Marriage & Divorce - 18 September 2007

Can you sue them? The married enjoy dating too

2007-09-18 06:53:19 · 18 answers · asked by KatGotHerTongue 3

The man who I love and have been living with for almost a year now asked me if I see us being married someday. We are both divorced and in the past when the marriage subject came up he has said he wasn't sure he would want to do the marriage thing again and that he didn't feel he needed a piece of paper to be committed to someone. Because of his past comments I'm not sure how to interpret his question of whether I see us being married someday. My question to the guys is...what makes a man ask that question and what info is he hoping to get from my answer?

2007-09-18 06:40:48 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Not just do romantic things to make your partner happy, but men who actually crave romance as well? If so, tell me what your partner can do for you or with you that you consider romantic.

2007-09-18 06:32:12 · 18 answers · asked by meagain 4

I came home early and saw them having sex in my bedroom. Rather then confront them, I left and they did not see me or know I was there. This happened 2 days ago, and since then I have been trying to hide large sums of money in a hidden account in another country, under a false name. I plan to make a lrgwe withdrawal tomorrow and put all of our liquid assets into that secret account, but laundering it through a casino in vegas first.

My question regards concrete assets like the house and cars etc. Is there a way to liquidate them discretely and all at once? I plan to run off with all our money and live in another country.

2007-09-18 06:31:19 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I started working for a new employer. Before I was even here 1yr she sat by my spouse at a co-worker wedding AND at the x-mas party. Why? Wouldn't she have her date sit by a man she did not know? She is divorced, her 1st spouse messed around on her. We tried to fix her up with our friend, took some drinks over to her house. She told my spouse to bring them in her house. They were in there alone! She offered him a drink but when I poked my head in she never offered me one! One day the office got to leave early but she stayed late. My spouse was also here doing yard work! Coincidence? I confronted him & asked if he wants her. He said he wants me & is not interested in her. I think I should do everything I can to keep them away from each other. One day he went out for a drink after work & never told me. She was here so I know he was not with her. If he can't tell me that one thing what more is he holding in? Am I stupid jealous???? HELP!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-09-18 06:27:47 · 8 answers · asked by luvcrops 3

This past weekend, my husband dropped a bomb on me. He told me that 7 yrs ago, right after I had HIS baby, and was expressing insecurities because he and my sister would flirt with each other all the time (by the way, he would tell me that I was crazy and paranoid and he denies the flirting), he and my sister played a game of you show me yours and I'll show you mine. I calmly asked questions because I was trying to process the info and he was getting very impatient with me for asking. I talked to her the next day and I asked her about it and she didn't seem to know what I was talking about (at least that's what she claims). Anyway, WW3 has been started in my house and a lot of things were said and brought up since then. I'm not sure how I'm supposed to feel. He says it wasn't a big deal because he he never touched her (which he keeps saying even though I never suggested that he did). How would you respond to and feel about this situation?

2007-09-18 06:25:05 · 30 answers · asked by Niksmom 2

The man has commitments , has a wife, She, no commitments
Though she may seem like a *****, if she knew he was married, Its not her fault that a married man cant be faithful?

So whos to blame the "marriage wrecker" or the "weak" husband

2007-09-18 06:23:32 · 67 answers · asked by ♣Kermit the Frog♣ 4

I feel like an old fashioned loser. My husband loves to look at internet porno. I find it disgusting. Not only does he look at it, he also seems to be getting his satisfaction from it. We haven't had sex in months and he blames that on me. I tried the sexy nighties and the candles and the soft music. I tried reading books and doing the things they said turned a man on. Nothing seems to work. i lost my temper a few nights ago and told him how sick I thought it was becoming. He said all men enjoy porno but I said some actually enjoy the real thing also. We argued. My step daughter overheard the argument and climbed out her bedroom window and went to a friends house. She said the voices told her to do it. My husband told her next time we argue if it upsets her he will tell me to leave. He had already promised the porno and dirty chat rooms would stop but I think he is addicted to it. With my daughter saying she is hearing voices I'm worried. Should I just leave and start over.

2007-09-18 06:14:37 · 8 answers · asked by rose v 3

We hang out with this guy, he follows me home to make sure or talks to me on the phone till i get home safe. He's clearly very interested because of all the things we talk about. He's younger than me and I had a big issue with that before we stared hanging out but now am getting comfortable with it. He texts me sometimes but usually chatty more than flirty. We've kissed twice and he usually breaks it off; really looks at me and tells me to get home safe. Is he even interested? We've seen each other for about 2 wks now.

2007-09-18 06:12:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

the classic advice for breaking up is, "it's not about you, honey" and stress the things she does right, but also the things that, through no one's fault are incompatible and doom the relationship to failure. When I've done the "it's not about you" 4 times in the last year, she sees that as a reason to keep working on it.
The issues?:
-doesn't let me get a word in edgewise
-offers too much unsolicited advice
-has lots of drama in her life
-i'm depressive and she has ADD,
-can only see her own point of view
-i've ended up the handyman for her old house and she starts two projects for every one i finish.
-talks too much about work (we both work for the same company) w/ opinions i don't always agree with.

(I will admit to be overly commited to my adult children, needing lots of time to myself, being an introvrt, very structured and very involved in sports that she doesn't care about.)

So how do i end it?

2007-09-18 06:11:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I still talk to my x from time to time actually she calls me like once a week to see how i am doing. she found out that i was going on vacation, and requested for me to get her a wine that this place only offers. so i did. when i got back which was 2 weeks ago she knew when i was returning she calls me 5 days later to say hello and when she did i told her i got her the bottle of wine she requested. she ask me to bring it to her i said no that she will need to come and get it. she said maybe friday and i told ok maybe so let me know then she told me she will let me know this was last friday and havent heard from her i feel like just giving the bottle to someone
what do u think or suggest i should do?
any ideas or suggest?

help me understand why would she ask me to get her something and now pretend or act like she doesnt want or in other words giving me the impression

thanks

2007-09-18 06:06:49 · 25 answers · asked by simple J 4

I tend to worry about my husband a whole lot. Even though I trust him, I wonder what kind of influence other people can be on him. Afterall, I know that he is easily influenced. I worry that he can't stick to his guns when he should. Not only is he a husband, but a father. He is away on work and they stopped over in VA Beach for a couple of days. I couldn't get hold of him until after midnight last night. The other two men with him, one is newly married and one is single. I feel like they may have hit up a strip bar or something last night, which is totally off limits in our marriage. He knows this, but when two others want to go, what do you do? He would go along and blame them. So anyways, I asked what he did last night, and jokingly threw in "a strip bar?" and he changed the subject after saying no. It's not like he would tell me yes, they did. Now I am left to wonder if he did. So he is going to be away for 4 months now and I just feel uneasy about it.

2007-09-18 06:05:18 · 10 answers · asked by Jamie 1

What is the funnist reason why a womens marriage can be affected because she is a immigrate

2007-09-18 06:03:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-18 06:03:11 · 11 answers · asked by busybee 2

and im on the east coast and she's on the west coast I have a good paying job where im at should I follow her and go back?and start over or should I stay and move on with my life? I love them dearly but where going throygh some ruff stuff specially cause she'd using drugs please help

2007-09-18 05:54:05 · 8 answers · asked by flip c 1

I dont think there should be a need for my family to invite my ex wife over on a weekly basis and to family functions. I dont feel like hanging out with my exwife, that's why we got divorced. I am not asking my family to hate her. This situation has pushed me away from my family. My ex spends more time with them than I do because of this. The family sees no problem with this. Any advice?

2007-09-18 05:53:02 · 14 answers · asked by dkullgren072 1

I am shocked that he now is able to have joint custody of our young daughter. No record of this crime have been available and I can not afford an attorney. In our divorce degree it states that neither of us are allowed to expose her to anyone who has been put on probation for or jailed for any CSC crimes. I am wondering how this exempts him just because he merely got off after probation and a short term of counceling. I'm a concerned Mom and wish to find any answers. Thankyou!

2007-09-18 05:47:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

l dont want mean answers please,l just want peoples opinions,cos l am a little bit confused at the moment.AS FOR THE MAN.he is finacially ok,very gentle infact he is one in a million,my problem is just his age.

2007-09-18 05:40:49 · 20 answers · asked by eve 1

I'm not attracted or involved with anyone - not attracted to him either. Sex is not a priority for him. It has been 15 yrs of an uphill battle that's feels not worth the climb. We have no children I am 47 and he is 37. He is married to his mind&job- in his own little intellectual world most of the time - When he is home he is here physically but mentally he is usually elsewhere
Seems like the only way I can make this work is to TURN MYSELF INTO SOMEONE ELSE. But I am "beautiful" (inner beautry) and have worth just as I am. I just can not foresake myself- I am at an age where throwing myself away just doesn't make sense. He told me 8/06 that he married me to see if he could fit into society by trying to be a married person (he didn't want kids -didn't tell me before)- he wants to live alone Other times he says he loves me and does not want to live alone. Asked him to see a counselor-he said "it wouldn't work out in MY best interest" (covert threat?) Would appreciate your thoughts

2007-09-18 05:37:57 · 15 answers · asked by try n to smile 2

today in counseling i really fried my partner. he hasn't been actively involved in the "making things better" movement. i know he loves me and he wants to be with me, but he has to try harder to make me happy. i am so devoted to him, but when he neglects me i give up. i ask him for passion, romance, and intellectual conversations, but he forgets all the time and i can't take it anymore. how do i stay in love with him even when i don't feel like i'm being treated how i want to be treated? i don't wanna nit pick or be a b*!$% i just need the love and affection i deserve... in a grown up relationship (not the things that were acceptable when we were younger) -- i told him, this is it for me... either we work this out or i'm gonna be alone. we do a lot of laughing and joking, but what about the other stuff. i want to be enthralled by him!

2007-09-18 05:00:07 · 7 answers · asked by Benny 3

OK, instead of asking why women will cheat, how bout this?

List reasons why you as a woman in a happy relationship would never think of cheating.

2007-09-18 04:56:47 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

a guy is married and a woman is married (separate relationships), but this guy and this woman have an intense attraction to each other? They barely speak but the body language and eye contact tells on them. Neither would ever go any further with it. EVER! They both would love to in their own minds and the sexual part of it would be fabulous because its been burning for a long time, or even just a kiss the passion would be tremendous but it won't ever happen!!! How do you forget if its always there? Just wondering nothing personal

2007-09-18 04:56:12 · 6 answers · asked by Maria 5

To all you people, male and female that have gone through a divorce. How did you cope? how did you get through it? Is there light at the tunnel for me? I am splitting from my husband and I dont know how I will get through it.

2007-09-18 04:33:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

FROM EACHOTHER BECAUSE I FEEL DON'T MISSE EACHOTHER ANYMORE IS LIKE I DON'T WANNA GET HOME SO WE DON'T ARGUE.IM GOING WITH MY BEST FRIEND TO SAN DIEGO HE DON'T WANT ME TO GO SO AS SOON HE SAW THE DAY GETTING CLOSER AND CLOSER HE CHANGE AND STARTED TO BRING FLOWERS AND GIFTS. THE THING IS THAT NOW I FEEL MISSERABLE AND LIKE IM A BAD WIFE BECAUSE HE SAYS HE WOULD NEVER DO THAT TO ME WHAT SHOULD I DO WE BEING MARRIED FOR 5 YEARS NO KIDS

2007-09-18 04:33:25 · 14 answers · asked by kat 1

If you could write a law today for the state you live in that punishes cheaters what would it be?
No limits, anything goes. How would you punish cheaters?

2007-09-18 04:29:34 · 12 answers · asked by nelppik 3

2007-09-18 04:18:38 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband was dating this girl about 7 monthes. To cut to the chase he was abt 2 marry her but wen i caught him he call everything off. I been with this man almost 6 years & was suppose 2 to get married September 26,2007. I forgave him because i am a church going person but i keep asking myself wat to do.ihave a 2 year-old child & one is due March 22 2008.i have saught help from many people but still need help. We are still together but for the sake of the children. Shall i take him back or leave him wher he is at?

2007-09-18 04:14:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

is it true that some men go through a phase in life where they wander what happened to themselves? wonder if they can get other girls? he cheated on me by talking to this other girl on the phone and it was a secret for a few weeks..they never met nothing like that. he said he is really sorry and changed his number and told her off and we sent her a dirty pic of us last night ..is this enough to show that he really wants me?

2007-09-18 04:13:08 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-18 03:40:47 · 52 answers · asked by lucie1432002 1

2007-09-18 03:34:05 · 35 answers · asked by asha b 1