We've been divorced for years and were great friends....
he recently got involved with an older, quite unattractive, wealthy woman and he now has nothing to do with me. I mean even if I run into him, he acts like he doesn't know me. I can understand that the friendship changed and became cooler, but to take it to this extreme seems bizarre and actually rather cruel to me. Has anyone had this experience... and what in the world could it be about???
2007-09-17 15:41:44 · 10 answers · asked by Sandy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Maybe she is jealous of you and don't want him talking to you at all and he is afraid that she has hired someone to follow him and if it gets back to her that he was talking to you she will take him out of her will or cut him off from the big alliance she is giving him now.
2007-09-17 16:05:21 · answer #1 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
bettylou do you have children with this ex husband?
If no then why is it bothering you ? I mean yes you had a good friendship but maybe it was holding him back emotionally and he realised it wasnt healthy for him to keep the friendship because he still cared to much yet realised you werent meant to be married or even a couple so he had to get on with his own life.
Just food for thought , my own POP.
2007-09-17 22:50:32 · answer #2 · answered by JadeyOz 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he is ashamed of his condition
it looks like he is a mantained man, a gigolo. at least most persons would think so
so he respects you and is afraid of what you might think of him and judge his situation
should you run into him again, tell him you still love him as a friend and that should he ever need you, you are there for him.
maybe that will open him up.... and if not... who cares. go on with your life.
there is a saying in my country
you can't even force a shoe on....
if it doesn't fit... it doesn't
2007-09-17 22:48:48 · answer #3 · answered by GreenEyes 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's changing.......let him be. Maybe his new girlfriend doesn't want him to talk to you or he doesn't want her to think he still has a thing for you. Some women are catty and you know that! He'll come around and chat sometime.........just take it easy and don't worry about it. Take care.
2007-09-17 22:46:20 · answer #4 · answered by stuffyluvbug 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well i had this before and the only thing i could tell you is just ignore him. but if you want to be friends with him ask wahts wrong with him? I know its hard at the beginning but you will be fine
2007-09-17 22:48:38 · answer #5 · answered by hila_lila16 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
he's too blinded by the money that the lady has and doesn't want to risk that money source, by having contact with you, maybe he doesn't wish that this lady knows that you two were married as it could cauze insecurity in the lady..
2007-09-17 22:46:43 · answer #6 · answered by YaNiRa 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would say that the woman he is involved with has told him not to have any contact with you.
2007-09-17 22:44:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
The new woman friend has asked him to dump all his exes. She wants him for herself and he is complying.
2007-09-17 22:49:05 · answer #8 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He's enjoying his life as a gigalo and doesn't anyone ruining that for him.
2007-09-17 23:17:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have been replaced, move on is my best advice... If you don't you will always be the spare tire.....
There for when the need arises...
2007-09-17 22:46:33 · answer #10 · answered by Tiny Jr. 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋