I recently broke it off with my girlfriend of 2 1/2 years. Before i thought we would break up I traded in my car for a crew cab truck because we thought it would be good not only because trucks are dependable but it was roomy enough for the kids. The problem is i couldnt get the truck under my name, so she got it under her name. We were also living together and we had planned to get married. Well... we fought, she kicked me out of the house. I got angry ofcourse and said why dont you take the damn truck also while your at it. She did! A couple days passed and she asked me to take truck back because she couldnt afford it. I let my pride get in the way and said no. She found someone to take it several days later without my knowledge. Her Ex HUSBAND. Now it turns out he is living back with her. I tried to get back with her and get the truck back but it was to late. She lives with him now for financial reasons she said. I love her and miss her. I lost her and the truck. What can i do now?
2007-09-17 19:02:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well...I would sincerely say, that if she moved back in with her ex-husband so quickly, you probably never had her in the first place. She kicked you out after a fight and 21/2 years, so I would say that if she went to that extreme, that she was probably just waiting for an excuse to have you leave. I know breaking up with your love is difficult and painful, but better now, than later after marriage and kids. Be thankful that you know now, that her committment to you is just not where it needs to be for marriage. Let her go and get through the pain by hanging out with close friends and/or family. This is where your support network comes in handy. After time goes by a little, you will be able to see more clearly than you can right now. You may just be on your way to meeting the girl you are supposed to marry and you don't even know it yet. Hang in there...but really let her go.
2007-09-17 19:14:26 · answer #1 · answered by BookButterfly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you got F***ed!! I'm sorry that all that happened, but unless you have proof that you were paying the payments on the truck, there really isn't much you can do. The only thing(s) I can suggest is too get up out of your puddle of self pity, brush all that gloom and doom off, and do something for YOU. Go get a cool new hair cut, or a new CD or file a civil law suit against her for small claims (if you have receipts or checks in your name for the truck payment(S)) and live it up buddy. I am sorry that she was so useless that she couldn't go and get a job and support herself instead of resorting to living with her EX-husband(!!!!). I'm really sorry if this comes across as mean, I really don't mean it to, but that just screams "dead beat, no good loser" to me. Good luck and I hope you get to be in a better mood, soon. Don't pine and worry about a tramp like that. You'll find someone worthy of your love soon, I'm sure. (don't forget, soon is a relative term. . .) You'll be okay!! Just breathe and get a couple of your old buddies (the ones she undoubtedly chased away) and have a couple of cold ones while watching the game in girl free bliss.
2007-09-17 19:18:46 · answer #2 · answered by wombatred26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut your losses and RUN! If you can't decide which is more valuable to you, your truck or your 2 1/2 year relationship, I suggest that maybe your not mature enough for either.
2007-09-17 19:12:50 · answer #3 · answered by Barb Outhere 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
it really sound like you dont need to be with her, if you have
to choose between her and the truck then you have a problem
the fact you snooze you loose. now time to cut your lost and
move on. since the truck was not in your name any way.
2007-09-17 19:27:57 · answer #4 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow, she sure is on the rebound. try to talk to her if you can... ask her if she still loves you and if she does, then tell her your real feelings... if she takes you back, then good... but if not, then you dont have a choice but move on.
2007-09-17 19:18:06 · answer #5 · answered by brazenlove 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What do you want to do now?
2007-09-17 19:36:17 · answer #6 · answered by Starte Christ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋