why marriages are breaking at the faster rate?

Answer 1

everyone is looking next door for a free ride and a quick fix. they dont want to put any effort into trying to enjoy the one they choose to marry. if they get upset or disappointed then they go and find some way to make them self feel better then trying to talk to their partner and see what they can do to fix things at home. its so easy to find someone to take care of you for the night and its to easy to get a divorce.

Answer 2

Because it's all about me me me. We've all forgotten what commitment is and what it means to be a grown up. There's no respect or nobility left in our lives. All that's left is greed and avarice. The thing I hear most that drives me up the feakin' wall is "You don't know how I feel!" and that gives the person lisence to be the biggest most self-centered b*thole on two feet.

It seems we've forgotten that love, marriage and family is hard hard work. We are all chasing that media propagated dream of having the trophy wife/husband that will be there to please us and only us.

It's the lack of love in the world that's getting worse and worse.

We are in a very sad and sorry state as a species and i honestly believe that the growing rate of failed marriages is an indication of worse things to come.

Regardless, have a nice day.

Answer 3

Hi Anu,
To be frank with you, marriages are breaking faster, all because of: no mutual understanding, impatient, anger, ego, dowry, double standards etc etc. These are the few reasons for which it's happening at faster rate.
To reduce or to control it's better to be patient, be proper listener, wherein you will find a solution to problems. Sit & explain to your partner, wherein he will understand & respect your views. I hope it can be reduced, see, when we can listen to others, why not ask this question to yourself
& get much better answer, than referring others? Think once again about this option. Wish You All The Best.

Regards,
Pavan M.

Answer 4

Because relationships break up all the time, it is natural. In previous years women were trapped in a marriage for economical reasons and that meant men could be any kind of husband they felt like. Now women can be independent thay don't need to accept the first shoddy marriage that comes along and they can get the fabulous marriages they deserve!
Also, i think you will find that people often get married more than once so people still have faith and want these things to work, even though if it doesn't the first time. Love still exists!

Answer 5

It's shocking to me that every person above me who answered took what you said at face value and did not challenge your assumption! Marriages are NOT breaking at a faster rate. In fact, the divorce rate is slowing down. The divorce rate in the U.S. peaked at 5.3 divorces per 1,000 people in 1981, but since then it's dropped by one-third, to 3.6. That's the lowest rate since 1970.

Answer 6

Marriages breaking at a faster rate because the people involved in them are too lazy to work at and fix the problem. Classic "me" generation , too selfish and stubborn pride gets in the way every time. Easier to walk away than to work at it.

Answer 7

Variety is the spice of life, people get bored with same old, same old. They need a change every few years or so, the easiest way to do it is to break the marriage, you can always find reasons for anything once you are dissatisfied.

Combined with low tolerance, high expectations, egoistic behavior, money mindedness etc. the net result is marriages are breaking up faster and faster.

Answer 8

People are taking vows, and not realizing exactly what those vows mean. Vows are promises, and those promises are made for a lifetime. Lust is not love. Love is accepting a person as they are. Love can withstand time, but lust is short lived. That is another mistake that people make. People are what they are and do not change just because they get married. If they are not what they should be before marriage, they will not be any better after they get married. Love is not always enough either. Peopole need to discuss their ambitions, hopes, and dreams in order to know if they are compatible enough to withstand a lifetime of sharing their lives.

Answer 9

In my opinion due to lack of mutual understandings couples are breaking his/her married life. Today life is fast both are doing there job both are busy in social life. When they get marriage they don't think that this or that girl or boy will better of my life they will live with me or not. They take decisions fastly withour his/her consent of parents because they are doing love marriage.
If you see the list of divorced case we find that in most cases they are not taking consent of his/her parents are they getting love marriage.
Source say that 99% cases are from high society

Answer 10

marriages are breaking at a faster rate because there is lack of trust , understanding ,confidence,patience ,which needs to be there in both ,there is lot of egoism and anger which should not be there it , in a relationship all should be there in equal qualities and quantities as well .

Answer 11

it is a good sign and an indication of growth. the purity of a relationship is not in the duration but in the actual living. In this age of internet where information is disseminated at thought speed, living togather without affection has become a challenge. so no matter how many partners we have, the point is how true and sincere we were in THAT time.