Marriage & Divorce - 20 September 2007

2007-09-20 13:21:28 · 27 answers · asked by maz 2

2007-09-20 13:13:44 · 9 answers · asked by Gypsy Gal 6

My ex wife moved quite far from me when she got married this year. Previously, I had our daughter at least 3 nights per week while the ex went to school. Now, she moved her to a school 30 minutes away and I only get to have my daughter one night per week and every other weekend. This week, the ex decided to put her into a gymnastics class on the night that I get her. The class is over an hour away from me, but very convenient for the ex. She asked me if it was OK, I said no, and she did it anyway and told me it wasn't about me, it was about our daughter and I would have to deal. I couldn't make it there by 6 because of the distance to pick her up, so she told me her "stepdad" would pick her up since it was too inconvenient for me. This sort of thing has happened 3 times in the past 6 months. I have no prob with gymnastics, just needs to be half way. Should I get legal help to enforce my visitation rights or should I just take it for my daughters sake?

2007-09-20 12:45:18 · 21 answers · asked by Badrider15 1

I had sex with sister-in law room next to family court

2007-09-20 12:41:11 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

We've got a great relationship, awesome sex, great understanding with each other....I just want to do something special for her to show how much I appreciate her. Any suggestions aside from the typical crap?

2007-09-20 12:38:52 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I keep hearing some people say, that you have to have the right CHEMISTRY in order for the relationship to work out in harmony. What exactly do they mean by this? Thanks guys.

2007-09-20 12:34:22 · 11 answers · asked by pain_of_unhappiness 2

Why does a man pleasure himself with the internet daily instead of coming to bed with the woman who loves him? He also acts like I am always a bother, no matter what I do. Honest answers only please!!

2007-09-20 12:31:06 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

waht should i do k=now ?

2007-09-20 12:07:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, we've been together 7 years now and we now have 3 sons. 1 1/2 years ago i had to move 2 hours away because of my job. And now we are finally back together. We are to be married next month finally; but i found out she had a 2 month affair about a year ago. Of course i was devastated, and i felt back then something wasnt right because she started working out, going to the tanning bed etc. but she convinced me she was being faithfull even though she didn't really act happy to see me. She told so many lies to cover up was going on and i waited completely faithfull for so long. Her friend told me everything and she doesn't deny it anymore. But she swears she didn't have sex with him blah blah blah.. And now my family is being tore apart and I want to forgive her but i get so mad,sick, and sad and she never said sorry. so now what to do. my parents divorced when i was 4, and i dont want my kids to live the life I did, I love them so much, is it worth toughing it out for the kids

2007-09-20 11:59:37 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex and I have moved on and are in new relationships. I have a son that was not treated well during our relationship. Since last year the ex has wanted to maintain contact with my son. The visits were every two weeks until I took a temporary assignment out of state. The ex rarely calls my son now and does not know when a visit will be possible. The new girlfriend has moved in with the ex and they are talking marriage. Even though we had a bad break up I still like my ex and have feelings of friendship. I want to do the best for my son (age 9) and I am not sure if continued contact is the best for him, since it is now sporadic. I will be going back to my home state soon or a nearby state. By the way, the ex moved to a different state recently. What do you guys think?

2007-09-20 11:32:38 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I asked this question six months ago and the answers were great. Well, I found her contact info online and did contact her, we talked everyday for months, she left her husband of 7 years but now I am having a hard time leaving my wife of 17 years

2007-09-20 11:18:34 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I find that this works for my husband and it makes me want to gag. I hate the fact that the only way I can really get him to do anything is to throw sex into the equation. After sex he would fly to the moon and back if I asked him to. If there isn't any sex involved, I sometimes have to wrestle to get him to do anything. It's silly and I refuse to pacify him in that way. You should want to do things for me because I am your wife, as you are my husband. Does he have to d**k me down before I'll do anything for him? Absolutely not. I do it with joy ... but as of lately, I have started getting an attitude like him because I am sick of being the only one who's trying to compromise.

Are you in this situation?

2007-09-20 11:02:57 · 16 answers · asked by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4

The affair is over, But he keeps her listed on facebook, He says he wants to work on it but isn't try at all, we are seeing a marriage consellor, says he wont beg for me, I have been doing all the work to put this back together, He hasn't said I LOVE YOU, He has become more cuddly but thats it, He just wants life the way it was and I don't want that any more, We own a house and I don't work if I do its retail, I'm 26.

2007-09-20 09:35:39 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous

the more debt she get in the more money i have to spend out of my pocket to get her out. Seems like every time i turn around someone is calling bout money she owe them

2007-09-20 09:34:59 · 9 answers · asked by keeping it real 1

I have waited a long time and I just want to be married once but I know things happen in life and this can be unrealistic???because of death, change in life experiences etc...what doyou think?????

2007-09-20 09:31:41 · 43 answers · asked by Rita 6

question... since you got married does it seem to you that just about every day you are constantly doing stuff for other people and almost never for yourself??

I must say that its not all coming from my wife.. it seems that once I got married my whole family has decided how reliable I am and are always getting me to do stuff for them, almost like they expect me to always do it...

2007-09-20 09:26:32 · 7 answers · asked by Hippie Man Aka Penguin Crusade 3

I am looking to collect a list of fantasies (no matter how taboo) to use in a collection of erotic stories. I do not want to copy another book, I want to get YOUR fantasies. It does not matter how taboo they are. Also it can involve you, a family member, a friend, someone famous, or whomever - it doesn't matter. Want I want to know is what fantasies do you have that really turn you on to think or read about. Again taboo subjects are welcome as well. Examples: virgin bride taken by stranger right before wedding, family love, zoo, ws, forced, etc.

2007-09-20 09:25:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I have been together for 12 years and married for 6. In December of last year I moved out and got a place of my own. I was hoping that we would be able to get along better this way and maybe fix a few communication problems we have. Since I moved out he has become very distant toward me and I can't decide weather it is worth fighting for. We have had a farely rocky relationship from day dot and have always had trouble communicating with each other. He drove me out of our home with verbal abuse and threats, so I thought maybe it was time to move on. I know that he still loves me as I do him, but where do you draw the line? In the last few months he has taken his wedding ring off and has been reserved about our relationship. We still have not resolved anything, because when I bring it all up he changes the subject constantly? How am I expected to fix all this on my own? I ask this because I really want my marriage to work.....Please, any advise would be greatly appreciate

2007-09-20 09:15:46 · 6 answers · asked by FLIT 3

If a man was attacking you. and for a split second he left both his balls and his face open for a strike. which would you hit and how would you do it? assuming u cant use ur feet or legs

2007-09-20 09:13:34 · 13 answers · asked by Aaron 1

These so called "swingers" are almost all ugly, over weight, bald, and mentally ill? I would say it is about a 90%. Any one else noticed this?

2007-09-20 09:12:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am not here to gripe about my husband. I SERIOUSLY want to know the best way to ask a husband to do something, AND GET IT DONE, without being a nag or a pain in the rear. Things that are "guy" jobs, and that if I do it myself, he says "I was going to do that," even though it has been months since it was called to his attention.
First, how do I make the request?
How long should I wait until asking again?
What if it is something that is causing damage (such as a leaky roof)? Should I do it myself, or call someone to do it, if he does not do it in a certain amount of time? What amount of time?
Maybe there is no solution, but I would gladly take some guy advice.

2007-09-20 09:05:29 · 13 answers · asked by panamaniac 2

Ok My husband pastaway. Is it worng to start dating agin

2007-09-20 09:01:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and I were together for about 6 months and out of the blue he said he didnt want to see me anymore and that was that. No answers no nothing. I tried and tried to get ahold of him and see what in the world changed him but no luck. I eventually gave up, but was heart broken. I did the girl thing, went out got drunk and slept with an ex to make myself feel better. My boyfriend came back around and I told him what happened because I wanted to be honest. We are now married and happy but he still sometime mentions that I hurt him sooo bad and how could I cheat on him....but I don't think I cheated!! Opinions???

2007-09-20 08:45:13 · 37 answers · asked by must<3dogs 3

I like being a homemaker but feel like society says I can't and men don't want that anymore (I am in my early 50's). Any thoughts from the men out there.

2007-09-20 08:39:31 · 30 answers · asked by Snively 2

2007-09-20 08:36:34 · 17 answers · asked by Rita 6

I am taking a survey, hopefully enough people will answer. Who believes that a mid life crisis is more mental, and family stressing in women then in men?

2007-09-20 08:33:50 · 11 answers · asked by jules vern 1

My husband is severly bipolar and physically,mentally, emotionally, and verbally abusive. I love him but I can not take it anymore. I am scared of him and he told me if I leave he will kill me...I live in a little town with no family or friends, I have no where to go, no money, or car..I have two babies that see him do these things to me...he has never harmed them in any way but he has hurt me many time...so, I am here to find out suggestions on what to do...

2007-09-20 08:33:44 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife is still angry at me for some of my habits that I have not rid myself of since my residency. During that time I had put my career before her and our kids and I had a short temper. I tried to change those habits after residency but the process has been too slow for her.
So she has moved our kids with her far away to her hometown. My deployments obviously have not helped any.
I have vowed to ensure that I prioritize my wife and our kids above me now that my surgical training is over and to ensure that my wife will not feel alone again and that we will make decisions together as a couple.
Furthermore, all her affection has disappeared from her correspondence to me. She denies having an affair and I trust her still.
Will my wife ever get over her anger and resentment and can I do anything to expedite that process? Should I still continue to give expressions of affection toward her and just bear the pain that I feel when she does not reciprocate?

2007-09-20 08:33:34 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

im 21 years old and been having consistant hot flashes for the past 3 years... i could be sitting in a cold room and suddenlh have the feeling as if im in an oven.... im concerned about my health and worried about early menopause which has happened in my family before.... - any advice on what causes it or what i should do?...

2007-09-20 08:32:48 · 8 answers · asked by russiansgirl5 2

I am separated and have been for 2 months now. I left because of some verbal abuse, neglectfulness, etc. My husband seemed to shut down after repeated attempts of trying to get me to get a job. I wanted to stay home and raise our child. He makes a decent enough amount of money. We are in our 20's and have 2 kids. I want to work things out, he says he wants to and still loves me but has little faith things will work out this time. I want for our family to be back toegther so bad eventually. We do not get along with each others families and I dont have a job, that is his problem with me. What should I do in order to get us back on the right track? I am obsessing over the time period of how long we have been separated and am starting to get very depressed. Any advice, Please! I am doing this on my own and going out of my mind!
Also, it is annoying that he treated me really bad emotionally but acts as if he has little faith that I will do what I am supposed to do! However, I love him!

2007-09-20 08:29:51 · 5 answers · asked by Rebecca H 1