Marriage & Divorce - 17 September 2007

2007-09-17 23:53:01 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

He wasn't happy with his wife. We love each other so much and had beautiful plans for our future. When i already get pregnant, he said he underestimated his feelings about his kids and wanted to start again new life-to follow God's Commandment and love the wife out of fear of God's punishment and to avoid the sin of adultery but still be a responsible father to my baby. I understand and respect his choice but it's so hard for me, being alone in my pregnancy period, with all the hardships and discomforts i feel, the emotional stress, prejudices, the worries I've caused to my family, pressures at work, sleepness nights-of crying and worrying about the future of my baby, the hospital fee when i give birth, and all the expenses for the baby, the plans of moving to other place coz people and friends have no idea that my bf is married guy, what would my baby feels when he grow up without a father on his side, when she sees other kids being held and carried by their fathers.. it's so painful!

2007-09-17 23:44:15 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-17 22:52:32 · 7 answers · asked by markcandor 1

My husband for 15 years has recently realised that he is too good for me and wants to start afresh leaving me and my two kids.

He says that I am not qualified enough and he can not discuss anything with me. Surprisingly this he could not realise for past 13 years. I have done graduation in arts.

I am being harassed by him by some or other way every day sincle last two years. He comes up with a new theory everyday and talks very vague and seems to be fickle minded.

What should i do ? what are the options for me for my and my kids financial security ? Can i take a legal action against him?


Please advice.

2007-09-17 21:55:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

my small little lovely family with a loving husband,one daughter(9months)and one son (2yrs).suddenly something was going very wrong.then I caught him in a relation with another women.He said his story..........he used to chat with this girl ,then they start to meet eachother.my husband took her in our apartment which was vacant.she cooked for her,they had food.then again next day he took her there and they had sex relation. then some how i cought him.then he broke the relation with that girl.My husband says it was a big mistake.He apologised to me and promised to me he will never do it again.My question is not that, should i forgive him or not because i allready forgave him.But i can not forget that he had a relation with someone when i gave him everything.its not that we have a bad s e x life.everything was right.then y he did. we can not say it was an accident because it was well organised as you see. he said he do not know why .

2007-09-17 20:12:27 · 10 answers · asked by sherry 3

My husband is a truck driver and is currently hauling cattle. he is a company driver and makes a pretty nice paychecks. But he wants to buy a truck and become an owner operator. But he has a past of over spending money on making the trucks look nice. and with the cost of the truck payment and fuel and broker fees I just don't think it's worth it when i told him that i did not like the idea he became upset and is angry at me because I don't want to get into to money troubles and lose are butts. But if i don't do it then I'm sure he will hold this over my head for a long time. So what should I do let him go his way and take the chance on losing everything or stand my ground and possibly lose my husband. either way I might lose my marriage. I'm sure he will fail as an owner because he will end up buying crome for his truck been threough that before. I don't know what to do and to make things worse we have three kids. please help me make up my mind or should I just flip a coin?

2007-09-17 19:37:52 · 18 answers · asked by sunshine 2

I love my wife since we marriage ten yaers ago, but I met my girsl friend few month ago and I am feeling that I love her while I am still loving my wife and don,t known what to do.

2007-09-17 19:21:19 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-17 19:17:03 · 9 answers · asked by Boer 1

2007-09-17 19:07:35 · 20 answers · asked by mohammednabiee 1

How did you manage financially? What were the best and worst results of your decision?

2007-09-17 19:05:55 · 18 answers · asked by jackie r 2

I recently broke it off with my girlfriend of 2 1/2 years. Before i thought we would break up I traded in my car for a crew cab truck because we thought it would be good not only because trucks are dependable but it was roomy enough for the kids. The problem is i couldnt get the truck under my name, so she got it under her name. We were also living together and we had planned to get married. Well... we fought, she kicked me out of the house. I got angry ofcourse and said why dont you take the damn truck also while your at it. She did! A couple days passed and she asked me to take truck back because she couldnt afford it. I let my pride get in the way and said no. She found someone to take it several days later without my knowledge. Her Ex HUSBAND. Now it turns out he is living back with her. I tried to get back with her and get the truck back but it was to late. She lives with him now for financial reasons she said. I love her and miss her. I lost her and the truck. What can i do now?

2007-09-17 19:02:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-17 18:58:41 · 8 answers · asked by jenni 1

We have been married for 6 years now have 3 beautiful boys by the age of 5, 3 & 1. We stay with the in-laws ...(father, mother, sister, her children),...okay question is.....how can i get my man to move out buy a place of our own that we could both give our 3 boys. He thinks investing in a house is insane when he has the family house to invest in...doing renovation & all....so what can i say to the man to change his mind....help me...need ideas your input would be nice

2007-09-17 18:54:10 · 10 answers · asked by Juls.fj 1

My friend here has this fairy tale (IMO) view that once you are in love with sombody and marry them that you wont be attracted to anybody else. I dont agree, i think that it is somthing you will have to deal with all the time. But its not wrong, unless you act on it right? If she is right then it means being attracted to sombody else means that you dont love the one you are with.

Mind you im not married but i would like married people's opinions please :)

2007-09-17 18:31:01 · 11 answers · asked by Flying Spagetti Monster 7

Hi, My husband is a nice man, but he works in a diff place. I am feeling like talking to my ex..I miss him all the time. What shd I do? I am so obsessed with him. I see him online, shd I talk to him? I am sure he also wants to talk to me, as he misses me a lot. Plz help...i dont want to my husband either, but the spark in missing some how...

2007-09-17 18:23:34 · 11 answers · asked by jenni 1

I know not ALL guy do this, but in my expeirience...they all have.

Why do guys hit women???
For the men out there that read this...that DO...you guys are jerks. How could you do that to someone? For no reason what so ever???

What did I do to these men?

Why did they feel the need to just take all their anger out on another human being???
OR, just hit them for fun???

To every man that has ever hit a woman....I would just like to say, that you are a coward! You are a shallow little sh*t!

To all the men that would never dream of hitting a woman...
I pray to meet you someday.

2007-09-17 18:13:32 · 9 answers · asked by Megan 3

My husband left our home two weeks ago, I have no idea as to where he is living. I am 5 months pregnant with his child, my net income is 1200/ month his is 4000/month, i am on my companys insurance and have dedutibles and such in dealing with this pregnancy. I have been left with the bills, and the headaches. I am trying to understand if I can get some type of payments out of him up to the time I deliver my baby and then can go for child support. I live in Pennsylvania, I was told that domestic relations might be able to help me, as I can not afford a lawyer in this matter. If anyone can help, I would appreciate the advice. We have been married for five years and I never thought this would happen to me. Thanks!!

2007-09-17 18:02:23 · 6 answers · asked by Jami K 2

i've been married for a few years and have experienced contradicting things.but some of the things i can't forget was being battered once in a while, but not that often. my husband said i deserve to be hit because of who i am..i'm really tired now..i'm in a foreign country and i feel all alone amidst all this. until one day i met someone who is nice..we are still on the getting to know each other stage. i thought that we would stop communicating after he found out i'm in an abusive marriage. when i spoke to him again, he asked first if i moved out and have left the guy who hurt me. i told him , i'm still living with my husband.i didn't tell him its because i can't afford to move out yet. the new guy told me before that i have many excuses on not having the courage to leave. my questions are: how do i leave and start or all over again? how do i heal so i can love again? what do you think of the new guy after what he said? what should i do for myself and for a new chance at love?

2007-09-17 18:00:23 · 14 answers · asked by hopingndreaming 1

I'm curious to know if a couple is already LEGALLY married, does the Catholic priest have to know if they are legally married in order for him to perform the wedding process? And if he does know, is it frowned upon and will he still carry out the process?

2007-09-17 16:33:57 · 11 answers · asked by rivaldo 2

2007-09-17 16:33:50 · 11 answers · asked by Thank God! Praise God! 3

If you are home and find that another woman is in your home with your husband and you don't want to go to jail for hurting them, what does a woman do?

2007-09-17 16:24:51 · 30 answers · asked by locknkey 3

But on the computer instead?

2007-09-17 15:58:45 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a huge crush on my massage therapist and it is driving me crazy. He is so adorable and the way he touches me is so sensual. It really turns me on and I'm pretty sure he knows. He has gradually started touching me more amd more intimately, but never goes over the line. I'm married and older than him. Is it wrong for me to enjoy this as much as I do? I honestly don't think I could make myself stop seeing him. The time I am with him makes me happier than anything else I have going on in my life right now.

2007-09-17 15:44:59 · 16 answers · asked by loulou 2

We've been divorced for years and were great friends....
he recently got involved with an older, quite unattractive, wealthy woman and he now has nothing to do with me. I mean even if I run into him, he acts like he doesn't know me. I can understand that the friendship changed and became cooler, but to take it to this extreme seems bizarre and actually rather cruel to me. Has anyone had this experience... and what in the world could it be about???

2007-09-17 15:41:44 · 10 answers · asked by Sandy 1

My ex wife wont give me her home address. Can I serve her at work ? I am filing for custody of my son. He is 4. And has seen her get beat up to many times with her ex boyfriend and now shes back with him. I want my son out of there like yesterday. I can have her served at work right ? I have her job address. Its all in the BEST interest of my son. PS know a attorney in Orlando FL for me ????

2007-09-17 15:38:10 · 9 answers · asked by Doctor Redcrow MD 2

All he does is drink beer and stay at the neighbors house and he gets mad when i dont clean or cook an he want help me do anything he says thats a womans job and his dad didnt have to an he want either.

2007-09-17 15:27:47 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love my husband , but I'm not in love with him like I use 2 b when we first met. Things have changed since we've been married. We have1 child 2gether and he's not happy with his job. He's not putting any pressure on me. Lately, we've always arguing over the small issues. Nothing really get resolved right then or never. He wants to relocate near his mom. I'm cool about that, but he wants me 2 change his mind and head towards my family way. I've told him its fine moving towards his family way. With all this up n the air about his job, no communication, and with current job not making him happy, I believe I've fell out of love with him. 2 me its like he don't focus on us anymore. He use 2 do things that were cute or just because. Now all he do is stay 2 hisself and when I don't bother him he ask me why I haven't asked him whats wrong. I 2 the point where I might need some time 2 myself 2 figure out what I need and how 2 make me happy again.

2007-09-17 15:08:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

but you broke it off.

2007-09-17 15:07:09 · 2 answers · asked by ames 3

If I had a baby and wasnt married to the babies dad. Would the baby have to keep my last name or could it have the dads last name?

2007-09-17 15:03:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to change it back but don't know how much it costs or where to go. Can anyone help me out??!!! Thanks!

2007-09-17 14:55:20 · 9 answers · asked by openminded 6