how can i leave my two sons and runaway?

Answer 1

Ignore your maternal instincts, and think only of yourself.

Answer 2

If your sons are in danger, call social services and tell them you are afraid you are going to be abusive.

If they aren't in danger, it sounds like you need to reduce some stress in your life and learn some good tools to help you with your life. Seek counseling. If you can't afford counseling, then see what resources as far as support groups are available for you, there are usually some sort of mother/parent group in every state.

If you attend a church or have any resources like that, use them, talk to people there and see if they can help. Have your sons stay with family or friends for a few days to take a break and get your sanity back.

If you are absolutely sure you want to runaway and leave your sons, then make sure they are with someone that will care about them and be ready to face years of guilt knowing that your sons needed their mother and you weren't there for them. I'm sorry if that sounds hurtful, but if your sons lose their mother, they will go through their whole life dealing with abandonment and other issues and that would not be good for them.

Best of luck to you. I know it gets tough. Hang in there and things will get better - they always do.

Answer 3

Unless your sons are adults, why would you want to abandon your children? They depend on you for life lessons, nurturing, support, and stability. Wouldn't you worry about them? Do you honestly think someone would take care of them the way you take care of them. When times get hard, family is supposed to come together, not fall apart. Find someone you can talk to about what is going on with you and see if you can get things figured out. This is serious and could have a bad affect on your children in the future. There has got to be other options rather than abandonment. Think, before your give up on the two people who love you unconditionally.

Answer 4

If you really want to leave your sons, be sure they're in good hands and leave. If you can leave them with their father, that would be great. Otherwise, your parents or the father's parents, or a trusted friend who will do the right thing. Don't let anyone make you feel guilty about wanting to run away. Better that you leave for a while than you do something to physically harm the children or yourself. I wish you well.

Answer 5

I don't know why you want to runaway. That's between you and God. But if you have young children, why wouldn't you want them with you? Young children need their mother if its at all possible. You should really think long and hard on this before you do something that will affect the rest of your life, and your children's lives.

On a personal note. I could never willingly leave my son. It would kill me to do so.

Answer 6

You need to give a little more info. How are are your boys? Are you leaving for good or just a while. Why do you want to runaway?

Answer 7

If you have no kids and want to run away that is between you and your husband.

But as a parent, you have a deep connection and a responsibility to your children.

Don't you love your sons anymore?

Why would you want to abandon them? Is there a man in your life who is pressuring you to leave your children?

If that is the case, then consider this;

When you are gone, you will have to live with your guilt. And when you go back for them someday, how will you explain it to them?

Will they ever trust that you won't leave them again?

Children are shaped by what their parents do. They don't ever forget something like that.

If you are being pressured by someone to abandon them, why would you listen to him? Doesn't he want you to be happy?

And if you just don't want to be Mom anymore, then too bad. You took on that responsibility when you became a mother. It's time to stop fantasizing and grow up for your kid's sakes

They are counting on you to do the right thing.

Answer 8

You don't EVER run away from your children. If you are having a bad day, ask someone, a family member, a friend, to babysit a couple of days while you get yourself back together. You will traumatize them for life. Being a mother is a 24/7 job. Yes, you are entitled to breaks every once in a while but not for forever. Those boys need their mother. How would you feel if your mother did that to you? It would hurt you very very bad, wouldn't it? Yes, it would. Don't do that to your boys. They don't deserve that. I don't care how bad they are, they are just children. Routine and discipline will help with bad behavior and disrespect. But love is most important. You have to give love to get love in return. Best of luck!

Answer 9

If the sons are under 18, leave them with a family member or friend. You can leave them at a hosiptal, police station, or with a firefighter.

Ask someone in your town for advice. Talk with someone at a local church. Someone will help ... just keep asking until you find the right help. Good Luck.

Answer 10

Why would you want to? I could never runaway and leave my daughter. When you have children you make that commitment and you can't just run away from that.

Answer 11

Everybody feels like running now and then...the trick is to not act impulsively. Can you explain some of the issues surrounding wanting to leave? I have 5 sons, and there were many times I felt like running away.......But running doesn't make the problems go away....in fact, the guilt of doing such a thing can cripple you emotionally. For your own sake, talk to a professional about your issues....He/She can help you deal without bailing on people that need you. If you want to talk, no judgments, please feel free to contact me.