2007-10-14 14:31:41 · 11 answers · asked by Mudblood 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2007-10-14 14:36:57 · answer #1 · answered by Lana Lang 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, age does matter. My ex left me for a young co-worker. He is 42 she is 27 I am 47. I look @ him and i look @ my son he is 26, My ex and his new girlfriend should be on total different paths in their life. When you 42 you in the age of slowing down, don't go clubing, like to be home, but when you 27 you want to go to places, see things, listen to different music, more energetic. So lets say it works ot for my ex, in 10 years from now she is 37 he is 52 I feel the gap becomes so large, and sooner or later it will catch up with you.
His new girl propably would want some children, he already has 3 his daughter is 19 she has more in comon with her new step mom than with him. They both on f.... my space.
Well don't think i say all of this because i am hurt. NO just want you to think where you want to go.
Good luck
2007-10-14 14:45:24 · answer #2 · answered by maria s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a matter, but it is not a big problem.
If it were not a matter, no one would ask such kind of question. Really, it is a matter. But love is non-discrimination of age. Therefore two persons can love each others without worrying ill-speaking from others.
If you are now in this situation, please firstly make friend each others and later both of you can decide to make love each others after spending a duration of friendship, if both of you feel that you really love each other so much, then decide to get married.
2007-10-14 15:13:23 · answer #3 · answered by nhkbte 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My parents had a large gap between their ages. And it's true what someone else said.. when they get older that age difference is going to become more marked and will probably cause problems. Sure, you will have a few good years, but after a while, that difference does create problems, impacts.
2007-10-14 15:03:01 · answer #4 · answered by Karla Marx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends.. is he 18 and is she 30? that would be a little odd.. if they are older and both mature, have life goals and plans set, then i don't see a problem.
Any time we get into a relationship we are taking a gamble... no matter what the ages.
2007-10-14 14:36:25 · answer #5 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am 12 yrs older than my bf.. i am 43 and he is 31.. i dont think it matters... unless you want children and she is fixed and can not give them to you.. if so .. that will be a issue..if you dont have children .. think long and hard on this one.. talk about adoption as a option.. most older women dont want to deal with small children mess less babies. you would need to talk to her about this.. if that is something you may want in the feature.. unless you already have children.. which my bf has
2007-10-14 14:36:09 · answer #6 · answered by vis 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not really. If they are on the same page, it's cool. I suppose one potential problem is if she's nearing menopause and they want to have their own biological kid. If that's a priority, then it may cause later trouble. Otherwise, as the saying goes, "love conquers all".
2007-10-14 14:37:07 · answer #7 · answered by Linni 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the sad part is, that a man would never ask this question if the woman was younger. either way, it doesnt matter, i dated guys much younger (10-7 years) than me and they didnt mind one bit. it was not an issue for them, i was more worried if they really find me attractive. if you are happy, go for it. and your age difference is not that much of a gap.
2007-10-14 15:01:31 · answer #8 · answered by not this way 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. The woman goes through "the change" and loses her sex drive. now you are 35 and your sex life is over. Then what are you going to do?
2007-10-14 15:06:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No what does matter is that they love and respect each other.
2007-10-14 14:34:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋