I know not ALL guy do this, but in my expeirience...they all have.
Why do guys hit women???
For the men out there that read this...that DO...you guys are jerks. How could you do that to someone? For no reason what so ever???
What did I do to these men?
Why did they feel the need to just take all their anger out on another human being???
OR, just hit them for fun???
To every man that has ever hit a woman....I would just like to say, that you are a coward! You are a shallow little sh*t!
To all the men that would never dream of hitting a woman...
I pray to meet you someday.
2007-09-17 18:13:32 · 9 answers · asked by Megan 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Only the weak are cruel
For only the truly strong can be gentle.
This has been my personal philosophy for many many years.
2007-09-18 10:44:34 · answer #1 · answered by Zaferus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately there are many men who abuse, hit and disrespect their women. I think of them as cockroaches, because only a low life scumbag, coward, sorry excuse for a man hits a woman. But the one thing that bothers me the most is all those women who keep on living with this insects with the excuse that they love them. How can you love someone who treats you like garbage. Other excuse I hear a lot is I don't have any place to go. There are many places out there that help battered women. And the third thing that I don't get is, why don't they go to the police? Those cockroaches belong in jail. To answer your question, the only reason that i could think off about why men hit women is because they are so low, that they need to do that just to feel better about themselves.
2007-09-18 10:20:57 · answer #2 · answered by Ricardo R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In all my life, all my relationships and all my dealings with people I have NEVER hit a woman (and I am no spring chicken). Men...real men don't hit women and will hesitate to do it even if they are being attacked by them.
The real question is why do women go to or stay with men who abuse them? I've met several very attractive women who seem to go from one abusive relationship to another. They know the past history of these men yet still they are drawn to them as if they are going to "change" them. Men don't just "start" hitting women, they have the past to show a woman these tendencies yet some women seem to ignore those signs. Is "love" really that blind?
My suggestion is this, if a man has a violent history...women....stay away..FAR AWAY from them. You are NOT going to change them, they want you to be submissive, they want you to live in fear and they want to be in complete and total control.
Open your eyes ladies, SEE what you are getting into BEFORE you get into it. I'll not say you get what you ask for as I don't believe anyone ask for an a** whipping, but you know the consequences of sticking wet fingers into a wall socket so why would you think the consequences of hooking up with a violent person is not going to result in violence against you? Reality check!
2007-09-18 09:44:27 · answer #3 · answered by David 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some times there is more than bad luck envolved. You might not want to go there, but were you raised in an abusive family? For some reason, you are attracted to abusive guys or they are attracted to you, maybe because they pick up on "victims". Please dont take this wrong...There often is a connection from dysfunction in the family that one is not conscious of.
Most guys don't hit women. There is a reason as per above, or you are just unlucky....and need to lean about signs that a guy might be aggresive.
Around here, the guy goes to jail period. Even if the Lady..."drove him to it".
I can't imagine guys doing it but see it every day. Most of them just return to the same abusive guy which really drives me crazy. I'd love to meet a nice lady with a heart and mind...that doesn't like to control and abuse in other ways
2007-09-18 03:31:12 · answer #4 · answered by mysihba 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't know. It never occurs to me to hit. It's not something I have to restrain. It just isn't in me.
Maybe it gives them confidence. Maybe it gives them control. Maybe they just can't control themselves enough.
Men who hit women have a problem. That's for sure. I pray you meet one of the good men soon.
2007-09-18 02:26:52 · answer #5 · answered by The Babe is Armed! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well real men dont hit a women, , i belive god made wome to be love, an for us men to care for, .. not to hit,, i am 54, an never hit a womem, true a few over the years has hit me, but it take a real man to turn an walk away,
2007-09-18 08:23:46 · answer #6 · answered by ghostwalker077 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive been married for 14 years and never hit her...BUT she has slapped me on the arm more than a few times for being a smart a**.....LOL.
Notice: im Taken,sorry.
2007-09-18 02:27:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am a man and have never hit a woman in my life a real man dont hit women that.s fact to me as well my opion?
2007-09-18 02:19:43 · answer #8 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My question to you is, do you show some type of aggression to them? violence brings violence?
if you stop hitting, then they will stop hitting?
2007-09-18 02:18:31 · answer #9 · answered by BRYAN L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋