were you I would back off a bit and let her grow up some. She sounds very selfish and greedy, and spoiled. If you happen to keep her and marry her, she won't change.
2007-10-14 21:38:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds to me like she was not as committed to this relationship as you are OR as you thought she was so you should stop right now, get on your knees and THANK GOD that you didn't end up with her as your wife!
2007-10-14 21:37:33 · answer #9 · answered by Indya M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't do anything wrong,,,,the issues are hers. Thank your lucky stars she did this before you got married. Try to move on with your life.
2007-10-14 21:45:36 · answer #10 · answered by Lisa W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋