Is there a correct time? If you "feel" love for someone should you tell them or hold it close until the correct moment? I'm the kind of guy who speaks his feelings but I know it can be a detriment as it could move things to fast. How long did it take you to hear or use it in a new relationship? Divorced last year and sooo new to dating. thanks
2007-09-18 18:18:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
the correct time is when you "feel" it's right. there is no timeline.
love is a tricky thing. when you first start dating someone and everything clicks-you're so "high" and happy about it that you might think you love that person and it's only been a few days!!
i think true love is when you realize that you can't see yourself w/out this person, you would do anything for them, and just thinking about them puts a smile on your face.
my boyfriend told me after we had been dating for 3 months. i was new to dating at that point too (had been divorced for 6 months when we met) and i was a little scared when he said it but i knew that i loved him too so i said it back. that was 3 years ago.
just go with your heart and trust your instincts-the rest will fall into place!!
good luck!!
2007-09-18 18:25:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It only took us a few months to say that we loved each other. We were already friends first. This is my first boyfriend since my divorce. It has been over 4 years for me to even want to date again. I was just enjoying being single.
2007-09-18 19:04:22 · answer #2 · answered by Jai 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I fell in love, at least what i thought was love about 2 months into dating my boyfriend but i was not going to say it first because i know that can sometimes drive them away. He said it first then i said it back it took him about 3 months to tell me he loved me. That was 30 years ago.
2007-09-18 18:23:42 · answer #3 · answered by Teenie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Say it when you feel it. Be prepared if she is not ready to say it back, and don't get offended. If things are going well, she will say it when she is ready. I was seeing someone who said it before I was ready, and when he would say it, I would just be silent. He said it was ok if I wasn't ready to say it yet, and within a few weeks I had realized I felt the same way. Just don't say it if you don't really mean it.
2007-09-18 18:25:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
my husband told me he loved me after a month together. after a couple of weeks of him saying it over and over again i finally asked him to stop saying it. i told him it made me feel pressured to say it back even though i wasn't ready to. then about a month later i said it to him and he was so happy. we have been together for 9 years now.
2007-09-18 18:26:51 · answer #5 · answered by shellbell 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋