Marriage & Divorce - 20 September 2007

Feels like we are stuck in going through the motions as far as handeling everyday task that I feel like just roommates. Only in first year of marriage.

2007-09-20 08:25:08 · 16 answers · asked by Bethany 1

Waht do you think of the husband who was out drinking all night, came in at 4:00 am then showered and hid his underclothes? Then called his wife a stupid f*ckin beotch

2007-09-20 08:23:16 · 14 answers · asked by LaRae 2

they were seperated ... marriage on the rocks for over 10 years .. he met someone and fell in love .. wanted to marry the other woman .. but then got back together with wife because she begged him to come back .. and the new woman did not want to stand in the way coz he had 2 kids .. now the wife is on his case for every little thing and is torturing both herself and him.. she knows her husband is probably still in love with the other woman ... could she be right ?

2007-09-20 08:21:42 · 20 answers · asked by lilli 1

Marriage is a joke, getting married is cliche. Women lose thier identies to cheating men.. Its such a joke..

oh I just watched bridezilla by the way and those idiots need to get a life..

hope this doesn't offend anyone

2007-09-20 08:21:17 · 10 answers · asked by omg rain is wet 2

Well i have been married happily for 5 years I have four kids 2 with the husband and 2 with my ex. I have just come to the conclusion that i want to be with my ex i have always wanted to but he has never been completly right for me I LOVE him and My husband but i reaaaaaallly want to be with my ex but i LOVE my husband and dont want tohurt my kids or husband but what do i do what 2 do

2007-09-20 08:19:46 · 12 answers · asked by teddybearstunna 1

2007-09-20 08:18:17 · 17 answers · asked by live forever 1

My wife and I argue alot and because we're devout Catholics we don't believe in divorce. Do you think that it's better to slap her around a little bit to get her to behave rather than getting a divorce?

2007-09-20 08:11:13 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been seeing this boy for approx 3 years, he is a great guy both of us at the time we starting see each other were just coming out of bad marriages and agreed that we never wanted to get married again. Well as you should have guessed I really care for this guy and I am now regretting ever stating that I never wanted to get married again because I do believe that he is the guy for me. We do not live together at this time and whenever I ask him where he sees himself 4 years from now he states that he cannot predict the future and is not sure. I know that he does not want to get married and I think I may be alright with that but it also seems like he wants no commitment at all at times. When I ask him if he does not want to get married to me because he is waiting for something better he gets very defensive and states yeah sure that is what I am waiting for and changes the subject. SOOOOO I guess my question is what does everyone think of this!!!

2007-09-20 08:08:32 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

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2007-09-20 08:07:54 · 11 answers · asked by ? 4

2007-09-20 08:06:23 · 20 answers · asked by Just Me! 1

Im 23 yrs old, married and have 3 stepkids on child of my own. My husband changes personalities like socks. One day he's the man I want to spend my life with, then next day I want to be so far from him and never think of him again. We are 3 weeks left to deliver our first child together and we are putting up for adoption. Its very hard and nerve racking, my husband is not here for me emotionally, he rarely ever talks to me which he was the talker not me. I am so fed up with having to do everything myself with no support from the man who rushed it all. Should I stay or go? What would you do and why?

2007-09-20 07:59:19 · 14 answers · asked by pchristine84 1

we been together long time. he so sweet, such a helpful, everything he is nice man but one problems every time we get fight he get so mad and lost temp and would out control on me & he said he sorry for that and his lost temp, he said he felt like it's not him. and you know i dont like for him been drinking (He drink once a while i would said a couples time in once a few months - he is not drinking person but depend on his mood) but i told him i did not like if he drink he said that im been control him, i was very upset i told him i would never control him but i just dont like him been drinkin' i told him for example he didn't like if i get any piercing he didn't like so i respect that what he don't like. but he said that im control him for me been dont like him drink, am i control? i just dont like it i never control him. and i told him maybe we should go to the counselor he don't want go and ain't feel comfortable, so now how can he calm with his angry temp? & not to out of control?

2007-09-20 07:58:53 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-20 07:58:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My hubby recently found out that I think one of his friends is a decent looking person. Not that I lust after him, have a crush on him, or anything like that. Just that I think he is a good looking man. He's blowing this whole thing out of proportion and going so far as that he doesn't want me around any of his friends now! He thinks that I should have thought "he's a friend of my hubby's so I can't look at him that way". Like I can turn off my eyes. So, how many of you would be offended if your spouse thought one of your friends was good looking?

2007-09-20 07:43:45 · 46 answers · asked by redpeach_mi 7

Looking for a marriage seminar for newlyweds, in Illinois, Missouri or Michigan

2007-09-20 07:38:57 · 4 answers · asked by kenyanamerican 2

There is this guy i met i really like him we met on bad terms though.. cause i was bailing my mother out of jail and he happened to be the bondsman so he helped me get her out....So, while we were waiting we talked and he seemed like a really nice guy .... After my mom came out he told her how sweet i was and he gave me a hug and her too.And when we were parting he told me that he hoped to see me around... considering we live in the same town.. My question is should i call him and ask him if we could be friends and maybe see if there is any interest there are should i just leave it alone... What do you think ?

should i still call and see even if the only reason i have his # is because he is the bondsman

2007-09-20 07:38:06 · 13 answers · asked by nikkiblue 1

he only calls his father when he wants money and when every he is home we end up giveing him up to 1000. for his trip home his father see's nothing wrong with this the rest of my step kids are the same they only see there father as a bank. we are having a hard time paying our own bills at home along with having 2 teens at home.
I wish they would just stay the hell out of our lives as they have they own ...they are 24,21,19........I just stay way from home when they are around.
At one time i would play the good little house wife and cook big meals for them and make sure everything was wonderful for them..I would do this for my husband not his kids. now i resent him . help.....

2007-09-20 07:30:17 · 18 answers · asked by b 2

2007-09-20 06:53:15 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-20 06:33:06 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

have the flu
I do every thing for my wife
but my sisterinlaw is complaining that her husband is calling her every 15 minutes and wants something
she said to my wife that he is disturbing her while she is on this site
he goes to work 6 days(nights ) a week
she does nothing
now he is ill and gone to work,and she has just phoned to tell us to look at her 360 site

is that a B*TCH or what

2007-09-20 06:33:01 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay so techinally hes not my ex but we are seperated and our daughter stays with me. He sees her sometimes but today he told me his family was planning an outing at an amusement park and he was taking Ava this Saturday but I already made plans for me and her to go with my new guy and his kids to go on his family's horse farm. I don't know what to do but I'm furious that he waited until the last minute and didn't even ask but instead TOLD me he was taking her. I was thinking of not even opening the door when he came to get her. What do you think?

2007-09-20 06:28:38 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

How can sleep boss wife? I need to no quietly.

2007-09-20 06:21:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

A Bavarian politician (who has no chance of winning the seat she is running for) is advocating this. With all the prenuptual agreements that are flying around these days (some including weight restrictions for the wife) is this really that outrageous?

The politician advocating that married spouses wouldn't be as like to take their marriage for granted if they knew the other spouse would have to agree to renew every seven years. What do you think of that?

2007-09-20 06:09:12 · 13 answers · asked by Chris D 4

I feel guilty and now he doesn't trust me, and watches every move I make, and I am getting frustrated and angry becasue I am feeling trapped by the questions and him not letting me go anywhere and having to ask permission to go anywhere or do anything...any suggestions on what I should to and how to deal with this??

2007-09-20 06:00:21 · 17 answers · asked by xmasnoelle 1

This one girl, an old friend of my husband's from highschool, won't stop calling my husband? He ignores all her phone calls and then she calls from a private number after he doesn't answer. The one night I got so fed up b/c she called very late, and I said "What? he's sleeping!" And she called back left a message and said "Why is your wife answering your phone?" Finally he answered months later to see what she wanted, and she just wanted to keep their friendship. I don't think its right for married couples to have single friends b/c she only wants to hang out with him, and not get to know me. How do I get her to back off since she won't take a hint from my hubby!!??

2007-09-20 05:58:10 · 46 answers · asked by Mommabear 6

My wife and I have been trying to get into the swinger scene for awhile now, and she has always been reluctant. Now that we are getting more involved in it, and things are starting to happen, she is the one doing everything and I am left on the sidelines. She claims she is doing it for me, but refuses to let me join in, and when it seems like I might be, now she cuts it off. I want it to be about us, and cant understand why she would want to do anything and not involve me. She tells me that she doesnt want to feel left out of any situation, but then leaves me out. What's a guy to do?

2007-09-20 05:39:59 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have just decided to end a 6yr relationship with the father of my 5yr old. We never really got along, never communicated and I no longer have any feelings for this man. Although he is a good father and our daughter loves him to death i have decided that it is best for us to end the relationship. Problem is i just found out im 2mos pregnant with this mans kid. i feel our relationship definitely cannot b saved. im only 26yrs old, im still in school. i am also looking for a job. i have thought about keeping it without having to get back w him but i ask myself is it fair to the child? i really need advise on this i know i wont b the first or last single mother out there, but i also have goals i have yet to accomplish. Please dont judge me, i am praying alot so that i have the wisdom to do the right decision. what should i do?????

2007-09-20 05:35:25 · 18 answers · asked by blackmamba81 2

My Client decided to get an annulment and he would like to do so before purchasing. My question is how long does the process usually take and how would he go about getting it done?

2007-09-20 05:33:33 · 4 answers · asked by Nikki 2

My husband and I have only been married for 2.5 months and we've realized that it was a mistake.

2007-09-20 05:30:41 · 5 answers · asked by mimidps@sbcglobal.net 1

Why do so many people say dont have sex till your married? Im 19, not married and have a daughter. My boyfriend and are together and very happy. I know so many people who get married and 5,10,28 years later divorce. I know what marriage is about and whats it's supposed to mean so I dont need a lecture but being married doesnt mean you love the person any more, trust them any more or communicate better. So why is it that everyone (even people my age and youger) are getting married. Do they feel it makes them grown up or what. I just think marriage is becoming over-rated and also a joke. What do you think?

2007-09-20 05:03:02 · 29 answers · asked by Samantha 4