To shave or not to shave?

Question

My wife doesnt like for me to grow a beard. Should I anyway..if its what I want to do? Will she get over it?

Answer 1

Lets change rolls for a minute here, just pretend that you want your wife to cut her hair, or lose a few pounds, will it bother you if she doesnt want to make a change for you? I,ll bet it wouldnt, so heres where you step in and defend what you want, not what she wants. This is where the boys get seperated from the men, its time to stand up and be a man and tell her respectfully, while you appriciate her input on your appearance, Im growing a beard, case closed. End it at that, simple, straight forward, but dont be on the defense about it, and dont make a big deal out of it, just keep it simple.

Answer 2

that depends upon how serious she is about not wanting you to have a beard and how it grows. Do you let it get scraggly or keep it trimmed? Is it soft or is it like sandpaper? Does it make you look like a homeless person or a dignitary?
there is even the question of whether a full beard or a goatee.
It isn't worth ruining a marriage in a fight over a beard or not but perhaps You can find some compromise you both agree with - for example, grow it in winter and shave it off during the summer, or growing just a goatee or mustache and shave the rest of the face. I hope the two of you can work this out!!

Answer 3

My husband wouldn't like it if I allowed hair to go growing all over the place. So I try to look nice for him. But if I decided that I wanted to grow a "beard" (though uncomely), I would presume that it was my body and not his. His response would be something along the lines of the two of us becoming one when we got married and what's mine is his and vice versa. Hmmm. I would suggest varying styles and get his opinions :) Maybe that's what you should do, too. Incidentally, my hubby does have a beard and moustache, which I find bewitching!

Answer 4

recommendations.... adequate permit me see right here... under no circumstances dry shave, that might motive shaving burn or rash (it hurts and appears dangerous) so continuously do it whilst you're pleasant and soaked within the bath or bathe, do not press relatively tough, so we can take off dermis. you'll be able to use cleaning soap or shaving cream. cross gradual, and watch out across the knee discipline til you get it down, that's in which plenty of cuts can arise, additionally be careful for the again of your ankle. I additionally began shaving round 12 years historic. well good fortune i'm hoping the hints support. :)

Answer 5

You may want to start by asking her why? Many women don't like the touch of a rough beard.... Before I put me first I often consider the why or why not? Remember your married and that takes quite a bit of compromise... even giving her a timeline... Like I will only have it during the fall may work a little easier than, I'm just gonna do it cause I want to... Good Luck...

Answer 6

She may not like you growing that beard, it's scratchy and not attractive.
She should let you give it a try and maybe she'd like it. If not, you can always shave it off for her birthday.
If she can change hair colors, you can try a beard.

Answer 7

If your wife doesn't want you to grow a beard and you do, then make a deal with her.

Find something you want her to do... For instance, you may not like the make-up she uses, or you may not like her to be getting her hair done at the hair dressers, or perhaps you would like her to have longer hair.

Then tell her you would really like to grow your beard, but you are willing to make concessions for her because you love her. Then ask her if she would be willing to make equal concessions, and then tell her what your wish would be.

Then she'll let you grow your beard.

Answer 8

ok what if u grow a beard and shave ur privates. she might go for that, and maybe u both can go hairless. shave ever where, u'll both have smooth hairless bodies too. maybe shave ur heads too. i think u both will look good shaved. good luck to both of u and i will keep u in my prayers.

Answer 9

Shave. She will love you no matter what but you have to admit if she grew hair on her legs or did not shave her pits you would not be as attracted well for some women facial hair is a turn off. Shave

Answer 10

When you asked your question,you also answered your own question.You used the word wife.If you care enough to call her wife then you should like to do things that will make her happy,instead of finding something to argue about.Just maybe she thinks you look much better to her without the hair,think about that.Remember each couple has to work together to make it last.