Marriage & Divorce - 19 September 2007

not all the time but it seems like the female is given more and is treated better than men?

2007-09-19 23:55:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-19 23:11:35 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

a mother having been abused numerous times physically by her husband, and having her children also abused by her husband, still loves him and wants to get back with him.

then a friend comes along helped her and her kids by aiding in getting the husband into jail. in jail, the husband consequently gets stabbed and dies because of his revolting violent nature. the mother on the other hand feels guilty of her husband's death and wants to give him a proper respectful funeral and burial. when the friend tells her not to spend the extra effort & money on the husband's death, while reminding her how badly he treated her and her kids, the mother gets angry and becomes enraged, revealing a figment of the husband's nature living on in her.


the cycle continues and i'm sure the children would end up being abused by the mother later on as well.


damn these people. i show no pity for the victims.

2007-09-19 22:09:33 · 7 answers · asked by Ozzy 2

I just woke up again thinkng of my ex. We have been separated for over a year now and getting divorced. I can't stop thinking of how he made me feel. The moments we had, our wedding, the way I felt when he looked at me. Everything. We had a relationship many envied us for. I loved him so deeply and woke up every morning thinking how lucky I was. He was wonderful to me until the last moment and lost it. It was finanial trouble that forced us to end it. I have a bf now who treats me like a princess. He loves me and will do anything for me. He doesn't deserve this. I feel intense guilt. I don't want my ex back as we both moved on and so much damage has been done but I just want to forget him and love my bf the way I once loved my ex. Please help. Thanks.

2007-09-19 21:52:56 · 14 answers · asked by Acid 2

I finally took the strength to come clean & tell my boyfriend the truth about my past after a year of lies & hidden fact.
I'l be visiting him in 2weeks (we live in different countries) i wanted to wait till i got there to tell him everything but he was so looking forward to me coming & i didn't want to make it extra hard for him then it already is.
I hate myself for delaying of telling him & lying about my past, because what is ment to be the past i have now brought into the relationship.
I feel he has some hatred & things towards me but he keeps saying no, but after all that i have put him through how can he not i sure do.
He is the best thing in my life right now & i was scared of losing him, losing us & hurting him but i guess thats exactly what i have done ten times over.
Despite everything he still loves me so much, still wants me to come see him & wants a future with me
I love him so so much & i really want to show him once i get there as actions speak louder than words.

2007-09-19 21:35:52 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-19 21:17:28 · 6 answers · asked by ashwest21 1

I was wondering about other people. Before the baby, we held hands ALL the time (in public, in the car, the movies, the mall).

2007-09-19 21:10:25 · 16 answers · asked by keri_ricker 2

2007-09-19 21:05:48 · 22 answers · asked by prem s 1

My husband can't seem to keep his hands off me (sexually). Most people wouldn't be bothered but I can't do anything without him touching me!! I can't sleep, get dressed, take a shower, cook, I mean nothing! I have asked him a million times in the past 5 YEARS to stop it, but he just can't. He told me that he needed help, because he can't control himself when he's around me. Which made me feel even more worse. So anyway how can I help him to keep his hands off of me, without taking away his want for me?

2007-09-19 20:36:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Here's the situation, I was in love with a man 30 years ago. We were together for 10 years off and on. We haven't spoken in 20 years. Recently he came back into my life via internet. The thing is that I'm in a great lesbian relationship now, he is single. I have realized that I have always loved him, and am still very much in love with him, and love my girlfriend very much too. (she knows nothing other than I have spoken to him) I need the perfect love song for this situation. and some advice Only nice answers please, I am confused and torn between two people, He also lives over 2000 miles away and wants me (and I would love) to go see him..however I can't do that .what am I pose to say to the one I am with now that I am going away for a couple of week see my X .I don't want to kill my relationship with her to go see him but I really need to see him..SO CONFUSED how can u love 2 very different people at the same time..Plzzz Help

2007-09-19 19:53:37 · 9 answers · asked by new2rmh 2

I was with someone for aprrox 1 year and also got married unfourtunately our marriage only lasted two months and 3 weeks. He hurt me real bad wont get into the details but i loved this guy with all my heart he was the first guy i had ever fallen in love with. now its been 7 months ever since and have had some guys wanting to get to know me but i feel that i would like to move on but at the same time tend to think what my ex had done to me and how we wwere in love. how do i get over my ex? i will never go back with him after what he did to me but dont know how to get over him. i dont really feel anything for him anymore but cant seem to get over it. pls help. sorry if i have made yous confused

2007-09-19 19:51:58 · 5 answers · asked by gettin over it! 1

2007-09-19 19:21:37 · 13 answers · asked by Catherine Neis 1

Our sexlife is good but I want to buy her a schoolgirl uniform, one of those lether suits with the boots and a whip, and maybe a nurse outfit but she says she don't like costumes. Never really gives a reason.

What do you guys think the reason could be?

2007-09-19 19:10:13 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and the wife were fooling around this morning. We were interupted and she had to leave earlier than me. I was still in the mood so I jacked off to porn.

She asked if I played with myself and I said yes. Now she's all mad and going crazy.

Is this really that big of a deal?

2007-09-19 18:54:46 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok - this came to me while I was watching tv, I was just wondering...

A man and a woman both in their 20's meet, fall in love, and marry after a few years. At the wedding the man's mother, who lost her husband say - 15 years before, meets the womans father, who lost his wife recently. The father and mother of the couple become friends, they live in the same town ... time passes, the couple is happily married and has a few children, when the parents announce that they're dating.

Eventually, when the grandchildren are 7 or 8, they decide they might want to get married. The couple has no problem, but wonder what to tell their children...

What would they tell them? Is this wrong? After all the parents aren't related, except throught the children's children. I'm sure, at some point in history, this has happened...but is it just a little too wierd?

2007-09-19 18:50:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anon 1

We have both been married twice mine were short marriages his 1st was short the 2nd they were together 12 yrs but only married 2 out of the twelve.I am thirty and he is 38 and I am ready to finally have the family thing we have 8 children between us but our 2 year old twins are the only ones that we have together.His ex's cheated on him so now he thinks all women are the same.I am completely in love with him and have never been this devoted to anyone.We live together but I feel like I can never compare to his ex because aside from her cheating on him he thinks she was pretty great.I on the other hand feel like I have to compete and I am always doing everything wrong.I need so help I am so confused?

2007-09-19 18:49:32 · 6 answers · asked by KansasChick 1

I have been living in my husbands grandmothers house for a month and a half. we were supposed to be looking after her as she has discovered that she is terminally ill. Then my mother in law and her husband moved in too. Since then I have been caring for granny and getting verbally and emotionally abused by my mother in law. I said before granny came home from hospital that I couldn't take full responsibility for her due to a young child of my own, but they dissmissed that and not that it has gotten too much they resent me. We had a huge arguement last night and now I have decided to leave for my own sake and my baby.
I'm I wrong for walking out??

By the way I am taking my baby with me...

2007-09-19 18:32:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-19 18:29:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Who has divorced based on irreconcilable differences? What happened? How were you both different? What did you not have in common? Did you overlook these differences prior to marriage? Did you have a gut feeling that you two were a little different? Are you friends or aquaintances now? What good came out of your experience? Please tell me your story with all the DETAILS that are necessary.

2007-09-19 18:29:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-19 18:28:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife wants a divorce but she still wants to stay in a relationship with me. She also wants me to buy her implants. what do you think about that? we also have a 4 year old boy together.

2007-09-19 18:28:07 · 8 answers · asked by mero 2

I've heard a few men say how awful women are for taking all their money and their kids during their divorce, and how vindictive their ex-wives are. I've also heard a few women say they got stuck with bills, the kids, and their ex ran out on them and/or cheated on them. So what do you think-is either gender really worse to the other in divorce, or does it depend on the couple?

When I got divorced, I paid more of the bills and took more of the debts since I made more money. So I haven't experienced the horrors of divorce; we acted like civil adults (we divorced in our 20's).

2007-09-19 18:20:18 · 16 answers · asked by edith clarke 7

2007-09-19 18:18:01 · 17 answers · asked by durvalina 1

What would be reasons to divorce your spouse other than obvious ones which are they beat you, they cheated, they gambled the house away, they are addicted to drugs or alcohol, they had a sex change you did not know about, etc. I want to hear the whole story with LOTS of DETAILS!

2007-09-19 18:16:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Did they find out about it? Do you still keep the secret? did you enjoy it or feel guilty?

2007-09-19 18:15:43 · 17 answers · asked by Talent 3

What do you do if he is? what do you say? How do you react? This Question is for a very good friend of mine i keep tell ing her to wait for eveadence but she dont want to wait what do i do as friend to help her and to be there for her what do i say that wont hurt her feelings? I dont wanna say i told you he's not cheating HELP PLZ

2007-09-19 18:06:35 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

Let's talk about sex and happiness in regards to single people versus married people. Who is happier? Who gets it the most? Who gets quality sex the most? Who unintentionally goes without it longest? Who ends up pleasuring themselves most? Please give specific reasons why you feel the way you do.

2007-09-19 17:55:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think it's kinda of wierd. it is usually the husband should be older than his wife. that's normal

2007-09-19 17:51:37 · 31 answers · asked by elaine.patton 5

I am going though a divorce after 20 years with the same women. I have nothing bad to say about her things just arnt working anymore. Lots of my friends want to set me up with there friends how ever Im not ready. I kinda what to get my own place set up and just chill for awhile. Is that wrong? I love company but not ready for a new relationship yet.PD

2007-09-19 17:46:56 · 13 answers · asked by pd 1

Ok, this is going to be hard to explain. My husband and his ex went to court in November and his ex was given sole legal and physical custody of their 5-year-old daughter. He was just given visitation (because his ex made up some b.s. about him abusing his daughter and even thought she had no proof they took her side) which meant he got her on the weekends. Well, since it was ordered, he has only seen her 5 times because most of the weekends his ex would make up excuses saying that she had prior plans for her or else she wouldn't answer her phone at all. Well, last month she stopped answering his calls completely. I kept bugging him to go to her house to pick his daughter up, and he finally went this last Saturday. Well it turns out she moved. We hired a private investigator and it turns out she moved all the way to Seattle (we live in San Francisco)! We went to the court house and they said that she didn't give a change of address or anything. Now we know where she lives and everything because of the private investigator, but I just need to know if what she did was illegal or not. I mean, it has to be right? What can we do about this? We don't want to make her move back down here because we found out that she enrolled her in school and everything and we don't want to interrupt his daughter's education, but we really need some advice on what to do about this (we can't move up there because our son is going to school down here and we don't want to interrupt his schooling either).

Sorry this ended up so long.:( Please help!

2007-09-19 17:43:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous