the more debt she get in the more money i have to spend out of my pocket to get her out. Seems like every time i turn around someone is calling bout money she owe them
2007-09-20 09:34:59 · 9 answers · asked by keeping it real 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If she won't control her spending, you might need to dump her.
If there is one way to ruin a relationship it is a spoiled brat of a wife who keeps racking up credit card debt she can't pay.
2007-09-20 09:39:47 · answer #1 · answered by ZCT 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being married does kind of make u responsible for her debts, and if she continues to be irresponsible with her spending she can financially bury u, u need to confront this right away and if u can't work it out u may be looking at divorce, she sounds immature and wants immediate gratification but wants to do nothing to get the better things. in this life there is no free ride, one has to be willing to work hard for the finer things in life. i would refuse to pay her debts, and make her responsible for them.
2007-09-20 12:02:58 · answer #2 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're going to stay married, then you'll have to start setting up individual accounts such as checking etc. This is a real problem so you may want to consider getting advice from an attorney.
2007-09-20 09:43:49 · answer #3 · answered by Irish 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd say your wife is very selfish, stop paying off her debt, make her pay it back herself... The more you pay off her debts the more she is going to take you for a fool.
We all have to work for the 'finer things in life' so she shouldnt expect it to be handed to her on a plate.. !
2007-09-20 09:39:49 · answer #4 · answered by kazimsgirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Simple cut all her credit cards up, and come to some agreement about outgoing and incoming bills etc. You have to take some control now or it the end of your marriage.
2007-09-20 09:53:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL her to get off her *** and get a job then she will appreciate the value of money b/c she is b/having selfish as it is putting more stress and responsibilities on your shoulders
2007-09-20 10:18:30 · answer #6 · answered by sarah71397 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cut her off!
take her cards and put her on an allowance.
this is what i had to do with my husband until he could manage his allowance and realize where his money was going. now, we have a joint acct and it's all good.
she needs to learn a lesson. explain to her what she's doing.
she needs to learn how to manage money!
2007-09-20 09:45:16 · answer #7 · answered by joey322 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give that ultimatum! starting jan.1st either we both work or all those nice things u like won't be purchased by me anymore. the reason being bada boom bada bing, it makes me feel yada yada way, and its tearing our relationship apart because i feel point a, b, and c. good luck!
2007-09-20 09:47:17 · answer #8 · answered by Benny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-09-23 18:37:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋