Marriage & Divorce - 18 September 2007

for fulfillment? where do we try to find it?
1. wife/husband. what if we find it's not there, then what?
2. employment. what if we lose our job, then what?
3.family. if we see its not there, where do we turn?
4.money. money can buy alot of things, but rich people seem to be more miserable.
where do we search? Seems to me, if I seek total fulfillment from any of these or others, and I lose them, then there goes my fulfillment...... thoughts? where do seek it from?

2007-09-18 23:46:57 · 13 answers · asked by Fugitive Peices 5

I would want to delete my husband but still have my children what would you like to do?

2007-09-18 23:40:50 · 26 answers · asked by sexiebum 5

My ex husband is playing mind games and power games using my 9 year old daughter as a leverage , we've been divorced for 7 years seperated 9 years , he emotionally , verbally abused me and emotionally , verbally and physically abused our 2 older sons 17 , 15 , he turned his back on our 12 year old son refusing weekend access to him 5 months ago.

His last weekend access visit he didnt take our daughter because he had to go interstate for work or so he claimed I later found out through his mother he'd taken his g/f and her daughter out of state for a dance recital the daughter was in I didnt care because I enjoy having all my kids together on weekends , when my daughter rung tonight to have her weekly phone conversation he put a guilt trip on her because the school holidays start this friday and I made plans for her myself and her 4 brother's to go away , he told her it wasnt fair he missed her heaps and he was really looking forward to seeing her she started to cry .(CTN).

2007-09-18 23:12:59 · 9 answers · asked by JadeyOz 5

The power was to turn people into articles of clothing. what would you turn him into for good, and wear it for the rest of that day

2007-09-18 23:10:05 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

m financially dependent on him as he wanted a housewife. i have never ever worked.now he wants to dump me and go ahead to another woman n make his wife.he does not want to give a single penny to me.what should i do now at 40 and to begin working at this age.

2007-09-18 22:13:34 · 16 answers · asked by christina 2

My husband and I have been together for nearly 7 years and we have a one year old little boy. We're currently looking into buying our first place but he's acting like he's not interested or bothered. I'm the one making all the appointments with the real estate agencies and searching for properties to look at. At the last appointment he didn't even want to go see it and I ended up going alone. I don't get it. He says he want's us to get our own place but why isn't he showing any interest or effort?
He's since more cold with me and distant and acts like a child having tantrums. My friends say he's feeling the pressure of having to make a huge loan but everyone goes through this. I'm tired of feeling like I have 2 kids to look after.

2007-09-18 22:09:52 · 11 answers · asked by Drou 1

don't get me wrong, nothing wrong with her. she's just fat and ugly... but I would like to hang out with her and marry and divorce her and get money... how can I fake interest?

2007-09-18 22:00:30 · 16 answers · asked by Shbien 1

This is happening in a case where a particular couple was happy with two male kids with three years interval youngest son is of few months only. The girl's father who is a Police Officer has misguided his daughter to join a job 600 KM away in a difficult area against the wish of his Son-in-law so that both (husband & wife) could not live together. Here agrieved husband has purchased a house in the name of his wife with his earnings where wife's financial contribution is nil. This house has value of over Rs. five million. The girl's father has hidden agenda to grab this property by creating differences between his daughter and son-in-law. False complaints have been tried by the Girl's father under the threat of domestic violence act all of them have been proved base less. Due to atrocious behaviour of in-laws now the agrieved husband is living on different place other than the purchased house from more than three months. How this marriage will be restored so that values remains intact?

2007-09-18 21:09:24 · 20 answers · asked by Honey786 4

the gulf war killed my sense of humor and to some degree my imagination. Keep it simple I'm a simple man who adores her but my mind doesn't work the way it used to before I saw the worlds dark side up close and personal...help me think of or remember life when I was blissfully blind to hate and horror

2007-09-18 21:05:42 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hey everyone! Before I get started, I just want to say that we all make mistakes in life and this mistake is the biggest one that I have made. My wife and son did not move with me to Italy because my wife decided she did not want to be with me anymore. We are still married but been separated for 8 months. We are going through a divorce right now. I met a beautiful german woman 3 months ago..she is crazy about me and I am crazy about her. I don't ever want to lose her. There is something wrong...I have not told her that I was married and have a son. There reason why I have not told her is because I waited so long to tell her and I didn't think that we would become so serious. I want to tell her but I know she will be upset and will not trust me again. A couple of days ago we told each other that we loved each other. I need all the assistance I can get.

2007-09-18 21:01:12 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I mean if he asks.

2007-09-18 20:52:46 · 15 answers · asked by BeautifulGirl 2

2007-09-18 20:34:50 · 15 answers · asked by back to life and enjoying 2

Hey everyone! Before I get started, I just want to say that we all make mistakes in life and this mistake is the biggest one that I have made. My wife and son did not move with me to Italy because my wife decided she did not want to be with me anymore. We are still married but been separated for 8 months. We are going through a divorce right now. I met a beautiful german woman 3 months ago..she is crazy about me and I am crazy about her. I don't ever want to lose her. There is something wrong...I have not told her that I was married and have a son. I want to tell her but I know she will be upset and will not trust me again. A couple of days ago we told each other that we loved each other. I need all the assistance I can get.

2007-09-18 20:12:43 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex makes around $50,000 a year but I am getting ready to claim child support and he has said that since he is self employed he will lie and say he makes $25 a month as he will not give me any money. I am sure he doesn't file taxes and even if he did he will lie on them. He said any woman that asks for child support is desperate and just money hungry. So that is what I am up against :-( He has visitation but hasn't seen my son in 2 years.

2007-09-18 20:01:07 · 4 answers · asked by jodilynn0303 1

I was very surpised to find my husband wearing a baby pink sweater yesterday morning. It's just very shocking to see a straight man wearing pink, so would you wear it?

2007-09-18 19:28:41 · 15 answers · asked by 結縁 Heemei 5

Ok tonight while on phone with husband my dog starteed going crazy and barking at the front door. I looked out the window and saw that someone had put stuff all over my car. I told him that someone had put **** all over my car and I was going to check it out that I would call him right back he is gone alot with his job and is out of town. he said alright and we hung up. so I took out my legal gun and went out since is was midnight but forgot my phone on the bed. I woke my oldest son up who is 16 and asked him to keep an eye out I would be right back. went out side to find condoms and lotion and panties all over my car so after making sure everything was safe and had a friend from next store come out and help me clean off the car and keep an eye out I went back inside my husband jumped my butt because I didn't call him right back and tell him what was going on he knows I can take care of my self after all the training in self defenese and wepons training I can out shoot and kick his ***

2007-09-18 19:18:09 · 12 answers · asked by sunshine 2

Please suggest some solutions also.

How to get off to a good start right at the begining of your married life ?

What is the best way to resolve disputes in married life ? i.e thru abitration, mutual discussion, intervention of third party etc.

2007-09-18 19:09:17 · 25 answers · asked by Pramod R 4

2007-09-18 18:27:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-18 18:24:31 · 28 answers · asked by angela_puth 1

Is there a correct time? If you "feel" love for someone should you tell them or hold it close until the correct moment? I'm the kind of guy who speaks his feelings but I know it can be a detriment as it could move things to fast. How long did it take you to hear or use it in a new relationship? Divorced last year and sooo new to dating. thanks

2007-09-18 18:18:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Let me start by saying that I love my wife to death, for real, I think she's sexy as hell, and I'm always trying to get her to have sex. But she is abit overweight. I don't care one freakin bit, i like some meat on em', as long as she's healthy, ya know.
But she hates the way she looks, no matter how much I tell her. She said she doesn't like to have sex too often cuz she said she doesn't feel good about herself, I quote "cuz I'm a fatass". I exercise often for martial arts, and the second I mentioned any exercises she could do, she gets pissed off saying, i quote "I don't need advice from a toothpick" and dismissing everything i say, saying what I do couldn't work for her, she couldn't keep up, yadda, yadda, yadda. I even said to get an appointment with a doctor or someone who could give her a "diet plan" she'll listen to anyone....but me. why? after all this, she still does nothing about it, and we have the same conversation a month later..............What do I do?

2007-09-18 18:15:09 · 26 answers · asked by Tapout 4

I have a friend who I am in currently in a relationship with, but the problem is that he is married, and his wife wants them to get back together. However he doesn't want to get back with her, he says that he wants to stay with me. But I don't want to get in the way of them possibly getting back together. So I have decided to keep him just as one of my guy friends. He is having problems with this because he says that I am hurting him, by doing this. He says that he loves me, and I seriously believe him. Here's the other catch I am married, but I am in the middle of a divorce. I don't want to stand in the way of any marriage getting back together. I care about him, but I am not in love with him. My husband wants us to get back together, because he still loves me. I need advice. What should I do?

2007-09-18 18:12:23 · 18 answers · asked by Jordan Is My Love 3

im a bit of a procrastinator (sp) i know ive been married over 2 years now. and due to all the moving (6 times in 2 yrs)and my husbands deployments thankz to the army life :o) i havent had the time or hardly even thought about changing my name. but b4 my husband deploys again soon i wanna go and change my last name b4 he leaves. what do i need to do EXACTLy?? thank u for ur answers in advance :)
(we were married in arizona but currently live in louisana just in case thats a factor)

2007-09-18 17:45:56 · 12 answers · asked by arizonamommy23 2

My husband is in the airforce and I'm so depressed and lonely, I live in Fort Walton and I have 2 friends here, because all the other wives went home with there families, but I couldn't because I live on base and have to keep up the lawn. I just break down all of the time. Please words of wisdom thanks

2007-09-18 17:45:42 · 6 answers · asked by Barbara 3

my husband likes to download pic of women , naked ,with lagerie , ect. i cant understand why can anyone tell me please.

2007-09-18 17:45:01 · 10 answers · asked by lv 1

My husband is addicted to porn and has taken photos of unsupecting women's asses while the kids were with him on outings. He is also physically violent at times. Refuses to get therapy of any kind. Should I prevent him to the extreme him never seeing our kids again or should I go for joint custody?

2007-09-18 17:42:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am starting to see that i have control issues with my boyfriend, i dont have much trust and am always so scared that he is going to hook up with another girl, he has really never gave me an excuse to be like this, but i mean i will put off even seeing my family so that i know where he is when he gets off work, i dont want to be like this... (we live together) what do i do how can i change this?

2007-09-18 17:41:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Please answer if you are divorced for reasons other than infidelity, physical abuse or drug abuse.

What happened to split you up? Have you moved on? How long were you married? Do you regret it?

2007-09-18 17:41:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I had a conversation about this topic this weekend. I myself am overweight for my height so I am not picking on anybody in particular. It just seems that whenever you hear a person say their husband/wife is jealous and controlling and always accusing them of cheating ... it is because they are overweight or have very low self-esteem.

You don't typically see or hear of women that look like Beyonce or Eva Longoria worrying that their man is straying. What are your thoughts?

2007-09-18 17:29:13 · 16 answers · asked by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4

Me and my fiance have been together 2 years. We found a house we really like and can afford $300 a month. He is in his last year of high school and works at mcdonalds but he is trying to find a different job. I am in my second year in college and I dont have a job. Im 20 and i really want one problem is financial aid will go down. Should we wait until he is out of school or get married now. We want to have a courthouse marriage and then a reception. I dont know if it is worth getting financial aid and not having a job. Please Help

2007-09-18 17:18:57 · 18 answers · asked by indygrad2006 2