can love be forced?

no

2007-09-21 07:54:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋

There are so many different kinds of love...I have found in all my years that the best love comes from mutual respect, mutual caring, helping each other, always there for each other when times are rough for one or both. This kind of love grows slowly over time, and it IS the love we need and crave. The 'big love of my life" crap is no more than a flash in the pan if it is not accompanied by all the above and more. Can love be forced? NO... can you learn to love someone deeply..YES! The stars in the sky may be missing, but it is replaced by something far more enduring, and that love is priceless, doesn't fade, only grows with time. Given the choice today, I would find someone with whom I am compatable to a great extent, someone who "pushes me" into doing things that are good for me, someone who cares for my well being, someone I can count on being there 24/7. Sex is great, will always happen whether you have the pie in the sky love or not...and sex is always terrific. But there are a lot of hours in the week, most of them spent out of bed. IF you allow the other person to fall in love with you, you will do the same with them. And, you do not have to feel love all the time..no one does. But it can sit on the back burner and be ready when needed. IF I hear the phrase, "soul mate" one more time, I think I will scream! Give me a mate who is wonderful for my soul, who nurtures my soul, who cares about my well being...to hell with the soul mate crap, for that is exactly what it is! Good luck, love and peace, Goldwing
Ana, your question deserves a star, for it is deeper than most of the junk I see here. Thanks

2007-09-21 07:05:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋

No loved cannot be forced. You can love someone and someone can love you. But no one can force two people to love each other.

2007-09-21 06:52:31 · answer #3 · answered by dsrtrat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋

No, never....
You should feel first before you express it. It's not the other way around.
If some couples who felt they are in-loved and ended up on separate ways, what more if you will force your feeling towards your partner. Worse, if you find your love one and you are into that relationship.
Get out of it. It doesn't worth it.
Good luck.

2007-09-21 05:20:13 · answer #4 · answered by Blue Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋

if love is being forced, it says you are in a danger zone of abuse or possible worse , u love someone for who they are, not for how they they control, love is never forced.
so please if you feel you are tell someone, and get out now.
love is never forced, you can be in like . or in love .in any part of life, you could maybe just like your step mother, father, sister , brother, etc. but no one can force any one to love.

2007-09-21 05:18:34 · answer #5 · answered by bubbles6144 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋

You can't force what you don't feel for somebody. That's like asking is sex against your will really rape......? Do yourself a favor and stop lying to yourself and find what you're really looking for, from someone else if that is really the problem.

2007-09-21 05:17:48 · answer #6 · answered by 00silky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋

no. you can learn to love but not force. force means you are in authority, demanding a response. love does not demand, it nurtures.

2007-09-21 07:21:46 · answer #7 · answered by stel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋

Anything that is forced is disrespectful. Anything disrespectful is not love.

2007-09-21 05:15:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋

sorry, it can not. however, given time, someone may learn to love you. don't push it or you may scare them off.

2007-09-21 05:11:09 · answer #9 · answered by confusedsoul 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋

No. Let it flows naturally.

2007-09-21 05:14:13 · answer #10 · answered by Vince 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋

No...it would turn into hatred

2007-09-21 06:42:29 · answer #11 · answered by Mishaj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋

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