why i say why????
2007-09-20 17:43:35 · 10 answers · asked by George V 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
When two people marry, they are committing themselves to their partner for life. If you like sex, it is only for married people. When you marry you become one flesh with your mate. You should make sure that you know the person that you marry first. Date a long time, ask a lot of questions, find out their values, interests and plans for the future. Tell them yours. Observe how they treat other people, and how they live day to day, if you want children, find out if they do to. Find out if they drink too much or do drugs cause you don't want that. Are they controlling or do they want a partner? What are their politics and spiritual values. Don't jump in too soon and then find out all their faults after you marry, because then it will be too late.
2007-09-20 17:56:10 · answer #1 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is an interesting and novel way to ask a rather profound question. Does the "W" stand for "what" or "why"? Since I am not entirely sure, I will attempt to answer both:
What TF- Marriage can mean many things, but mostly, it means a connected commitment between two different entities. Generally, most would assume this would be between two people, but the concept can include ideas or even objects. (Think plumbing.) If we are talking about people, it should mean a life long partnership, in every sense of that word- common interests, goals, beliefs, etc.
Why TF- This is usually very personal. 1. Because you love someone, they love you, and you have made certain vows and committed yourselves to each other, and believe in the value of that commitment. 2. Because you have procreated with the person you are married to, and you are responsible for the results of that union. 3. Because you are mature enough to realize that the grass only appears to be greener on the other side of the fence. 4. Because, if you really pay attention, you might see an elderly couple, walking hand in hand, and know in your heart that you long for the kind of unconditional love that can only come from years of intimacy, trust, honesty and long term commitment.
2007-09-21 01:36:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is an interpersonal relationship with governmental, social, or religious recognition, usually intimate and sexual, and often created as a contract, or through civil process. Civil marriage is the legal concept of marriage in some jurisdictions.
The most frequently occurring form of marriage unites a man and a woman as husband and wife.[1][2] Other forms of marriage also exist; for example, polygamy, in which a person takes more than one spouse (marriage partner), is common in many societies.[3] Beginning in 2001, civil marriage has been expanded to include same-sex marriage in some jurisdictions.[4]
2007-09-21 00:49:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marrige should be a serious thing done by two people who love each other and can not be apart, and their love is so big that they want to become a family of their own and have kids and the dog and the hole thing,
But as i can read in your comment i see you have figured out that life is not that way now people get married and by the end of the week they are getting divorced but thats not the point in marriage, the point should be LOVE unconditional LOVE
2007-09-21 00:52:01 · answer #4 · answered by JUANA 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To establish a relationship in the eyes of society. Thats all I get out of it. I am going to get married next fall. BIG WASTE OF MONEY. It is like prom all over again. Dress up and parade around for people. We are doing it for insurance. We are in love have been for 5 years. It is 100 percent a socialite.
2007-09-21 02:34:17 · answer #5 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like the idea of having someone to balance me, and fill all the parts I lack in many areas of my life.
I love the security, it provides, thaat someone will be by my side, and gives me friendships when I need it the most,
marriage offers companionship.
also I like being able to express my most intimate desires.
and having some there to push me to meet my dreams, and has my back in any situation.
there are many things I love, and a lot of thing I dont likke.
2007-09-21 00:51:32 · answer #6 · answered by Brenda W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you say why and why the foul language?
If you don't know the meaning of marriage then don't bother getting married.
2007-09-21 00:49:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is means whatever it means to you. Some people marry for love, some marry for money, some marry for citizenship, and the list goes on. Why are you married?
2007-09-21 00:55:50 · answer #8 · answered by I do 26.2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are referring to Biblical meaning, it's one man and one woman. God made Adam and Eve, not Adam and Steve.
2007-09-21 01:09:24 · answer #9 · answered by spinster 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get married.
2007-09-21 01:11:40 · answer #10 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋