Marriage & Divorce - 20 September 2007

What are the benefits of divorce... That can be used for debate so that we can win on our debate...

2007-09-20 23:27:44 · 11 answers · asked by hanjew d 1

we had some problems. i did someting wrong. i didnt cheat. he wont forgive me. he lives at his moms. he sees me only when i call him. he still has sex with me. i told him i love him, im sorry, i changed, which i did. i want to work things out w/him. he never gives me a straight answer. im supposed to guess. he doent call me ever or ask me to dinner. i wanted to try and work th ings out with him. now he is staying out over night. 2 times he did this. the 1st time was a sat night and i tried to call him sun from 9am-5pm. he claimed he got to drunk sat nite to go home so he slept at his guy friends house,whom i never met.when he woke up he went straight to his friends shop and left his cell phone at the house where he slept. then again last sat nite he did the same thing, i couldnt reach him all day sun and he says the same story as last time but this time his battery died. i dont believe him.i think he is with someone else. what do you think?

2007-09-20 23:26:23 · 13 answers · asked by ax11779 3

How could one know whether the person you've committed to is never going to change or betray you?
And what about the kids that have no fault for their parents' mistakes?

2007-09-20 23:22:12 · 6 answers · asked by Mishaj 1

2007-09-20 22:52:37 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-20 22:44:24 · 11 answers · asked by wildbillbbw 1

I am the mother of seven kids, with a husband who just left us. I know this woman and I found an email address. I was just wanting to know if it was hers because I found it in my husbands possesion. So I want to prepare myself for the worst.So how can you jugde my morals? My concern is for my kids.

2007-09-20 22:31:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-20 22:05:19 · 14 answers · asked by christina 2

I like this man so much. I can't believe I could ever feel so happy at that moment. Until now I still cannot believe I would ever feel that way. I'm in my 30's! You usually feel those kind of things when your in your teens! Even then I don't remember ever feeling that way. I always keep myself busy just to forget. When it's time to wind down and when I listen to music I just remember him. Its just hard to forget about someone who is so sweet, fun and whom you've been physically attracted to. I would remember the dinner, clubs, movies. It was so fun but I had to end it due to my situation. Sometimes when I'm out and I see other couples holding hands I would remember "us". I just feel like crying at the moment but can't let no one know about how I feel. Something I have to keep to myself. I just miss him so much it hurts. I probably fell in love with that man. It's been a year now.

2007-09-20 21:57:27 · 7 answers · asked by henessy 1

please e really need help it is my final exam

thanks

2007-09-20 21:44:44 · 9 answers · asked by tipzee 1

2007-09-20 21:41:20 · 13 answers · asked by Dpunk 1

I am currently a separated father and it seems like every woman I meet is lazy and will never clean up after themselves. I do not consider myself the cleanest person in the world, but I do like things neat and tidy. Vacuum once a week, do the dishes once every one or two days. I have recently been away for a week and come home to find my female housemate has not lifted a finger towards cleaning the house. Granted we both have a child to look after, but if I can do it why can't she?

2007-09-20 20:12:05 · 12 answers · asked by fontofallknowledge 1

and the woman is married?? Just curious on what other people's views are

2007-09-20 20:05:57 · 29 answers · asked by chellieg195 1

im at a loss i dont know how to respond to someone who is so insecure about everything himself me our life the fact that i lve him our lfe together help what do i do

2007-09-20 20:01:44 · 14 answers · asked by betty s 1

My husband and I have been married for 3 years now and together for 5 1/2. When we got married we said we would wait 2 years before trying to start a family, but now he is telling me that he really doesn't think he wants children, EVER!!. Everytime the subject of children comes up (at a family gathering or with friends) he gets angry and imposible to talk to. I don't know what to do. On one hand he's the man that I love with all my heart but on the other he's crushing my dream of becoming a mother and starting a family with him.
What should I do???

2007-09-20 19:28:01 · 25 answers · asked by jarosi 2

I am saying it's unfortunate we have to pay the other parent and if their unable to do so ,.they go to JAIL...alot of these people work hard to get there responsibility as a parent done....but to remove a parent from there home to sit in a cell for 90days,ect...is that right?????It's" UNDO HARDSHIP"...as Americans we are supposedf to get a fair chance at a shot of a good life....not jail hanging over your head cuz you c=didn't get enough pay for wife ,kids, and the child with the ex!!if thats the case come on home and eat Ramen Noodles ..I want nothing more than FAMILY to be TOGETHER

2007-09-20 19:14:26 · 4 answers · asked by renaeb70 1

whenever he gets home,he just relaxed a bit then go to his laptop and watch sexy pics and it sames he does it all the time,im afraid to argue with him i dont like troubles,

2007-09-20 18:54:18 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-20 18:53:25 · 7 answers · asked by renaeb70 1

2007-09-20 18:32:54 · 24 answers · asked by electrablue55 1

I'm 21, I'm not marry but I do think about it that is for sure. Seriously, what is one thing you can tell me about marriage? It could be anything good/bad. Thank you.

2007-09-20 18:25:11 · 11 answers · asked by Water 5

My ex ran off with another woman when my daughter was 10mnths and I was 18,am now married to a wonderful loving man who adores my daughter.I never talk to my daughter about her dad she is 4,and I don't want her to have a relationship with him coz he is only gna break her heart if he ever comes back and I hope he doesn't.What would you do if you were me?

2007-09-20 18:22:17 · 18 answers · asked by maz 2

She stays at her parents place but has kept telephonic contacts with me. Her anniversary is fast approaching

2007-09-20 18:18:19 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-20 17:58:23 · 16 answers · asked by Woman in Red 4

Have you ever cheated on your husband or wife? If so, do they know about it??

2007-09-20 17:51:49 · 14 answers · asked by Sunny 2

2007-09-20 17:48:49 · 18 answers · asked by viewerxx 1

why i say why????

2007-09-20 17:43:35 · 10 answers · asked by George V 1

Two years ago, my husband tore my world apart by telling me he had slept with a co-worker. For a week, we tried to work it out, but after that, he told me he wanted a divorce. He has been with her ever since and I have been putting my life together again with my daughter. I can even say I'm happy and I'm doing okay. So here it is - my sister, who is six months pregnant, told me last night that she and her husband are having a daughter (had the ultrasound that day) and that they were going to name her Petra, which horrifyingly enough, is the name of the woman my ex is with now. Everytime I hear her name, I still almost feel like dying inside, and I just can't believe my sister could do this. She said she's always loved this name so much and that maybe this will be a way for me to heal and not associate the name with so much hatred. She also said I hear the name anyway from my daughter. I just can't believe she could be this cruel to me - how can I ever forgive her?

2007-09-20 17:42:03 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband of 7 years makes no effort in our relationship. He is a dedicated man, and works very hard to provisde a very nice life, but in general he has no interest in having a relationship with me, he is happy with our roles, me , the house maker, him the provider.
Our anniversary was not long ago, he didnt take the time to even buy me a card. It made me feel super crummy,
but he always makes ways for everyone else, he'll travel to meet others needs. not a one time occasion but more freaquently then ever.
I am so lost in where we are, and I keep trying to get back on track, he shows no interests.
what can i do? I feel like I am reaching the end. help.

2007-09-20 17:37:10 · 16 answers · asked by Brenda W 2

i belive if a man gets married that he has no buisness at a bar.i feel if a man wants to be their he should not get married!

2007-09-20 17:29:49 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I have been married for 8 years and have 3 kids. 4 months ago I found out he had an affair w/a prostitute on a business trip, he gave her his cell and I found a text from her. After he admitted it, he went to counseling for a while and said he would try to change the things he felt led up to the affair, like being a workaholic. At first he was changing, then once he got too comfy he slipped back into his old ways of putting his job before family. I felt like I was in this marraige alone and started to try to figure out how I was going to leave and be a single mom of 3 kids, I had no job, i was a stay at home mom. Then out of nowhere I got a message from an old boyfriend wanting to talk. We started talking and now I am the one having the affair, not just that, I am falling in love w/ this guy! As soon as my husband found out he went crazy desperate and is now ready to do ANYTHING it will take to save our marraige. Do I follow my heart or do I try to work it out w/ husband

2007-09-20 17:27:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I had a good dating relationship. Then one morning at 4:30am he got a text. He said it was a girl he use to talk to. He called her in front of me and said he was seeing me and couldn't talk to her anymore. I was thought that was cool. Then I found strange numbers showing up on our cell bill. It was her number. I confronted him about it. He said that they were just friends. We had a big fight about trust and lying. He said that he would never talk to her again. Then, you know that 6th sense ladies, I told him that I couldn't marry him without the trust. He said that he wasn't talking to her anymore. I found out a couple months ago that he continued to talk to her 2 months after we were married. We had a huge fight. Then he called her and slipped up and said that his wife sure was mad at him. She didn't even know that we had gotten married. Now just yesterday, 9/19/07, I was using his work cell and couldn't resist looking and saw a *67 number. It turned out to belong to

2007-09-20 17:22:38 · 9 answers · asked by Presto! 5